Where do you find your true identity—in your spouse, your past, or in Christ alone? And what happens to your marriage when both partners understand who they are in Him first?

In this episode, we tackle the identity crisis many marriages face today. Drawing from 2 Corinthians 5:17, "Therefore if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation," we explore how understanding our identity in Christ transforms everything about our marriage.

We share candidly about the baggage we brought into our marriage—Teddy's divorce, Maya's family history, and cultural patterns we had to break free from. We discuss how we both struggled with letting our pasts define us, but chose early on to never use the word "divorce" and to build something different than what we'd seen modeled.

The core message: your spouse cannot be your savior. We confess how Maya idolized Teddy early in marriage, looking to him to fill needs only Christ could meet. We address the "Jerry Maguire" lie—"you complete me"—explaining that biblical oneness isn't about losing yourself or being completed by another person, but two whole, Christ-centered people coming together in covenant.

We break down key identity truths: you are chosen and loved (Ephesians 1:4), you have redemption through His blood (Ephesians 1:7), there is no condemnation (Romans 8:1), and you are complete in Christ alone (Colossians 2:10). We explain how confession in marriage is pure honesty and vulnerability, not just seeking an apology.

Addressing the identity crisis in roles, we discuss how husbands are called to be prophet, priest, and king—hearing from God and leading their families. Wives are the "Ezer" (helper), the same word used for God as our helper, coming alongside to encourage, pray, and strengthen. We emphasize that wives can't properly submit and husbands can't properly lead unless both know their identity in Christ first.

Strong marriages are built on two people who first belong to Jesus.

If you would like prayer for your marriage or anything at all, email us at everydayidopod@gmail.com. We would love to pray for you and be an encouragement! You can also message us on Instagram at ⁠⁠⁠⁠everyday_i_do_podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠.

What would your marriage look like if you had a clear, God-centered vision guiding your decisions? And are you building your future together intentionally, or just letting life happen to you?

In this episode, we explore how every great story has a quest—and marriage is no different. Drawing from Proverbs 29:18, "Where there is no vision, the people perish," we discuss why most marriages don't fail because of one big moment, but because they slowly lose direction. We share how we started our marriage without any real vision, thinking it was just the next step in life rather than a purposeful journey requiring intentionality.

We break down what marriage looks like with vision versus without it. Without vision, couples react instead of respond, conflict becomes personal rather than purposeful, and life decisions feel random and disconnected. With vision, decisions are filtered through God's purpose, conflict becomes growth-oriented, and unity increases even in hard seasons.

Using the imagery of oxen yoked together from Amos 3:3, we explain how two people can't walk together unless they're agreed—split vision means no progress. We candidly share our current season of job loss after eighteen years and how we're trusting that God is already in the next season, we just have to catch up to where He is.

We challenge the popular idea of vision boards focused on personal desires, emphasizing instead that biblical marriage vision flows from God's design. As Psalm 37:4 truly means: when you delight in the Lord, He places His desires in your heart—it's not about getting what you want, but wanting what He wants.

We offer practical questions to discuss together: What do we want our marriage to be known for? How does our marriage serve God's purpose? What do our kids think about our marriage? Remember—it's never too late to start, whether you've been married one month or fifty years.

If you would like prayer for your marriage or anything at all, email us at everydayidopod@gmail.com. We would love to pray for you and be an encouragement! You can also message us on Instagram at ⁠⁠⁠⁠everyday_i_do_podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠.

What happens when marriage becomes lonely even while you're together? And how does isolation from community put your relationship at spiritual risk?

In this episode, we dive into the often-overlooked dangers of isolation and loneliness within marriage. Drawing from Genesis 2:18 and Ecclesiastes 4:12, we explore how God designed marriage to exist within community—never in isolation—and why the "threefold cord" of husband, wife, and God creates an unbreakable bond.

We discuss how loneliness in marriage is different from physical aloneness—you can be lying next to your spouse yet feel completely disconnected. Whether it's through busyness, smartphones creating individual bubbles, or prioritizing children over each other, we share how isolation breeds vulnerability to temptation, bitterness, and emotional walls.

Using the shepherd and sheep analogy from John 10, we explain how couples who distance themselves from their church community become like isolated sheep—easy prey for the enemy. We candidly share our own summer disconnect and how daily prayer together transformed our marriage.

We offer practical steps to combat isolation: turn off your phone when together, join a biblically-based marriage group, find godly mentors (not friends who feed your misery), and most importantly, pray together daily. We emphasize that accountability isn't about giving everyone access to your marriage—it's about having trusted, godly couples who can provide biblical perspective and loving correction.

Restoration begins with repentance of neglect, choosing pursuit over avoidance, and returning to vulnerability with your spouse. Marriage was never meant to be lived alone.

If you would like prayer for your marriage or anything at all, email us at everydayidopod@gmail.com. We would love to pray for you and be an encouragement! You can also message us on Instagram at ⁠⁠⁠⁠everyday_i_do_podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠.

