We’ve all heard about the Five Love Languages—Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, Gifts, Acts of Service, and Physical Touch. But what if there’s a missing piece that your heart has been begging for?

In this episode, Dr. Tiff explores the idea of adding a sixth love language — Emotional Safety — arguing that true love requires a sense of calm, trust, and the freedom to be vulnerable. Using vivid metaphors and personal stories, she explains how Emotional Safety helps soothe the nervous system and why it’s essential for healthy relationships. If you’ve ever had great “chemistry” but constant anxiety, this one’s for you.

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New York Times Article: The Five Unofficial Love Languages

Ep75 | Chemistry or Chaos: 3 Simple Questions To Know For Sure

MORE LOVE, LESS HUSTLE: Join Dr. Tiff for this upcoming LIVE event designed for women who are tired of over-performing in their romantic relationships. As part of the Working Lunch Series, MORE LOVE, LESS HUSTLE will help you unpack the patterns that keep you hustling for love, explore why you default to fixing, proving, & over-performing, and guide you through the simple inner-work needed to call in the love you deserve. To register and view upcoming dates, tap here, or visit https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/morelovelesshustle

The ONE Within 30-Day Reset is a one-of-a-kind journaling experience designed to improve your most intimate connections by focusing on YOU. In just 5-10 minutes per day, I’ll help you confront your unique relationship challenges and begin to make the necessary changes to start attracting the love you deserve. To learn more, go to DrTiffanieHenry.com/theonewithin

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Does your “chemistry” usually come with anxiety, overthinking, and emotional whiplash? This week, Dr.Tiff breaks down the difference between real chemistry and chaotic familiarity—and why highly driven women are sometimes drawn to what hurts. Turn the volume up and learn the 3 simple questions to ask yourself in order to know for certain.

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MORE LOVE, LESS HUSTLE: Join Dr. Tiff for this upcoming LIVE event designed for women who are tired of over-performing in their romantic relationships. As part of the Working Lunch Series, MORE LOVE, LESS HUSTLE will help you unpack the patterns that keep you hustling for love, explore why you default to fixing, proving, & over-performing, and guide you through the simple inner-work needed to call in the love you deserve. To register and view upcoming dates, tap here, or visit https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/morelovelesshustle

The ONE Within 30-Day Reset is a one-of-a-kind journaling experience designed to improve your most intimate connections by focusing on YOU. In just 5-10 minutes per day, I’ll help you confront your unique relationship challenges and begin to make the necessary changes to start attracting the love you deserve. To learn more, go to DrTiffanieHenry.com/theonewithin

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Ever wonder how smart, ambitious women end up in some of the messiest relationships? In this fun, light, and a little-bit-messy episode, Dr. Tiff chats with actress/writer/director Tiffany Yvonne Cox about her new vertical series “Unexpected Company”—and the very real patterns it reflects in our love lives. Listen via podcast of WATCH the full episode on YouTube.

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UNEXPECTED COMPANY - A brand new vertical series written, directed by, and starring Tiffany Yvonne Cox can be seen on Instagram, Youtube & TikTok.

MORE LOVE, LESS HUSTLE: Join Dr. Tiff for this upcoming LIVE event designed for women who are tired of over-performing in their romantic relationships. As part of the Working Lunch Series, MORE LOVE, LESS HUSTLE will help you unpack the patterns that keep you hustling for love, explore why you default to fixing, proving, & over-performing, and guide you through the simple inner-work needed to call in the love you deserve. To register and view upcoming dates, tap here, or visit https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/morelovelesshustle

The ONE Within 30-Day Reset is a one-of-a-kind journaling experience designed to improve your most intimate connections by focusing on YOU. In just 5-10 minutes per day, I’ll help you confront your unique relationship challenges and begin to make the necessary changes to start attracting the love you deserve. To learn more, go to DrTiffanieHenry.com/theonewithin

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Do you call yourself “low-maintenance,” “chill,” or “easygoing” in relationships—but secretly feel unseen and under-nurtured? In this episode, Dr. Tiff unpacks how the “cool girl” identity is often a survival strategy, not a personality trait, and how it keeps you hustling for love by needing less instead of doing more.

You’ll walk away with a deeper understanding of why you’ve been proud of needing less—and how that pride may be quietly costing you the love you deserve.

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MORE LOVE, LESS HUSTLE: Join Dr. Tiff for this upcoming LIVE event designed for women who are tired of over-performing in their romantic relationships. As part of the Working Lunch Series, MORE LOVE, LESS HUSTLE will help you unpack the patterns that keep you hustling for love, explore why you default to fixing, proving, & over-performing, and guide you through the simple inner-work needed to call in the love you deserve. To register and view upcoming dates, tap here, or visit https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/morelovelesshustle

The ONE Within 30-Day Reset is a one-of-a-kind journaling experience designed to improve your most intimate connections by focusing on YOU. In just 5-10 minutes per day, I’ll help you confront your unique relationship challenges and begin to make the necessary changes to start attracting the love you deserve. To learn more, go to DrTiffanieHenry.com/theonewithin

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A lot of women hear “More Love, Less Hustle” and think, “That’s for people struggling in their romantic relationships. I’m good there.”

But what about the places where you’re not good?

