In this vibrant conversation, Jenny Raven sits down with Jedy, a Dubai-based techno musician, cross-dressing performer, visual artist, and unapologetically unique creative force. Together they dive into identity, ADHD creativity, stage personas, kink culture, horror aesthetics, and what it truly means to live boldly without fear of judgment. It's left field for Jenny, but then, isn't everything left field?

00:00:00 Intro

00:00:22 Meet Jedy

00:00:50 Who Jedy Is

00:01:37 Creativity & ADHD

00:03:38 Discovering Dressing Up

00:04:18 Wanting to Stand Out

00:04:45 Fangs & Vamp Vibes

00:05:39 Stage Personas

00:06:38 Cross-Dressing Expression

00:07:44 Stop Caring What People Think

00:08:05 Power of Performing

00:08:45 Finding Your Audience

00:10:17 Horror & Fetish Shows

00:11:57 Advice to Hidden Selves

00:13:01 Where to Hear Jedy’s Music

00:13:51 Outro / Music Play

Get ready for a fabulously flirty episode! Jenny Raven cozies up with the dazzling Sofia Anderson, a cross-dresser from Australia, for a playful, intimate chat about all things feminine. From favorite lingerie and sky-high heels to the delicious dance between masculine and feminine energies, these two share their journeys, fantasies, and the cheeky thrill of embracing their true selves. With giggles, confessions, and a dash of daring, Jenny and Sofia explore self-acceptance, sensuality, and the joy of living authentically—heels, lipstick, and all. It’s girl talk with a twist, and you’re invited!

• Introduction & Setting the Scene (00:00:04) Jenny introduces Sofia, their connection, and the purpose of the conversation.
• Quickfire Questions: Preferences & Playfulness (00:01:38) Rapid-fire questions about fashion, style, and playful preferences.
• Sophia’s Favorite Outfit & Style (00:03:33) Sophia describes her ideal outfit and her attraction to classic, mature femininity.
• Attraction to Classic Femininity (00:04:28) Discussion on why Sophia prefers a timeless, sophisticated look over girlish styles.
• Ideal Social & Intimate Company (00:06:07) Sophia shares her favorite company and social experiences as Sophia.
• Perfect Evening & Social Dynamics (00:06:53) Sophia details her ideal night out, the mix of personalities, and the importance of female energy.
• Masculine Sexual Energy vs. Feminine Erotic Energy (00:09:53) Jenny introduces the concept of masculine vs. feminine sexual energy and their personal experiences.
• Sophia’s Experience of Feminine Energy (00:12:06) Sophia reflects on her enjoyment of foreplay, seduction, and mutual pleasure as Sophia.
• Integrating Feminine and Masculine Personas (00:15:39) Discussion about embodying feminine personas in real life and the differences in behavior and energy.
• Public Expression & Social Reactions (00:18:05) Jenny and Sophia discuss the challenges and implications of being publicly out as cross-dressers.
• Visibility, Acceptance, and Social Media (00:20:24) Jenny shares experiences with public reactions, social media, and the spectrum of acceptance.
• Creativity, Intelligence, and Tolerance (00:23:01) Exploring whether creative industries are more accepting and the role of intelligence and tribalism.
• Honesty, Relationships, and Family (00:26:38) Jenny discusses coming out to her partner, concerns about her son, and generational differences in acceptance.
• Transformation & Public Presentation (00:29:48) Sophia and Jenny talk about changes in mannerisms, public outings, and the risk of being recognized.
• Identity, Labels, and Integration (00:32:02) Reflections on being oneself beyond gender labels and integrating all aspects of identity.
• Personal Histories & Early Experiences (00:33:48) Jenny and Sophia share their childhood experiences, early desires, and the evolution of their feminine personas.
• Sexuality, Gender Roles, and Relationships (00:36:40) Discussion on sexual preferences, gender roles, and the impact on relationships.
• Private vs. Public Expression of Femininity (00:39:50) Sophia questions whether keeping Sophia private allows for more rebellion and playfulness.
• Sexual Energy, Taboo, and Media (00:41:45) Exploring how sexual energy was expressed in youth, the impact of cultural taboos, and media influences.
• Eroticism, Porn, and the Power of Writing (00:48:24) Frustration with mainstream porn, the appeal of erotic writing, and the importance of mental stimulation.
• Aging, Testosterone, and Freedom (00:53:45) How aging, changing hormones, and life circumstances allow for more freedom and expression.
• Living Authentically & Regret (00:57:00) Encouragement to embrace femininity early, but also acceptance if it happens later in life.
• Therapy, Support, and Small Steps (00:59:16) Advice on seeking therapy, finding support, and taking incremental steps toward self-acceptance.
• Recognizing Allies & Coming Out (01:00:21) How to identify supportive women and the ease of coming out to receptive people.
• Conclusion & Next Episode Tease (01:01:06) Wrapping up, excitement for the next conversation, and Jenny’s closing remarks.