How facing your most rejected self can free your most authentic one.

What if the part of you you've spent your whole life hiding — the one you feel ashamed of, embarrassed by, or unworthy of — was actually the key to your confidence and freedom?

In this moving episode of Question Yourself, Bethany and Diane explore The Shadow — one of the most personal and confronting Tools from Phil Stutz's groundbreaking framework. Joined by professional coach Patrick Kelley, they unpack what the Shadow really is, how it quietly shapes our choices and relationships, and how to begin bringing it into the light.

With Patrick's guidance, Bethany meets her own Shadow — an eight-year-old version of herself in a dress, hurting and unseen — and discovers what it means to bring compassion to the parts of ourselves we've long rejected. Together, the trio discuss how to recognize when your Shadow is running the show, how projection reveals the parts of ourselves we disown, and what it looks like to start integrating these forgotten parts into everyday life.

You'll learn a practical, profound way to meet the parts of yourself you've hidden — and discover what becomes possible when you stop running from them.

Resources:

• The Tools by Phil Stutz

• Coaching with Patrick Kelley: repscoaching.co