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  • Who Wote Your Script? Part 2

    Who Wote Your Script? Part 2
    Nov 2 2026
    You can play a role for so long that it starts to feel like your name. That’s the tension we’re sitting in today, a Monday morning reality check about anxiety creeping in, the world pressing down, and a question that won’t leave us alone: who wrote your script?

    We unpack the “movie” we’ve all been cast in and how environment, expectations, and other people’s opinions shape the character we perform. Sometimes we perform it so well we forget where the act ends and who we really are begins. I share how decades of being trained to control conversations and chase validation created a version of me that looked successful but wasn’t rooted in love or humility. Then we zoom out to the bigger spiritual issue: domestication. Over time, it doesn’t just change what we do, it reshapes what we believe about ourselves and what we call “normal.”

    Scripture cuts through the fog here. Romans 12:2 draws a hard line between being conformed by the world and being transformed by the renewing of our minds. We talk about how we defend old roles with blame and excuses, and how we rename our defenses to feel better about them: pride as confidence, bitterness as wisdom, fear as caution. If you’ve been chasing money, approval, or applause and still feel empty, you’re not alone and you’re not stuck. God has a part two, and it doesn’t require a better costume, it requires a changed heart.

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    36 min
  • Who Wrote your Script? Part 1

    Who Wrote your Script? Part 1
    Nov 2 2026
    Ever wonder how you became “you,” and how much of that identity was chosen versus trained into you? We start with a provocative look at how language, media, and cultural cues can shape what we accept as normal, then we pivot to the heart of the message: if you’ve been living like a character in a movie, it’s time to ask who wrote your script.

    We anchor the conversation in Romans 12:2, focusing on renewing your mind and refusing to conform to the pattern of this world. From there, we unpack “domestication” as the slow conditioning that happens through repetition, rewards, correction, and fear of rejection. Childhood praise, punishment, embarrassment, and silence can quietly teach us to perform for approval. Over time, those survival skills can harden into identity, which is why so many adults feel stuck repeating patterns they don’t even like.

    Then we name the roles that show up when we’re trying to survive: the tough guy who feels numb, the people pleaser who can’t say no, the rebel who confuses defiance with freedom, the success story who needs applause, and the religious performer who looks holy while staying unchanged inside. If you care about Christian living, discipleship, emotional health, and identity in Christ, this is a challenging listen with practical reflection points. Subscribe, share this with a friend who feels stuck in a role, and leave a review with the “character” you’re ready to drop.PRAYER REQUESTSupport the show
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    18 min
  • Search Me God

    Search Me God
    Oct 30 2026
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    20 min
  • You Don't Live There Anymore

    You Don't Live There Anymore
    Oct 29 2026
    We come back from a life changing “man camp” experience and admit how strange it feels to re enter normal life without the same fear about money and pressure to grind. We unpack what it means to be rescued from darkness, transferred into Jesus’ kingdom, and challenged to stop living like we still belong to the old world.
    • the shift in motivation after returning to society and noticing fear losing its grip
    • the debt free prison door image and why we walk back into old chains
    • Colossians 1:13 as a finished act of deliverance and transfer of citizenship
    • grace over performance in John 8:36 and Romans 6:14
    • temptation versus ownership and refusing to answer old habits
    • identity in Christ and the new creation truth of 2 Corinthians 5:17
    • renewing our minds through Romans 12:2 and breaking the bondage mindset
    • hard questions about where we still give the past authority
    • redemption through Jesus not behavior and walking in the light


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    23 min
  • Put Down The Bag

    Put Down The Bag
    Oct 27 2026
    We challenge ourselves to tell the difference between trials God uses to build perseverance and temptations we keep choosing because they feel familiar. We connect James 1:12, Hebrews 12:1, and Proverbs 3:5–6 to one question that won’t let go: what “backpack” are we carrying that God is asking us to put down?
    • James 1:12 as a picture of perseverance and promise
    • God strengthens us through trials but does not tempt us to sin
    • the trap of excuses and the cost of comfort and convenience
    • pride, fear, and control as unhealthy attachments
    • being tested by life versus being trapped by repeated choices
    • Hebrews 12:1 and the call to throw off what hinders
    • Ecclesiastes 3 and the wisdom of keeping versus throwing away
    • surrender as releasing the illusion of control
    • healing, peace, and transformation requiring obedience and sacrifice
    • asking God for discernment and honest self-examination
    • trusting people God brings for perspective and accountability
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    31 min
  • Do Not Fear

    Do Not Fear
    Oct 26 2026
    We center on a simple truth: God never promises a life without trouble, but He promises we never face it alone. We pray, read Scripture, and challenge ourselves to replace fear with faith when work, money, marriage, and health feel uncertain.
    • opening reflection on the people who change the world by refusing comfort
    • trusting God’s presence as the foundation for courage
    • naming real fears around bills, provision, and what people think
    • surrendering business, family, and relationships to God as stewardship
    • breaking down Isaiah 41:10 into clear promises of strength and help
    • connecting Deuteronomy 31:6 to confidence rooted in God’s nearness
    • using Psalm 46 as a picture of life shaking without losing refuge
    • noticing how emotions drive assumptions and taking things personally
    • asking where we need to replace fear with faith right now
    So if you want to feel better and stay consistent, go to TrayNot.com forward slash B ROP.
    So if you don't have a relationship with Christ today, you better make it right.


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    19 min
  • Be The Church

    Be The Church
    Oct 25 2026
    We come back from Man Camp convinced that real church happens when believers serve, heal, and carry each other beyond a Sunday building. We read 1 Corinthians 12 and challenge ourselves to stop consuming and start contributing as the Body of Christ.
    • Man Camp as a living picture of servanthood and transformation
    • The shift from attending church to being the church daily
    • 1 Corinthians 12 and the meaning of many parts one body
    • Spiritual gifts as purpose without comparison or competition
    • Unity under Christ as the head rather than personal agendas
    • Love in action through support, listening, and shared burdens
    • A practical challenge to encourage someone you avoid
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    34 min
  • Don't Take It Personally

    Don't Take It Personally
    Oct 15 2026
    We talk about how one comment can hijack our mood and why that “hot potato” of offense doesn’t belong in our hands. We ground our identity in what God says, practice discernment with correction, and learn how to keep moving without being ruled by people’s opinions.
    • how one person’s words can flip an entire environment
    • the core lesson from The Four Agreements: don’t take anything personally
    • seeing criticism as a mirror of someone else’s inner world
    • Proverbs 29:25 and the trap of fearing people
    • Galatians 1:10 and choosing God’s approval over applause
    • Jesus as the model for staying on mission under criticism
    • using discernment: receiving true correction while releasing offense
    • questions that reveal how much peace we’ve surrendered
    • staying grounded, sometimes choosing silence, and walking forward
    if you liked what you heard, please share it with a loved one and friend. please share the podcast. and until next time, stay encouraged, stay grounded in the word, and keep feeding your faith.
    if you don't have a relationship with christ, you need to get right.


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    16 min