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  • Matt Benson: Mental Health, Self-Worth, and Pressure for Student-Athletes
    Jan 27 2026
    Glow For Hope: Sparking Conversation on Mental Health Matt Benson: Mental Health, Self-Worth, and Pressure for Student-Athletes When performance becomes identity, pressure builds — and silence can take a toll Host: Kelly Poelker Guest: Matt Benson Category: Mental Health · Student-Athletes · Coaching & Parenting Sports are often praised for building discipline, toughness, and resilience. And while that can be true, what often goes unspoken is what happens when pressure, expectations, injury, and silence begin to outweigh the game itself. In this episode, host Kelly Poelker sits down with Matt Benson, a former high school and collegiate football player and former high school coach, to talk about the mental health challenges student-athletes face — especially when self-worth becomes tied to performance, playing time, or identity as “the athlete.” Matt shares his lived experience navigating grief after losing a close friend to suicide, struggling with depression and addiction, and the emotional impact of career-ending injury. He also reflects on how coaching shaped his understanding of connection, compassion, and the importance of asking simple but meaningful questions: Are you okay? What You’ll Learn How self-worth can quietly become tied to performance and starting rolesWhy many athletes appear “fine” while struggling internallyThe emotional impact of injury and sudden loss of sport identityHow grief and unprocessed loss affect student-athletesWhy numbing pain doesn’t resolve what’s underneathWhat coaches can notice beyond discipline and attendanceHow parents can ask hard questions without needing all the answersWhy connection — not correction — can change outcomes Guest Spotlight: Matt Benson Matt Benson is a former high school and collegiate football player and former high school football coach. He played football at Eastern High School in Louisville, Kentucky, and later at the University of Pikeville, where he was part of the team that won the first conference championship in school history. After college, Matt coached high school football at Fern Creek High School from 2020–2023. He speaks openly about mental health, grief, addiction, injury, and the importance of connection and honesty in athletics. Key Quotes “Football was the one thing I felt confident I was good at — and it was taken away from me in seconds.” “I tried so hard to be enough for everyone else and never focused on being enough for myself.” “Alcohol doesn’t take the pain away — it just numbs it.” “You never know what’s going on in somebody’s life unless you ask.” “Grab their hand and walk with them.” Resources & Next Steps Start a conversation: Share this episode with an athlete, parent, coach, or educator and talk about how pressure and self-worth showed up in your own sports experience. For athletes: If something resonated, consider reaching out to one person you trust — you don’t have to carry it alone. Visit Glow For Hope: Explore resources, events, and conversations at glowforhopenfp.org Next Episode We’ll continue creating space for honest conversations around mental health, lived experience, and the people impacted by silence. Subscribe so you don’t miss what’s next. Support the Show Glow For Hope is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit dedicated to raising awareness for mental health and suicide prevention through conversation, community, and connection. Make a Donation Share Glow For Hope Share this episode with someone who might need it.Leave a rating or review on your favorite podcast app.Follow Glow For Hope for upcoming events and resources.Consider a tax-deductible donation to support our mission. Crisis Resources If you or someone you love is struggling, help is available. United States: Call or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline)Emergency: Call 911 or go to your nearest emergency room Disclaimer This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health care. If you are struggling, please seek support from a qualified mental health professional. The post Matt Benson: Mental Health, Self-Worth, and Pressure for Student-Athletes first appeared on Glow For Hope | Suicide Prevention and Mental Health Awareness.