What does it really mean to "leave and cleave" in marriage? And how can understanding this biblical principle transform your relationship?

In this episode, we explore the foundational marriage principle from Genesis 2:18-24 about leaving your family of origin and cleaving to your spouse. Drawing from our own early marriage struggles, we discuss how "leaving" isn't just physically moving out—it's emotionally and relationally reprioritizing your spouse above parents, siblings, and even children.

We emphasize that "cleaving" means forming a covenant bond—like spiritual Saran wrap—where spouses become glued together in every area: spiritually, emotionally, relationally, and physically.

We remind you that marriage creates a new family unit requiring effort, humility, and daily commitment—every day saying "I do" again.

If you would like prayer for your marriage or anything at all, email us at everydayidopod@gmail.com. We would love to pray for you and be an encouragement! You can also message us on Instagram at ⁠⁠⁠⁠everyday_i_do_podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠.

*Note: We're taking a two-week holiday break.*

What if your marriage is meant to reflect something far bigger than just the two of you? And what if God designed marriage from the very beginning to show the world the love of Jesus?

In Episode 14, we take you on a powerful journey into one of Scripture’s most beautiful and profound themes: the picture of Jesus as the Bridegroom and the church as His Bride. This isn’t just poetic language—it's the blueprint for understanding covenant love, sacrificial commitment, and the divine purpose of marriage.

We unpack how your marriage—whether new or decades old—preaches a message. It tells the world what covenant looks like. It shows your children what faithfulness looks like. And it reflects the love, devotion, and unity that Jesus shares with His people.

This is a conversation filled with awe, challenge, encouragement, and the reminder that marriage is not just about today—it’s about the eternal story it was designed to display.

If you would like prayer for your marriage or anything at all, email us at everydayidopod@gmail.com. We would love to pray for you and be an encouragement! You can also message us on Instagram at ⁠⁠⁠⁠everyday_i_do_podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠.

What do you do when life feels heavier than you can carry? And how do husbands and wives walk through those seasons—biblically, practically, and together?

In this episode, we open up about one of the most universal experiences in marriage: supporting each other when life gets heavy. We unpack what Scripture says about mutual submission, sacrificial love, respectful strength, and the kind of comfort that reflects the heart of God.

We also share personal moments from our journey—including seasons of overwhelm, times of healing, and how leaning into Christ and into each other reshaped their marriage and deepened their unity.

Whether you're in a challenging season or simply wanting to strengthen your marriage, this episode is a gentle but powerful reminder: you’re not failing—it’s just a season. And seasons change.

Lean on each other. Lean on Christ. And let your marriage be the refuge God designed it to be.

If you would like prayer for your marriage or anything at all, email us at everydayidopod@gmail.com. We would love to pray for you and be an encouragement! You can also message us on Instagram at ⁠⁠⁠⁠everyday_i_do_podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠.

What happens to a marriage when two people are headed in different spiritual directions?

And how much stronger could a relationship be if both partners pulled together with the same purpose?

In this episode of The Everyday I Do Podcast, we dive into what it truly means to be equally yoked in marriage. Drawing from 2 Corinthians 6:14, we unpack the biblical picture of the yoke—a wooden harness joining two oxen—and connect it to modern relationships: shared direction, shared pace, and a shared mission.

Through honest conversation, personal stories, Scripture, and practical wisdom, we explore:

• Why spiritual unity matters so deeply in marriage
• What happens when partners differ in faith, pace, or purpose
• The unique challenges of “missionary dating”
• How unequal yoking shows up in parenting, finances, forgiveness, and decision-making
• The real-life tensions created when couples come from different faith backgrounds
• Biblical encouragement for spouses who find themselves unequally yoked today
• The profound influence of a husband’s spiritual leadership
• How prayer, communication, and shared purpose strengthen a marriage
• The role of husbands and wives as allies, encouragers, and spiritual teammates
• Why a spiritually unified home so often becomes a peaceful home

If you would like prayer for your marriage or anything at all, email us at everydayidopod@gmail.com. We would love to pray for you and be an encouragement! You can also message us on Instagram at ⁠⁠⁠⁠everyday_i_do_podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠.

What does it really mean to protect your marriage in today’s world? And how do forgiveness and kindness become powerful tools for lasting unity?

In this heartfelt episode of The Everyday I Do Podcast, we continue their two-part series on Protecting Your Marriage. We dive deep into the essential practices that nurture unity and intimacy within the covenant of marriage — focusing on forgiveness, kindness, and accountability.

We explore how words can either build up or tear down your spouse, and why speaking with love and patience (as modeled in 1 Corinthians 13:4–7) is crucial. We open up about sensitive but vital topics — from pornography and emotional affairs to gossip and transparency — offering biblical truth, honesty, and hope for couples navigating these challenges.

If you would like prayer for your marriage or anything at all, email us at everydayidopod@gmail.com. We would love to pray for you and be an encouragement! You can also message us on Instagram at ⁠⁠⁠⁠everyday_i_do_podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠.