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Get Outta the Damn Jar with Sarah Khan

Get Outta the Damn Jar with Sarah Khan

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You've built success on being the backbone of other people's visions. And somehow your excellence is the exact thing that's kept you from building what you actually want. It's not that you can't see the label from inside the jar, you ARE the jar. You've become so known for what you're brilliant at, it's become the thing that contains you.


I'm Sarah Khan, TEDx speaker and creator of the Architecture of Power™. Get Outta the Damn Jar is where accomplished women come to figure out why their excellence stopped working for them and how to build something that's actually theirs. Influence, authority, and a body of work that outlasts their involvement.


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  • EP03: I'm Awake! But Why Now?
    Mar 5 2026

    Four years ago, I was sitting in a hotel ballroom watching a keynote speaker. She was sharp, confident, genuinely good and I had a thought: I could do that. But instead of exciting me the way it usually would, it landed hard, almost heavy. Because the next thought was: well, why haven't I?

    That was my awakening. Not a lightning bolt. Not a breakdown in the parking lot. Just an inconvenient, quiet, almost devastating recognition in a room full of strangers.

    In Episode 3, I'm making good on the promise I made at the end of Episode 2 — we're talking about the awakening. What it actually is, why it arrives when it does, and why the women who feel it most acutely are almost always the ones closest to something significant. This is not a crisis. It's not a malfunction. It's not a hormonal reckoning or an identity spiral. It's recognition. And recognition, when it finally arrives after years of being ignored, is one of the most useful (and disorienting) things that can happen to you.

    What you'll learn in this episode:

    • Why the awakening is not crisis and why that reframe changes everything
    • The four patterns that tend to trigger it: the introduction moment, the visibility moment, the birthday moment, and the accumulation moment
    • Why it feels destabilizing even when the new story is more accurate than the one you've been telling yourself
    • The grief and the quiet rage that come with it and why skipping either one will cost you
    • What the research actually shows about how the brain changes in midlife (hint: you're getting better, not worse)
    • The Power Continuum™, my five stages of leadership power, where most accomplished women are sitting right now, and why they can't break through to the next one
    • Why the intensity of the awakening almost always correlates with the depth of what's available on the other side of it

    Your Next Steps:

    • Subscribe to the podcast!
    • Connect on Social: https://www.instagram.com/sarahkhanoutloud

    Get Outta the Damn Jar is sponsored by NYSH Strategic. Original music by Omar Iqbal.

    If you have topics you'd like the show to discuss, send an email to sarah@nysh-strategic.com.

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    18 min
  • EP02: You are Her. I Am, Too.
    Mar 5 2026

    You are not behind. You are not broken. You have not wasted your potential or made the wrong choices. You are exactly where a woman with your particular combination of gifts, operating inside a system built the way this one is built, would be at this point in her life.

    I don't do pep talks. So that's a diagnosis. And a diagnosis is useful because it opens up alternatives to how you're feeling, what you're experiencing, and what actually comes next.

    In Episode 2, I'm doing something different. I'm not handing you a framework or a roadmap. Let's talk about what it actually feels like to be you on the inside, in the quiet, in the middle of the night when your brain won't stop running and the clock feels like it's ticking louder than it should. Because the most precise map in the world is useless if you don't first feel like someone understands the territory you've been traveling.

    This is me showing you that I do.

    What you'll learn in this episode:

    • Why the gap between where you are and where you know you could be is not your fault and why it was never yours to fix alone
    • What the exhaustion you carry actually is and why sleep and vacations won't touch it
    • Why praise has stopped landing the way it should, and what's really underneath that
    • The logical — not irrational — roots of your self-doubt, and why the most capable women carry the most corrosive version of it
    • Why midlife feels like a reckoning and not a crisis, and why that distinction matters
    • Why you don't need fixing, a mindset shift, or more hustle, and what you actually need instead

    Your Next Steps:

    • Subscribe to the podcast!
    • Connect on Social: https://www.instagram.com/sarahkhanoutloud

    Get Outta the Damn Jar is sponsored by NYSH Strategic. Original music by Omar Iqbal.

    If you have topics you'd like the show to discuss, send an email to sarah@nysh-strategic.com.

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    26 min
  • EP01: What's Your Problem? I'm Glad You Asked?
    Mar 5 2026

    What if everything keeping you stuck isn't about you at all, but about a system that's been working exactly as designed?

    In this debut episode of Get Outta the Damn Jar, I'm introducing the concept that this entire show is built on: the competence trap. I'm talking about what happens when you're so exceptional at execution that the system literally reorganizes itself to keep you there, and why that's not a confidence problem, a visibility problem, or an imposter syndrome problem. It's a structural one.

    I share the story of the year I worked myself to the bone for a promotion I never got and what I was told when I finally asked why. I also walk through the story of Claire, a woman I worked with who spent 17 years building an entire function from scratch and still couldn't break through to the C-Suite despite doing everything she was told to do. If any of this sounds familiar, this episode is for you.

    What you'll learn:

    • What the competence trap actually is and why the standard definitions don't go far enough
    • Why this pattern hits high-performing women harder than anyone else
    • The difference between being indispensable and being powerful (they are not the same thing)
    • Why "executive presence" feedback is often the most convenient thing an organization can say
    • How the competence trap shows up in entrepreneurship (leaving corporate doesn't automatically free you from it)
    • The difference between situational and structural ownership of your ideas
    • Why IP development is the structural exit to a structural trap

    Your Next Steps:

    • Subscribe to the podcast!
    • Connect on Social: https://www.instagram.com/sarahkhanoutloud

    Get Outta the Damn Jar is sponsored by NYSH Strategic. Original music by Omar Iqbal.

    If you have topics you'd like the show to discuss, send an email to sarah@nysh-strategic.com.

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    22 min
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