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    1 h
  • Lawrence C. Harris on Self-Belief, Small Steps, and Taking Ownership as a Teen
    Jan 13 2026
    Glow For Hope: Sparking Conversation on Mental Health Lawrence C. Harris on Self-Belief, Small Steps, and Taking Ownership as a Teen Confidence, consistency, responsibility, and finding your people — without perfection Host: Kelly Poelker Guest: Lawrence C. Harris Category: Mental Health · Teens & Young Adults · Confidence We’ve covered a wide range of mental health topics on Glow For Hope — from first responder wellness, addiction and recovery, to trauma, grief, literacy, and the role community plays in emotional well-being. Today’s conversation shifts the focus in a really intentional way: teens and young adults. In this episode, host Kelly Poelker sits down with Lawrence C. Harris, a youth empowerment speaker and author, to talk about how self-belief actually shows up in real life — in grades, leadership, relationships, and decision-making — and why so many young people quietly talk themselves out of the future they want. Lawrence shares parts of his own story, including childhood bullying, trauma, therapy, and journaling — and explains why the goal isn’t to “flip a switch” into confidence. It’s about building belief layer by layer through small, consistent actions that create real evidence you’re capable. You’ll also hear a clear explanation of Complex PTSD (C-PTSD) vs. PTSD, why the nervous system resists change even when it’s good for you, and how taking ownership means focusing on what you can control — without blaming yourself for what others did. What You’ll Learn How low self-belief shows up in school performance, leadership, and everyday decisions.Why teens often stop trying — even when they have the ability to improve.How childhood messages shape what people believe is “possible” for them.Why confidence isn’t a switch — it’s built by evidence, layer by layer.A practical way to stay consistent: make the input the goal (not the outcome).Why small steps work with your nervous system instead of triggering shutdown.The difference between PTSD and Complex PTSD (C-PTSD) in simple terms.How journaling can help stop spirals and shift your inner story.What “taking ownership” looks like when life hasn’t been fair.What adults can do differently when teen behavior doesn’t make sense on the surface. Guest Spotlight: Lawrence C. Harris Lawrence C. Harris is a youth empowerment speaker and author who works with teens and young adults in schools, churches, and organizations to help them challenge limiting beliefs, build confidence, and step into their potential. In this conversation, Lawrence shares how therapy (including CBT), journaling, and honest self-reflection helped him move from survival mode into a life he enjoys waking up to — and why his approach is focused on simple, repeatable tools young people can use to build momentum without needing perfection. Key Quotes “When people don’t believe in themselves, especially teenagers, they just stop trying as hard.” “You have to give your brain evidence to prove that it’s possible… you build it up layer by layer.” “Everything isn’t your fault, but you’re allowed to control yourself. I’m responsible for what I do — not for what other people do.” “Instead of making the goal the goal… make the input the goal.” “One thing I wish I heard at that age: You’re loved — even if your mind tells you that you’re not.” Resources & Next Steps Connect with Lawrence: Social handle: @lawrencec.empowers (Instagram, YouTube, TikTok) Official Website: www.lawrencecharris.com Book mentioned by Lawrence: The Power of Your Subconscious Mind (Joseph Murphy) Kelly’s recommendation: A twist on Afformations (The Secret Code of Success by Noah St. John) — rather than focus on 'why I can't' do something, search for the 'how to make it happen'. Try this today (for teens/young adults): Choose one small “input goal” and do it daily for a week: Read 5 pages10 pushupsSay hello to 3 peopleJournal one page Start a conversation: Share this episode with a teen, parent, coach, or educator — and talk about what self-belief looked like in your own life at that age. Visit Glow For Hope: Explore more conversations, resources, and upcoming events on the Glow For Hope website. Next Episode We’ll continue sparking real conversations around mental health, lived experience, and community impact. Subscribe so you don’t miss what’s next — and reach out if there’s a topic you’d like us to explore. Support the Show Glow For Hope is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit dedicated to raising awareness for mental health and suicide prevention through conversation, community, and engaging events. Make a Donation Share Glow For Hope Share this episode with someone who might need this conversation.Leave a rating or review on your favorite podcast app.Follow Glow For Hope on social media for events and resources.Consider making a tax-deductible donation to support our work....
