It stings to hear words like “I hate you!” or “You’re the worst!” from a child you love.

But here’s the truth: those mean words often come from big feelings, not true intentions.

In this episode of From Tears to Talking, Ashley Bell, school counselor and mom of two, breaks down:
✅ Why kids say hurtful things when they’re overwhelmed
✅ The do’s and don’ts of responding in the moment
✅ How to set limits calmly without escalating the situation
✅ What to say later to turn the moment into a teachable one

You’ll walk away with practical, step-by-step strategies you can start using right away at home or in the classroom.

Plus, this week’s free craftivity, the Calming Strategies Poster, helps kids reflect on the power of using calming strategies in a hands-on, meaningful way.

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💛 Let’s go from chaos to connection, together.

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✨ Next Week’s Sneak Peek ✨
Episode 4 dives into Emotional Volcanoes — how anger builds up like lava under the surface, the warning signs to watch for before an eruption, and step-by-step calming techniques to prevent full meltdowns.

You’ll also get a brand-new printable resource to bring the lesson to life.

Together, we’ll turn the tears into talking. 💛

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