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  • WHY we're SCARED to HAVE KIDS | EP. 30
    Oct 31 2025

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    How do folks just be having kids, getting pregnant and acting all non-chalant about it? Grant and I are SUPER CHALANT. We're both nervous of becoming parents, and we're both terrified of the actual birthing process and changing our lifestyle to be more family/kid friendly.

    We get into everything from the dangers of pregnancy, to raising mixed kids and last but definitely not least– single motherhood and the fear of family curses.

    As per usual, when things get super deep, I cry. If there's anyone else out there worried about parenthood, we hope this helps because you are definitely not alone. That kind of commitment is scary– even if you're already a parent.

    Even though this is not a Halloween episode, this topic is def spooky for us.


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    Love you Besties!
    -Grant & Aja

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    51 min
  • What it's like DATING an ENTREPRENEUR
    Oct 17 2025

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    Ok, yall so some of you may know that back in March, Grant and I broke up because it felt like we couldn't get on the same page financially. But luckily we figured it out. In this EP we talk about dating as entrepreneurs and how money has played a major part in our relationship, our break up and us getting back together.

    In our 8+years together, we've definitely gone through it all but dating as entrepreneurs has been one of our biggest hurdles.

    and maybe the title is a lil dramatic but the point is, money definitely matters in a relationship.

    As always Besties, let us know your thoughts in the comments!

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    -Grant & Aja

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    55 min
  • JEALOUSY in your RELATIONSHIP
    Jul 12 2025

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    Is jealousy always wrong in a relationship? If you meet a PG SD who wants to fund you and your man's lifestyle, are y'all entertaining it? 👀 After a few funerals, when do they become considered family functions? 😭
    We get into all of it in this episode!!

    Let us know your thoughts in the comments, especially on the SD stuff, Aja's tryna see sumn 👀👀

    Send us a text and let us know what y'all think on this one.
    Love you Besties!
    -Grant & Aja

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    1 h
  • WHY you SHOULD date your BEST FRIEND
    Jun 9 2025

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    There’s something different about falling for your best friend-- but is it a good idea to date them? In this episode, we get into what makes dating your best friend so magnetic, and when comfort starts to blur the line between closeness and losing yourself. We also get honest about some of the red flags you might overlook in men and women in dating and friendships. nd what does it really mean when you have to choose your partner over your friends? Is it fair, or foul?

    Like always, we get into it!

    👀Drop your story in the comments: Have you ever dated your best friend? How did it go?

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    Send us a text and let us know what y'all think on this one.
    Love you Besties!
    -Grant & Aja

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    43 min
  • BREAKING UP saved our RELATIONSHIP
    May 28 2025

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    Episode 25: We’re back!! We took a break from the podcast to work on our relationship and deal with some personal issues. And yes… we did break up! Watch and see how it was the best thing for our relationship.

    Send us a text and let us know what y'all think on this one.
    Love you Besties!
    -Grant & Aja

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    54 min
  • The FRIEND ZONE is NOT REAL
    Mar 1 2025

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    Episode 23: Sorry to break it to ya, but the “friend zone” doesn’t exist—🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏻‍♂️ Plus, why is it okay for men to chase beauty, but women get dragged for wanting financial security? That's a double standard 😬
    We’re unpacking all that and more in this epsiode!

    Send us a text and let us know what y'all think on this one.
    Love you Besties!
    -Grant & Aja

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    1 h
  • HOW TO: Keep the ROMANCE ALIVE in Your Relationship
    Feb 14 2025

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    HAPPY VALENTINES DAY Y'ALL! To celebrate we did this episode on how to keep the romance alive in your relationship.

    We’re breaking down 15 solid tips to keep things fun, exciting, and giving you solid and honest advice to help you stay connected with your parther. Whether you’re in a long-term relationship like us or just getting started, these are our 15 favorite ways we've kept romance in our relationship after 8 years!

    Send us a text and let us know what y'all think on this one.
    Love you Besties!
    -Grant & Aja

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    43 min
  • Being HONEST about our BODY COUNT
    Feb 1 2025

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    Episode 22: Y'ALL in this week's episode we share some truths, SECRETS 🤫 and very controversial opinions 👀
    Are H03 phases important? Can personal trainers be trusted and How many bodies is TOO MANY?
    It's our first episode back from our lil hiatus so we had a lot to get off our chest.
    Try to guess our body count before we reveal it DROP YOUR GUESS AND OPINIONS IN THE COMMENTS.

    Send us a text and let us know what y'all think on this one.
    Love you Besties!
    -Grant & Aja

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    56 min