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    54 min
  • Linda Mitchell on the Mental Health Impact of Not Being Able to Read
    Jan 6 2026
    Glow For Hope: Sparking Conversation on Mental Health Linda Mitchell on the Mental Health Impact of Not Being Able to Read Literacy, shame, access, and emotional well-being across generations Hosts: Kelly Poelker & Delisa Richardson Guest: Linda Mitchell Category: Mental Health · Literacy · Community Wellness Literacy is rarely part of mental health conversations — yet it shapes confidence, stress levels, independence, and a person’s sense of hope. In this episode, Glow For Hope hosts Kelly Poelker and Delisa Richardson sit down with Linda Mitchell, Founder and Executive Director of the Metro East Literacy Project (MELP), to explore the emotional toll of low literacy and why it often remains a hidden struggle. Linda shares how low literacy can show up as shame, frustration, isolation, and chronic stress — especially for adults and seniors who have spent years masking their struggles to avoid embarrassment. She also reflects on her own upbringing, including the stark contrast between two grandmothers: one whose life was expansive because she could read, and one whose world became smaller because she could not. This conversation highlights how literacy is deeply connected to agency, dignity, and emotional well-being — and why access to books, libraries, and stigma-free support can be life-changing across generations. What You’ll Learn Why low literacy is a hidden but powerful factor in emotional well-being and mental health.How shame and “faking it” affect adults who struggle to read.The connection between literacy, independence, and navigating healthcare, finances, and daily life.How generational cycles of low literacy develop — and how they can be disrupted.Why safe, judgment-free learning environments are essential for progress.How books in the home send powerful messages about value and possibility.The role libraries, Little Free Libraries, and community access play in mental wellness.How literacy can foster resilience, empathy, and a broader sense of hope. Guest Spotlight: Linda Mitchell Linda Mitchell is the Founder and Executive Director of the Metro East Literacy Project (MELP), a nonprofit dedicated to helping under-resourced families, adults, and seniors transform their lives through literacy. MELP provides free home libraries, one-on-one “kitchen table” tutoring, and community-based senior reading events that promote connection, dignity, and engagement. Linda’s passion for literacy is deeply personal. Growing up with an illiterate grandmother shaped her understanding of how reading — or the lack of it — affects independence, confidence, and emotional health. Her work is rooted in the belief that literacy is not just an academic skill, but a pathway to agency and freedom of the mind. Key Quotes “When you can’t read, shame becomes a constant companion — and that affects your confidence, your independence, and your mental health.” “Literacy isn’t just about reading words. It’s about agency, dignity, and believing your life can be bigger.” “People spend years pretending they can read — and carrying the stress, frustration, and isolation that comes with it.” “Being able to read expands your world. Without it, your world can become very small.” Resources & Next Steps Learn more about Metro East Literacy Project: Metro East Literacy Project – Official WebsiteEmail: linda.mitchell@metroeastliteracyproject.org Take action locally: Donate books, support libraries, or volunteer with literacy programs in your community. Start a conversation: Share this episode with someone you trust and talk about how literacy — or access to it — has shaped your own life. Visit Glow For Hope: Explore more conversations, resources, and upcoming events on the Glow For Hope website. Next Episode We’ll continue sparking real conversations around mental health, lived experience, and community impact. Subscribe so you don’t miss what’s next — and reach out if there’s a topic you’d like us to explore. Support the Show Glow For Hope is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit dedicated to raising awareness for mental health and suicide prevention through conversation, community, and engaging events. Make a Donation Share Glow For Hope Share this episode with someone who might need this conversation.Leave a rating or review on your favorite podcast app.Follow Glow For Hope on social media for events and resources.Consider making a tax-deductible donation to support our work. Crisis Resources If you or someone you love is struggling, you are not alone — help is available. United States: Call or text 988 for the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline.Emergency: Call 911 if you are in immediate danger.Outside the U.S.: Visit findahelpline.com. Disclaimer The conversations shared on Glow For Hope are for informational and educational purposes only and are not a substitute for professional mental health care. The post Linda Mitchell on the Mental ...
