FEELING BEHIND IN YOUR 20s? 🎀

What happens when you've spent 10 years chasing your dream, but you're still not where you thought you'd be by now?

We're often told to follow our dreams, work hard and trust the process, but nobody really talks about what it feels like when the journey takes longer than you expected. In this episode, Lottie Jade shares her experience of pursuing her dreams as an artist and singer-songwriter, and the realities of navigating a journey that doesn't always go to plan.

Because building your dream life isn't always about the big wins. Sometimes it's about learning to trust your timing, keep showing up and reminding yourself why you started in the first place.

ABOUT THE EPISODE 🎙️

In this episode of Girls Like Me, I'm joined by Lottie Jade, an artist and singer-songwriter, to talk about what it really looks like to chase your dreams for 10 years, navigate the feeling of falling behind and keep going when life doesn't look how you imagined.

We explore the realities of pursuing a career in music, the pressure of feeling like you should be further ahead and what it takes to keep believing in yourself when your dreams take longer than expected.

In this episode, we talk about:

– What it feels like to chase a dream for 10 years without being where you thought you'd be

– Navigating the feeling of being behind in your 20s

– The pressure of comparing your journey to other people's timelines

– The realities of pursuing a creative career and continuing to show up when things don't happen overnight

– Learning to trust your own journey and keep working towards the life you want to build

This episode is for the ambitious woman who knows what she wants from life but sometimes wonders whether she's taking too long to get there.

If you've ever questioned your progress, compared yourself to someone else's success or wondered whether your dreams are still possible, this conversation is for you 🤍

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