What happens when you sit down with a pastor and ask every difficult question you’ve been afraid to say out loud?In this episode, we’re joined by Pastor Ryan Schlachter of Legacy Church in NYC for one of the deepest conversations we’ve ever had on the podcast. We talk about faith, science, suffering, morality, heaven, relationships, sex before marriage, evolution, free will, and what it actually means to believe in God in the modern world.Ryan opens up about his own journey back to faith after hitting a dark point in college and explains why he believes Christianity is less about religion and more about relationship, purpose, and meaning.Whether you’re religious, skeptical, curious, or somewhere in between, this conversation is about asking questions honestly and exploring the things most people think about but rarely discuss openly.If you enjoyed this episode, make sure to subscribe, leave a comment, and share your thoughts below.00:00 Intro01:12 Ryan’s Journey Back To Faith05:20 Experiencing God Personally08:35 The 3 Possibilities About Jesus14:08 Morality, Souls & Meaning16:25 Can Bad People Still Go To Heaven?23:15 Religion vs Relationship With God28:11 Why Does Suffering Exist?33:20 Faith vs Science & Evolution39:40 Sex Before Marriage Explained44:17 Religion, Faith & Belief48:18 Why Young People Are Returning To Church53:11 What Jesus Was Really Like54:21 Legacy Church NYC

Actor and former professional basketball player Everett Osborne joins First Round’s On Me for a powerful conversation about reinvention, identity, faith, failure, and the courage it takes to start over. Everett opens up about walking away from basketball, stepping into acting, starring as Sweetwater Clifton, and learning how to trust the process when life forces you into a new chapter.Joe, Hannah, and Everett also dive into purpose, ego, personal growth, faith, the pressure of chasing a dream, and why the journey matters just as much as the destination.00:00 Intro00:31 Meet Everett Osborne01:49 Growing Up With Big Dreams03:21 From D1 Basketball to Playing Pro04:37 The Opportunity That Changed Everything06:07 Playing Basketball in Australia07:19 Being Close to a Life-Changing Dream09:05 Leaving Basketball Behind10:23 Discovering Acting During COVID12:21 Identity, Reinvention & Starting Over14:37 Life as a Video Game16:37 The Power of Human Connection19:22 Faith, Purpose & Something Bigger21:21 Curiosity and Asking Bigger Questions22:31 Fear of Failure23:20 Effort vs. Outcome25:20 How Basketball Prepared Him for Acting28:30 Landing the Role of Sweetwater30:16 Carrying a Forgotten Legacy32:29 Favorite Moments on Set34:10 The Full-Circle Coach Moment35:38 Who Was Sweetwater Clifton?38:18 Acting Through Real Historical Pain40:40 One Purpose or Multiple Chapters?41:38 What This Chapter Is Teaching Him42:28 Advice for Feeling Stuck44:28 Where to Find Everett45:05 Outro

When was the last time you actually saw your friends… not texted them?In this episode of First Round’s On Me, we break down why making plans feels harder than ever—and why your social life might be slipping without you even realizing it.We talk about:Decision fatigue and why you’re always “too tired”Why people cancel plans more than everHow technology is replacing real connectionWhy friendships are fadingHow to actually start seeing your friends againThis is a real conversation about loneliness, connection, and fixing your social life.🎧 Watch the full episode and subscribe for more real conversations.00:00 Intro – Why You Don’t See Your Friends01:00 Breaking Down Real Friendships02:00 Decision Fatigue Explained03:00 Why People Cancel Plans04:30 Life Feels More Isolated06:00 Why Socializing Matters07:30 The “Perfect Night” Myth08:30 Why We Choose Staying In09:00 “We’ll Do It Later” Trap10:30 Why Friendships Fade11:30 Socializing as “Medicine”12:30 Saying Yes Changes Everything13:30 Why Old Friendships Felt Better14:30 What Are You Waiting For?15:30 Younger Generations & Social Life16:30 Why Plans Never Happen17:00 Fixing the “We Should” Problem18:00 Real Example That Worked19:00 How the App Solves It20:00 Social Media vs Real Life21:30 The Real Purpose of Connection22:30 Final Advice – Just Say Yes