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    1 h et 11 min
  • Vinnie Potestivo on Identity, Belonging & Personal Development
    Dec 23 2025
    Glow For Hope: Sparking Conversation on Mental Health Vinnie Potestivo on Identity, Belonging & Personal Development Hosts: Kelly Poelker & Delisa Richardson Guest: Vinnie Potestivo Category: Personal Development · Identity · Media & Culture In this episode, Emmy Award–winning media advisor and former MTV talent developer Vinnie Potestivo takes us inside the personal development journey that shaped the person — and leader — he is today. Long before he was helping launch the careers of Mandy Moore, Nick Cannon, Christina Aguilera, Ashton Kutcher, Jessica Simpson, and so many others, Vinnie was a young gay man trying to make sense of identity, belonging, and the internal pressure of growing up in a world that didn’t always make space for authenticity. Vinnie shares how navigating early family dynamics, changing the spelling of his own name, finding safe spaces in tech and community, and stepping into leadership roles helped him build emotional resilience and a deep understanding of people. Those same tools later became the foundation for his work in talent and leadership development — and for the way he now helps others step into who they’re meant to be. This conversation centers on identity, connection, boundaries, and the universal journey of becoming who you needed when you were younger — especially when the world is sending you mixed messages about who you should be. What You’ll Learn How Vinnie’s early experiences as a young gay man shaped his sense of identity, safety, and belonging.The story behind changing the spelling of his name — and why our names and “fingerprints” matter so much in how we show up in the world.How chat rooms, early internet communities, theatre, and computers became safe spaces when offline spaces didn’t always feel safe.What “being mid” meant for him growing up — and how staying out of extreme highs and lows became a survival strategy.How growing up as the oldest sibling, with instability at home, influenced his drive, leadership, and people-pleasing tendencies.Why he eventually stopped letting rooms change him and instead focused on “changing the air in the room” with his presence and values.How self-confidence and boundaries helped him navigate the realities of MTV, reality television, and the entertainment industry’s pressures.His reflections on representation of queer stories in media, and why nuance and integrity matter.How he thinks about content consumption, social media, and what’s most concerning and hopeful for teens today.What he wants anyone listening — especially those hiding parts of themselves or unsure where they fit — to know right now. Guest Spotlight: Vinnie Potestivo Vinnie Potestivo is an Emmy Award–winning media advisor, talent developer, and creator economy strategist. As a former MTV casting executive, he helped discover and develop on-screen talent and pop culture moments that defined a generation — working on projects that featured Mandy Moore, Nick Cannon, Christina Aguilera, Ashton Kutcher, Jessica Simpson, Kelly Osbourne, the Osbournes, and more. Today, Vinnie partners with leaders, founders, and creatives to help them amplify their voice, grow their visibility, and build sustainable, values-aligned careers through storytelling, podcasting, and strategic media. He hosts I Have A Podcast®, where he highlights the people behind the shows and stories we love, and he generously shares tools to help creators and brands stand out in a noisy media landscape. In this episode, Vinnie steps away from the résumé and talks about the personal journey behind it: identity, self-confidence, family, community, and the internal work that made all of it possible. Key Quotes “Fingerprints give us the ability to stand uniquely, to be uniquely, and to know that everything we touch is uniquely touched by us.” “I don’t let the room change me. I change the air in the room — but I will never stop walking into rooms because I feel uncomfortable.” “If someone’s success makes me feel like a failure, I don’t want to be part of their success. I want to build with people who want me to win too.” “You don’t leave behind a legacy — you live through it.” “Congratulations on not being like everybody else. Ask yourself the big questions — and give yourself time to answer.” Resources & Next Steps Connect with Vinnie: I Have A Podcast® – Official SiteVPE.tv Visibility Gift & Creator Resources@vinniepotestivo on InstagramConnect with Vinnie on LinkedIn Explore your own story: Use this episode as a journaling prompt. Ask yourself: What did belonging look like when I was younger? What did I learn to hide? What parts of me feel ready to be seen now? Have a conversation: Share this episode with someone you trust and talk about times you’ve felt out of place, or when you’ve had to decide who you want to be in a room. Visit Glow For Hope: Find more conversations, ...
