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High Conflict Hell

High Conflict Hell

De : JeniLynn Marks and Jenn Gladish
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Stories about high conflict co-parenting told by two single moms — child custody issues, family court, divorce, relationships, and parenting.


NOT for people in healthy co-parenting relationships (unless you just like gossip and chit chat with your girlfriends).


If you split holidays peacefully✨ Truly — bless you. But this is not your church. ✨


A normal haircut turning into World War III?

Seven motions filed in a single day?

Routine threats of jail time?


If any of that hits…welcome, Hellion.

You’re exactly where you belong.

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    • Reactive Abuse: Gaslighting, Cheating, Ashley Madison, and Being Labeled The High-Conflict Co-Parent
      Jan 11 2026

      TL;DR: Poke. Poke. Poke. Then you react — and suddenly you’re the villain. That’s reactive abuse. In this episode, we talk about what it looks like in real life: cheating, Ashley Madison, gaslighting that makes you doubt your own reality, the silent treatment, and the kind of public humiliation that leaves you spiraling… and then getting told, “Wow. You’re crazy.” We also take it into family court and high-conflict co-parenting, where custody threats and lawyer games are used to bait reactions — and your emotional response becomes “evidence” while the original behavior vanishes. If you’ve ever felt like there’s no right way to respond — because your response is the trap — you’re in the right place.

      Long Description: Reactive abuse is one of the most misunderstood dynamics in high-conflict relationships — especially in divorce, custody battles, and family court. It is a toxic relationship dynamic and it what happens when someone pokes, provokes, gaslights, humiliates, threatens, or destabilizes you over time… until you finally react. And then your reaction becomes the story.

      In this episode of High Conflict Hell, Jen and JeniLynn break down what reactive abuse looks like in real life — not in a textbook, but in marriages, cheating, Ashley Madison profiles, custody exchanges, text messages, and court filings.

      We talk about how gaslighting works in real life: how someone can deny, minimize, mock, or manipulate reality until you start doubting yourself — and how that pressure eventually explodes into an emotional reaction that gets used against you. We share stories of affairs, digital breadcrumbs left on purpose, humiliating discoveries, and the moment you’re told, “Look at how crazy you are,” instead of being asked why you were pushed there.

      This isn’t just about romantic relationships. We take this straight into high-conflict co-parenting and family court, where reactive abuse becomes a legal strategy. When one parent withholds the kids, files vague motions, sends provocative messages, or lets their lawyer do the dirty work, the goal is often the same: trigger a reaction that can be reframed as instability, harassment, or “high-conflict behavior.”

      We talk about:

      • How cheating and secrecy (including Ashley Madison) create emotional traps
      • How lawyers and custody disputes can be used to bait reactions
      • Why vague parenting plans and holiday schedules become pressure points
      • How reactions get turned into evidence while the original behavior disappears
      • How gaslighting and provocation spill over onto children
      • And how women — especially emotional, expressive women — get labeled “crazy” for responding to mistreatment

      We also share deeply personal stories, including what it’s like to watch reactive abuse shift from a marriage into co-parenting, and what it feels like when your child starts being gaslit and blamed for reacting to a parent’s behavior.

      If you’ve ever been told you’re “too emotional,” “unstable,” “dramatic,” or “high-conflict” — when

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    • Weapons & Whiplash: When Guns Enter the Custody Chat in High-Conflict Parenting
      Jan 6 2026

      TL; DR A real conversation about high-conflict co-parenting when guns, fear, domestic violence, lawyers, and the court enter the picture — and the whiplash that occurs when one parent is treated like a saint one day and a sinner the next. We unpack how parenting whiplash becomes a control tactic, how safety concerns get turned into attacks, how the family law system can minimize real risk, and why the “best interests of the children” often don’t align with the safety or wellbeing of the parent trying to protect them.

      Long description: Family court is supposed to protect children — but in high-conflict co-parenting, it often does the opposite.

      In this episode of High Conflict Hell, Jen and JeniLynn take parenting whiplash out of the self-help world and drag it into its real form: high-conflict co-parenting hell.

      This isn’t about inconsistent parenting styles. It’s about what happens when one parent treats you like a saint one day and a sinner the next — praising you, forgiving you, asking to “co-parent peacefully,” and then flipping the moment you raise a concern, set a boundary, or talk about safety.

