In this heartfelt episode, Janna and Larry explore the challenges and realities of conversational flow when memory loss and slower speech patterns are present. They discuss the tension and humor of being interrupted, how interruptions can feel both frustrating and necessary, and the ways they’ve learned to “embrace the lag” to stay connected in family and group conversations.

Highlights from this episode:

· How interruptions can both hurt and help when navigating memory changes.

· Why “embracing the lag” opens up space for deeper connection.

· Practical tools Janna uses—like signaling and echoing—to stay engaged.

· What families can do to create patience and respect in conversations.

Listeners will walk away with fresh insight into the importance of slowing down, giving grace, and making room for every voice at the table—especially for those navigating Alzheimer’s or other memory challenges.

Further Reading & Studies on Patience in Conversations with Alzheimer’s

Collins et al., 2022 – Methods and approaches for enhancing communication in dementia. Published in PMC/NCBI. Shows that slower, patient communication and simplified methods help people with dementia be better understood. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC9109550

Tappen et al., 2002 – Conversation Intervention with Alzheimer’s Patients. Published in PMC/NCBI. Found that giving patients more time to respond and avoiding interruptions improved communication abilities. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC2239260

Sunjaya et al., 2025 – Communication strategies for delivering personalized dementia care. Published in Ageing (Oxford Academic). Highlights patience, pauses, and individualized pace as essential in dementia care conversations. https://academic.oup.com/ageing/article/54/5/afaf120/8131738

Additional Authoritative Resources:

National Institute on Aging – Communicating With Someone Who Has Alzheimer’s Disease: https://www.nia.nih.gov/health/alzheimers-changes-behavior-and-communication/communicating-someone-who-has-alzheimers

Alzheimer’s Association – Communication tips: https://www.alz.org/help-support/caregiving/daily-care/communications

Harvard Health – Bridging the Gap: Dementia Communication Strategies https://www.health.harvard.edu/mind-and-mood/bridging-the-gap-dementia-communication-strategies

Be sure to go to our website at alzheimersthriver.org to learn more about Larry and Janna's adventures.