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    1 h et 2 min
  • Lux (Ashley Elzinga) on Mental Health, Reinvention, and the Power of Cannabis Education
    Dec 16 2025
    Glow For Hope: Sparking Conversation on Mental Health Lux (Ashley Elzinga) on Mental Health, Reinvention, and the Power of Cannabis Education Hosts: Kelly Poelker & Delisa Richardson Guest: Lux (Ashley Elzinga) Category: Lived Experience, Mental Health, Cannabis Education What happens when you walk away from a 15-year dream career, hit a wall with your mental health, and choose to talk about it publicly anyway? In this episode, radio host and community-builder Lux (Ashley Elzinga) shares her journey from St. Louis to Kansas City, how loneliness and suicidal thoughts showed up in her life, and why cannabis education became an important tool in her mental health toolkit. She opens up about asking for help, breaking stigma inside and outside the doctor’s office, and using storytelling and community to remind people they’re not alone. What You’ll Learn in This Episode How Lux went from “dream job” radio in St. Louis to starting over in Kansas City — and what that transition did to her mental health.What it looked like to be honest with her employer about suicidal thoughts and take time away from the mic.How loneliness during the pandemic magnified anxiety and depression, and the role therapy and medication played in her support system.Why cannabis became more than a “fun” substance and how education helped her use it intentionally and safely.Ways stigma around both mental health and cannabis shows up in doctor’s offices, workplaces, and even family systems.How journaling, content creation, and soccer community helped her reconnect with purpose and identity.Why storytelling matters so much for people who feel like they’re the only one going through something hard.The message Lux hopes people take away when she uses her platform to talk openly about being human, messy, and still moving forward. Guest Spotlight: Lux (Ashley Elzinga) Lux (Ashley Elzinga) is a Missouri native, longtime radio host, storyteller, and passionate mental health advocate. She spent 15 years on 105.7 The Point in St. Louis before stepping away from daily radio to explore new paths in cannabis education, social media, and sports — including coaching youth soccer and working as a PA announcer and in-game host. Today, she co-hosts Sparks & Lux on 101 The Fox in Kansas City, creates content that brings people together, and uses her voice to talk honestly about ADHD, anxiety, depression, suicidal thoughts, and how cannabis education became part of her wellness support. Her mission is simple: help people feel seen, heard, and less alone when life gets heavy. Key Quotes “I loved radio, but I could feel my light dimming. If I didn’t choose to leave, my listeners would eventually hear it in my voice.” “During the pandemic I was alone in a three-bedroom house. Cannabis helped pull me out of the past and future and bring me back into the present.” “If I’m not willing to talk about mental health and suicidal thoughts on a public platform, who will? I wanted people to know it’s not just ‘someone else.’” “You don’t have to destroy your life to decide something isn’t working for you anymore — whether that’s a job, alcohol, or anything else.” “I just want people to see that I’m human and they’re human — and that whatever we’re going through is something we can face, together.” Resources & Next Steps Connect with Lux on social media: Radio & life: @luxstlou Cannabis journey: Midwestern Mary Jane (as mentioned in the episode) If cannabis is part of your curiosity or care conversation, talk with a licensed medical professional who is informed about cannabis and your specific health history. If your current provider can’t have that conversation, it’s okay to seek a second opinion. If you’re feeling isolated, consider simple connection points: journaling honestly, sending a text to a trusted friend, joining a local support group, or showing up to a community event where you don’t have to “perform” — just be present. Explore Glow For Hope’s mission to spark conversations, create community, and ignite hope in real-life spaces — from events to resources for parents, caregivers, and trusted adults. Next Episode Stay tuned for upcoming conversations with guests who bring lived experience, professional insight, and real talk about mental health, suicide prevention, and the power of community. Make sure you’re subscribed so you don’t miss what’s next. Support the Show Glow For Hope is a nonprofit organization focused on mental health and suicide prevention through education, community, and conversation. If this episode resonated with you, there are a few ways you can support our work: Share this episode with a friend, family member, or coworker who might need to hear it.Leave a rating or review in your favorite podcast app so more people can find the show.Consider making a donation to help us expand resources, events, and outreach in the ...