      This is whiplash as a weapon.

      We dive into what happens when toxic relationships don’t end at separation — but instead continue through custody disputes, co-parenting communication, and the family law system itself. When guns, fear, domestic violence in relationships, and lawyers enter the picture, safety concerns don’t always lead to protection. Too often, they get turned into accusations.

      This conversation goes beyond theory. It’s rooted in lived experience navigating high-conflict co-parenting, domestic violence dynamics, custody evaluations, and family court decisions that prioritize “stability” over safety.

      We talk openly about what it’s like to raise children while managing real fear, ongoing legal pressure, and a system that often minimizes risk unless something catastrophic happens.

      We unpack how concerns about weapons, intimidation, and volatile behavior can be reframed as “drama” or retaliatory parenting. When courts focus narrowly on the “best interests of the children,” they often ignore the reality that a parent’s safety and wellbeing directly impact a child’s safety — even when the system treats those interests as separate.

      Throughout the episode, we break down:

      • How toxic relationships continue through co-parenting long after separation
      • Why domestic violence in relationships doesn’t always look like what courts expect
      • How parenting whiplash becomes a control tactic
      • How safety concerns can be weaponized against the parent raising them
      • The disconnect between “best interests of the child” and real-world protection
      • How fear, guns, and intimidation get treated in family court
      • What it’s like to parent while living in constant fight-or-flight
      • How children absorb conflict they never chose

      We also talk about the quieter damage — the exhaustion, hypervigilance, isolation, and self-doubt that come fro

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    • Mother-in-Laws: When Grandma Becomes the Third Parent - It’s STILL Your Fault
      Jan 4 2026

      TL;DR High-conflict co-parenting doesn’t always stay between the parents. Sometimes it gets handed off to a mother-in-law. This episode breaks down what happens when grandma becomes the parent, boundaries disappear, and pork tips turn into accusations of parental manipulation. We unpack deep relationships that turn superficial, how loyalty to adult children can override what’s best for the grandchildren, and why moms end up blamed for custody conflicts they didn’t create.

      Long Description: Co-parenting is supposed to happen between two parents — but in toxic relationship dynamics, it often doesn’t.

      In this episode of High Conflict Hell, Jen and JeniLynn take mother-in-laws out of the “babysitter” category and put them where they actually land in high-conflict cases: inside the parenting dynamic itself — where it can turn everything into a burning, chaotic hell.

      This isn’t about normal grandparent involvement. It’s about what happens when toxic co-parenting gets passed to grandma — when loyalty to an adult child overrides what’s best for the grandchildren.

      This is triangulation as a parenting system.

      We dig into how deep, meaningful relationships with mother-in-laws can turn superficial or adversarial overnight, especially once separation, lawyers, or custody conflict enter the picture.

      How support turns conditional. How communication shuts down. And how everyday parenting moments — meals, texts, feelings, boundaries — suddenly become accusations of manipulation, disrespect, and conflict.

      This conversation is rooted in lived experience navigating high-conflict co-parenting where the pressure doesn’t just come from an ex, but from the extended family protecting them.

      When a mother-in-law steps into the parenting role, accountability blurs, power shifts quietly, and the mother raising concerns becomes the problem.

      We talk openly about what it’s like to be blamed for conflict you didn’t create — especially when you’re still doing the day-to-day parenting, holding routines together, and trying to protect your kids while being undermined by people who claim they’re “just helping.”

      Throughout the episode, we unpack:

      • What co-parenting with an ex-mother-in-law actually looks like in high-conflict situations
      • How triangulation becomes normalized through “help,” “support,” and silence
      • Why loyalty to adult children often eclipses responsibility to grandchildren
      • How mothers end up labeled manipulative, dramatic, or controlling for setting boundaries
      • How small moments get turned into evidence of bad parenting
      • Why blame consistently flows toward the parent doing the most work
      • How fear, control, and legal pressure intensify third-party involvement
      • What it’s like to parent while being watched, judged, and rewritten by others

      We also talk about the quieter damage — the grief of losing relationships you thought were real, the exhaustion of defending yourself over nothing, and the emotional whi

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