• The parent who never calls unless they need something
• The sibling or cousin who always needs money
• The friend who disappears until they want a favor
• The coworkers or church folks who treat you like the unpaid project manager of everyone’s life

In this episode of Fix Your Relationships, Dr.Tiff shares a powerful snippet from More Love, Less Hustle that had the zoom room saying, “Whew." You’ll hear her coach a woman who realized: “I’m not hustling for love in my relationship. The hustle is with my family.”

If you’re the one your family, friends, and coworkers always lean on, even when it hurts you, you'll want to turn up the volume and take notes. This episode will show you why More Love, Less Hustle is about way more than romance.

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MORE LOVE, LESS HUSTLE: Join Dr. Tiff for this upcoming LIVE event designed for women who are tired of over-performing in their romantic relationships. As part of the Working Lunch Series, MORE LOVE, LESS HUSTLE will help you unpack the patterns that keep you hustling for love, explore why you default to fixing, proving, & over-performing, and guide you through the simple inner-work needed to call in the love you deserve. To register and view upcoming dates, tap here, or visit https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/morelovelesshustle

The ONE Within 30-Day Reset is a one-of-a-kind journaling experience designed to improve your most intimate connections by focusing on YOU. In just 5-10 minutes per day, I’ll help you confront your unique relationship challenges and begin to make the necessary changes to start attracting the love you deserve. To learn more, go to DrTiffanieHenry.com/theonewithin

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In Part 2, I'm diving even deeper into how we can stop arguing with red flags. In this episode, I'm breaking down three of the most common red flags high-achieving women explain away—and giving you five powerful questions to ask yourself before you excuse another red flag away. Grab a pen and some paper, because this is episode is where you start interrupting the pattern for real.

Did you miss Part 1? Check out Stop Arguing With Red Flags: Why Smart Women Can't Just Walk Away

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MORE LOVE, LESS HUSTLE: Join Dr. Tiff for this upcoming LIVE event designed for women who are tired of over-performing in their romantic relationships. As part of the Working Lunch Series, MORE LOVE, LESS HUSTLE will help you unpack the patterns that keep you hustling for love, explore why you default to fixing, proving, & over-performing, and guide you through the simple inner-work needed to call in the love you deserve. To register and view upcoming dates, tap here, or visit https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/morelovelesshustle

The ONE Within 30-Day Reset is a one-of-a-kind journaling experience designed to improve your most intimate connections by focusing on YOU. In just 5-10 minutes per day, I’ll help you confront your unique relationship challenges and begin to make the necessary changes to start attracting the love you deserve. To learn more, go to DrTiffanieHenry.com/theonewithin

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Ever look back and think, “I knew better," or, "why didn’t I leave sooner? The signs were right there.” In Part 1 of this two-part series, I'm breaking down what red flags actually are, what it means to “argue” with them, and why smart, successful women keep debating away the evidence right in front of them.

Don't Miss Part 2: The Red Flags You Debate Away + 5 Questions To Stop The Cycle

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MORE LOVE, LESS HUSTLE: Join Dr. Tiff for this upcoming LIVE event designed for women who are tired of over-performing in their romantic relationships. As part of the Working Lunch Series, MORE LOVE, LESS HUSTLE will help you unpack the patterns that keep you hustling for love, explore why you default to fixing, proving, & over-performing, and guide you through the simple inner-work needed to call in the love you deserve. To register and view upcoming dates, tap here, or visit https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/morelovelesshustle

The ONE Within 30-Day Reset is a one-of-a-kind journaling experience designed to improve your most intimate connections by focusing on YOU. In just 5-10 minutes per day, I’ll help you confront your unique relationship challenges and begin to make the necessary changes to start attracting the love you deserve. To learn more, go to DrTiffanieHenry.com/theonewithin

THERE ARE SO MANY WAYS FOR US TO CONNECT

Follow on Instagram: @DrTiffanieTV

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Ever wondered how you can be this smart, this successful, this fine—and still end up with partners who won’t commit, won’t get vulnerable, won’t let you all the way in— And an even bigger question, why do you seem to be drawn to them?

This week on the podcast, Dr.Tiff unpacks the real, deeper reasons high-achieving women get hooked on emotionally unavailable partners and gives you three powerful questions to help you break the pattern and reset how you see love—and yourself. Spoiler Alert: it has nothing to do with your intelligence.

In this episode, Dr. Tiff

• breaks down three core reasons you’re drawn to (or keep attracting) unavailable partners,
• shares real stories from her clinical work, and then
• walks you through three journal prompts to start untangling the pattern today.

If you are done feeling “too smart for this” and still stuck, this one's a must-listen.

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MORE LOVE, LESS HUSTLE: Join Dr. Tiff for this upcoming LIVE event designed for women who are tired of over-performing in their romantic relationships. As part of the Working Lunch Series, MORE LOVE, LESS HUSTLE will help you unpack the patterns that keep you hustling for love, explore why you default to fixing, proving, & over-performing, and guide you through the simple inner-work needed to call in the love you deserve. To register and view upcoming dates, tap here, or visit https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/morelovelesshustle

The ONE Within 30-Day Reset is a one-of-a-kind journaling experience designed to improve your most intimate connections by focusing on YOU. In just 5-10 minutes per day, I’ll help you confront your unique relationship challenges and begin to make the necessary changes to start attracting the love you deserve. To learn more, go to DrTiffanieHenry.com/theonewithin

THERE ARE SO MANY WAYS FOR US TO CONNECT

Follow on Instagram: @DrTiffanieTV

Visit The Website: www.DrTiffanieHenry.com

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