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    1 h et 8 min
  • Linda Schuh & Gator the Therapy Dog Discuss Military Mental Health
    Dec 9 2025
    Military Mental Health • Therapy Dogs • Resilience Military Mental Health & Therapy Dog Gator with Linda Schuh Hosts: Kelly Poelker & Delisa Richardson Guest: Linda Schuh, Director of Psychological Health, 126th Air Refueling Wing, Scott Air Force Base Category: Military Mental Health, Suicide Prevention, Resilience, Community Support What does it look like to support mental health on a military base — not just in a crisis, but day to day? Director of Psychological Health Linda Schuh joins Kelly and Delisa to talk about the realities of life in the Air National Guard, the pressures service members carry, and how a trained therapy dog named Gator helps people feel safe enough to open up. From deployments and family stress to stigma, resilience, and the upcoming Mental Health Day at Scott Air Force Base, this conversation offers practical insight, encouragement, and reminders that you don’t have to walk through hard things alone. What You’ll Learn What a Director of Psychological Health does and how that role supports service members.The unique pressures and stressors military members face, especially those balancing full-time jobs with drill and deployments.How facility therapy dog Gator was trained, what he actually does on base, and how he helps people feel more at ease.The difference between therapy dogs, service dogs, and emotional support animals — and where Gator fits in.How stigma around mental health still shows up in the military, and what Linda tells people who are afraid to reach out.What’s planned for the 126th’s Mental Health Day — from yoga and equine therapy to meditation, cold plunge, and community.Practical ideas for stress management, building resilience, and being a better support to someone who might be struggling.Why simply listening, asking real questions, and knowing your resources (including 988) can literally save a life. Guest Spotlight: Linda Schuh Linda Schuh is the Director of Psychological Health for the 126th Air Refueling Wing, Air National Guard at Scott Air Force Base. She brings both lived and professional experience to her role, with 20 years of military service and over 20 years as a licensed clinical social worker. Linda served five years on active duty as an Army Military Police officer and fifteen years with the Illinois Army National Guard. After leaving active duty, she earned her Master of Social Work from Southern Illinois University Edwardsville and Washington University in St. Louis. Her career has spanned school social work, clinical and community mental health, private practice, and now counseling and support services within the Air Force community. Linda is married and has three children — two of whom are currently serving in the Navy — and she recently welcomed a very special teammate into her work: Gator, a trained facility therapy dog from DOGS Inc. in Palmetto, Florida. Together, they provide direct support, suicide prevention training, resiliency education, and a compassionate presence for the Airmen and families of the 126th. Key Quotes “I think the person who asks for help is the most courageous one, because it takes a lot to ask for help.” “Sometimes people come in, Gator runs right to them, and they’ll say, ‘He knew I needed that today.’ Just seeing their faces light up when they see him — he’s definitely in the right place.” “Leaders can’t just stop at ‘How are you?’ Get to know your people. The more you know them, the more comfortable they’ll be sharing when something’s really wrong.” “You’re not alone. There are other people struggling, and there are professionals, friends, and family who can help you. I just hope you have the courage to get help when you need it.” Resources & Next Steps Glow For Hope – Learn more about our work to spark conversation, create community, and ignite hope around mental health and suicide prevention. Military OneSource – 24/7 confidential help, resources, and counseling support for service members and their families. In the U.S., you can call or text 988 or use chat via 988lifeline.org to reach the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline 24/7. Outside the U.S., visit findahelpline.com to locate free, confidential support in your country. Next Episode Stay tuned for our next conversation, where Kelly and Delisa sit down with another guest to keep building honest, hopeful dialogue around mental health and suicide prevention. Make sure you’re subscribed so you don’t miss it. Support the Show Glow For Hope is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit dedicated to raising awareness for mental health and suicide prevention through conversation, community, and engaging events. If this episode encouraged you, there are a few simple ways to support our work: Make a Donation Share Glow For Hope You can also support us by subscribing to the podcast, leaving a rating or review, and sharing this episode with a friend, colleague, or loved one who might need it....
