In this episode, we sit down with Ashley and Rob from United By Swing, a fully bisexual married couple creating community for bi men and mixed-orientation relationships in the lifestyle. We talk about the stigma bi men still face in sex-positive spaces, why many feel pressure to hide, and how fear, shame, and outdated masculinity myths can impact connection.

Ashley shares compassionate advice for partners who feel surprised when their husband opens up, including how to process your own emotions without turning his vulnerability into a crisis. We also explore the difference between fantasy and action, how to start these conversations safely, and why honesty often deepens intimacy instead of threatening the relationship. Rob and Ashley share some wonderful resources for bi-guys that you're gonna wanna check out!

You can find Rob and Ashley on Instagram at http://instagram.com/united_bi_swinging - follow them and give ‘em some love!

Come say 'hi' on our favorite ENM dating app - this link pops you straight into our group, so you won't have to hunt around for us!https://www.sdc.com/signup.php?ref=37882

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Stay flirty...stay fun...and HOPEFULLY we'll see ya soon!

xoxo, bella & prescott