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    37 min
  • Jacy Fisher On Legal Planning for Mental Health: What Parents & Caregivers Should Know
    Dec 2 2025
    Caregivers · Legal Planning & Mental Health Jacy Fisher & Legal Planning for Mental Health: What Parents & Caregivers Should Know Hosts: Kelly Poelker & Delisa Richardson | Guest: Jacy Fisher, Esq. | Category: Parents, Caregivers & Legal Basics What happens when mental health, family life, and the legal system collide? In this powerful conversation, attorney and Judge Advocate Jacy Fisher joins Kelly and Delisa to unpack what parents and caregivers need to know about guardianship, involuntary commitment, power of attorney, long-term planning, and more. Whether you’re raising a teen, supporting an adult child, or caring for a loved one with serious mental illness, this episode offers clarity, language, and options you may not have heard before. What You’ll Learn Why legal decisions around mental health are really about protection, not punishment.What rights parents have when seeking mental health care or hospitalization for a minor — and where those rights hit real-world limits.How things change legally when a child becomes an adult, and why planning before age 18 (or 19 in some states) matters.The basics of adult guardianship and conservatorship — and when courts are most likely to grant them.Less-restrictive alternatives like powers of attorney and supported decision-making agreements.What an involuntary commitment really is, how the process works, and what rights the person in crisis has.How tools like special needs trusts, supplemental needs trusts, and ABLE accounts can protect benefits while still supporting quality of life.Practical ideas for starting hard conversations about legal planning with teens and young adults. Guest Spotlight: Jacy Fisher Jacy Fisher is an attorney and Judge Advocate (JAG) in the Alabama Air National Guard whose work bridges family law, criminal defense, estate planning, and advocacy for vulnerable individuals and families. With a background in psychology and a J.D. from Southern Illinois University School of Law, she brings both legal expertise and deep compassion to the families she serves. In her civilian practice, Jacy handles heirs’ property and real estate litigation, family law, criminal defense, estate planning, and probate — and has earned a reputation as a passionate advocate for heirs’ property landowners and people navigating complex systems with limited support. Jacy is also a sought-after speaker and educator, training communities and fellow attorneys on topics like guardianship, special needs planning, estate planning, and laws affecting servicemembers and their families. At the heart of her work is a simple belief: the law should protect people, not leave them behind. Key Quotes “The goal of guardianship and commitment isn’t punishment — it’s protection. We’re trying to keep someone safe when they can’t safely do that for themselves.” “Parents often feel powerless, especially when a child turns 18. Planning ahead doesn’t take away your child’s autonomy — it can actually preserve it in a safer, more thoughtful way.” “You don’t leave assets directly to a loved one with a disability if that will cost them their benefits. Tools like special needs trusts exist so they can still have a life with joy, travel, and dignity.” “If we can talk about it, we can manage it. Legal planning around mental health is hard — but pretending we’ll never need it doesn’t protect anyone.” Resources & Next Steps Learn more about Glow For Hope resources988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline InformationInternational crisis support directory (findahelpline.com)Curious about guardianship, POA, or trusts? Consider reaching out to a local attorney in your state who focuses on estate planning, disability law, or elder law.Use this episode as a starting point to talk with your family about: Who you’d trust to make decisions if you couldn’t.What “safety” looks like in a crisis.How you can support one another before things reach an emergency. Next Episode Join us next time as we continue to spark honest conversations around mental health, bringing you real stories, practical tools, and supportive voices to help you feel less alone—whether you’re the one struggling or the one holding space. Support the Show Your support helps keep these conversations going. Together, we can amplify voices, spark change, and bring hope to those who need it most. Donate Get Involved Crisis Resources If you or someone you love is struggling, you are not alone — and you are not a burden. United States: Call or text 988 to reach the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline, or use chat via 988lifeline.org.Outside the U.S.: Visit findahelpline.com to connect with mental health and crisis services in your country. If you are in immediate danger, please contact your local emergency number right away. Disclaimer The Glow For Hope podcast and all related content are for education, encouragement, and general information only. We are not providing ...
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    1 h et 26 min
  • 10 Essential Tips for Supporting Someone With Mental Illness (Without Losing Yourself)
    Nov 25 2025
    Glow For Hope: Sparking Conversation on Mental Health 10 Essential Tips for Supporting Someone With Mental Illness (Without Losing Yourself) Hosts: Kelly Poelker & Delisa Richardson | Guest: Host-Led Conversation | Category: Caregivers, Suicide Prevention, Mental Health What happens when you’re the “strong one” holding everyone else together while someone you love is living with mental illness or suicidal thoughts? In this host-only episode, Kelly Poelker and Delisa Richardson share 10 essential tips for caregivers and supporters so you can show up with compassion, protect your own peace, and remember you’re not alone in the process. What You’ll Learn Why healthy boundaries are a form of love—for you and the person you’re caring for.What “caregiver burden” looks like, and how it can impact your own mental and physical health.Key warning signs of suicidal ideation and why asking directly about suicide does not put the idea in someone’s head.How to keep communication open without going straight into “fix-it mode.”How crisis and safety plans work, and why they help reduce panic in the moment.Simple, realistic self-care practices for overwhelmed caregivers in the “sandwich generation.”How to celebrate small wins—for both the person you’re supporting and for yourself.Why giving yourself grace matters when you don’t have perfect words or answers. Guest Spotlight In this special conversation, hosts Kelly Poelker and Delisa Richardson step out from the interviewer role to talk directly to caregivers, parents, partners, and friends who are walking alongside someone with mental illness or suicidal thoughts. They talk honestly about being on constant “high alert,” the emotional and physical toll of caregiving, and the myth that you have to do it all on your own. Drawing on lived experience and research, Kelly and Delisa unpack ideas like caregiver burden, boundaries, safety planning, and the importance of sleep, nutrition, and support systems—especially for those in the “sandwich generation” caring for both older loved ones and kids or grandkids. Their message is clear: you can love someone fiercely without losing yourself, and your presence matters more than perfection. Key Quotes “You can care deeply for somebody and still protect your own peace. Boundaries are not barriers—they’re protection for you and the person you’re caring for.” “You are not solely responsible for saving someone’s life. If they’re in crisis, you don’t have to handle that alone—reach out to professionals and crisis support.” “You can’t pour from an empty cup. Taking care of your own mental health strengthens your ability to help others.” “You won’t always have the right words or perfect answers. Loving someone in pain is brave work—your presence matters more than perfection.” Resources & Next Steps Explore Glow For Hope tools, breathing exercises, and mental health resources: glowforhopenfp.org/resources988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline (U.S.) – Call or text 988 or chat online for 24/7 support: 988lifeline.orgCrisis Text Line – Text HOME to 741741 to connect with a trained crisis counselor: crisistextline.orgNAMI (National Alliance on Mental Illness) – Education, support groups, and resources for families and caregivers: nami.orgAFSP – Signs of Suicide – Learn more about warning signs and how to talk about suicide safely: afsp.org/signs-of-suicideFind a therapist or support group in your area: psychologytoday.com Next Episode Join us next time as we continue to spark honest conversations around mental health, bringing you real stories, practical tools, and supportive voices to help you feel less alone—whether you’re the one struggling or the one holding space. Support the Show Your support helps keep these conversations going. Together, we can amplify voices, spark change, and bring hope to those who need it most. Donate Get Involved Crisis Resources If you or someone you know is struggling or in crisis, please reach out for help: U.S.: Call or text 988 to reach the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline (available 24/7).International: Visit findahelpline.com for international hotlines. Disclaimer This podcast is for informational and awareness purposes only. It is not intended to provide medical advice. Please consult your healthcare provider for guidance about your individual situation. 🎧 Listen, share, and help us spark conversation. Together, we can illuminate hope. The post 10 Essential Tips for Supporting Someone With Mental Illness (Without Losing Yourself) first appeared on Glow For Hope | Suicide Prevention and Mental Health Awareness.
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