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Divorcing Strong

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 Divorcing Strong™ is the essential playbook for anyone navigating the legal chaos and emotional trauma of ending a marriage. Hosted by Becky Sampson, CEO of Only Subpoenas™, this podcast bridges the gap between high-conflict courtroom battles and the deep inner work of healing after divorce. If you are dealing with a high conflict divorce, facing narcissistic abuse, or trying to co-parent with a covert narcissist, you are not alone. We go beyond generic advice to tackle the tough realities of emotional abuse, gaslighting, and narcissistic personality disorder (NPD). Each week, Becky brings you honest, unfiltered conversations with top divorce attorneys, family law experts, and mental health professionals. We cover critical topics including child custody battles, financial independence, and rebuilding your identity. Whether you are just starting the process or are years post-separation, join us to transform your pain into power. Learn how to set ironclad boundaries, protect your peace from narcissistic tactics, and move forward with confidence.Copyright 2026 Hygiène et vie saine Parentalité Psychologie Psychologie et psychiatrie Relations Sciences sociales
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  • S1:E31 – Narcissistic Abuse Recovery: Mediator Kiki Grossman on High-Conflict Divorce Texts & Healing After Divorce

    S1:E31 – Narcissistic Abuse Recovery: Mediator Kiki Grossman on High-Conflict Divorce Texts & Healing After Divorce
    Apr 23 2026
    If your divorce has turned your phone into a battlefield — where one text from your ex can spike your anxiety and ruin your entire day — this episode is your playbook. Becky Sampson sits down with Kiki Grossman, Florida Supreme Court Certified Family Mediator and attorney, to deliver the exact strategies that stop high-conflict divorce communication spirals before they cost you more money, more time, and more emotional energy. Whether you're divorcing a narcissist, navigating co-parenting after separation, or stuck in the same fight on repeat — this episode gives you the tools to stop reacting and start responding. 🎯 In This Episode, You'll Learn: The BIFF Method (Brief, Informative, Friendly, Firm) — the gold standard for responding to hostile, manipulative, or emotionally charged messages from a high-conflict or narcissistic exThe Pause Practice — a deceptively simple but powerful tool to stop the text spiral before you send something you'll regretWhy your nervous system is wired to vilify your ex — and the neuroscience behind why your chest tightens, and your brain goes blank during conflictHow your conflict style shifts depending on who you're fighting with — and what to do when you're stuck in avoidance modeThe Brené Brown "strengths perspective" exercise for building real conflict capacity — without shameWhy Kiki went from art major and yoga instructor to law school — and what her journey reveals about healing after divorceThe "No Mud, No Lotus" mindset shift that turns your divorce pain into a springboard for growthHow Leapfrog Divorce can be a faster, less destructive alternative to traditional litigationThe one thing you must do before you can stop objectifying your ex — and why it matters for your outcome 💌 Download your FREE "100 Divorce Terms You Need to Know": https://onlysubpoenas.com/free 🎙️ About Kiki Grossman: Kiki Grossman is a conflict-navigation educator, psychological-safety builder, Florida Supreme Court Certified Family Mediator, and member of the Florida Bar. She holds an LLM from the Strauss Institute for Dispute Resolution at Pepperdine University and brings over 30 years of trauma-informed yoga practice to her conflict resolution work. She is the founder of Leapfrog Divorce and Leapfrog Conflict Resolution, working to create smoother resolutions for families navigating high-conflict divorce — without the courtroom warfare. Connect with KIKI GROSSMAN Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/leap_frog_divorce/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leapfrogdivorce/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kristin-grossman/ YouTube: www.youtube.com/@leapfrogdivorce Website: https://leapfrogconflictresolution.com/ About Divorcing Strong™ Podcast: Hosted by Becky Sampson, CEO of Only Subpoenas™, the Divorcing Strong™ Podcast is where real stories meet real strategies for surviving and thriving through divorce. Each episode brings expert insights from top divorce attorneys, family law specialists, financial planners, and healing coaches to help you protect your rights and step into YOU 2.0. 👉 Subscribe for more empowering divorce stories and strategies 👉 Learn more about working with Becky: https://beckysampson.com/ 👉 Follow Becky on social media: BECKY SAMPSON Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcingstrongbeckysampson/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/beckysampson11/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@divorcingstrong YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DivorcingStrong LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/beckysampson/ 🌺For information on working with Only Subpoenas™, visit our website at https://onlysubpoenas.com/ or contact us at this number: 650-910-6659 🌺 ⚠️ DISCLAIMER: The content on this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and does not constitute legal, financial, or mental health advice. Please consult a licensed attorney, financial advisor, or mental health professional for guidance specific to your situation. If you or someone you know is experiencing abuse, please get in touch with the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233. #DivorcingStrong #FamilyLaw #HighConflictDivorce healing after divorce, narcissistic abuse recovery, divorcing a narcissist, high conflict divorce, divorce communication, co-parenting with a narcissist, BIFF method, divorce mediation, family law, gaslighting in divorce, legal abuse, emotional abuse divorce, narcissistic ex, conflict resolution, divorce support for women, midlife reinvention, trauma informed healing, rebuilding after divorce, peaceful divorce, divorce strategies, financial infidelity, psychological safety, women and divorce, divorce podcast Support Divorcing Strong by contributing to their tip jar: https://tips.pinecast.com/jar/divorcing-strong
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  • S1:E30 – Hidden Assets in Divorce: Cryptocurrency, Bitcoin & How to Find Digital Money Before It Vanishes with Divorce Attorney Kyle Sellett

    S1:E30 – Hidden Assets in Divorce: Cryptocurrency, Bitcoin & How to Find Digital Money Before It Vanishes with Divorce Attorney Kyle Sellett
    Apr 21 2026
    What if your spouse is hiding money in a place your attorney has never even looked? Cryptocurrency and digital assets have become the newest frontier of financial infidelity in divorce — and most attorneys have no idea how to find them, trace them, or value them. Illinois divorce attorney Kyle Sellett is one of the rare experts who does. In fact, he teaches other attorneys how to handle crypto in divorce cases. And today, he's teaching you. Whether you're deep in a high-conflict divorce and suspect your spouse is hiding digital assets, trying to understand your divorce financial planning options, or simply want to protect what's yours before it vanishes into a blockchain — this episode is the conversation your attorney probably hasn't had with you yet. In this episode, you'll discover: ✅ What cryptocurrency actually is — explained in plain English, no technical background required (blockchain, mining, wallets, and why it's called "digital gold")✅ The three types of crypto storage your spouse might be using — hot wallets, cold wallets, and hardware wallets — and why each one creates a different discovery challenge for your attorney✅ The real story: how someone lost millions of dollars in Bitcoin because of a single lost hard drive — and what this means for your divorce settlement✅ The exact tactics spouses use to conceal cryptocurrency assets — and the red flags Kyle looks for to unmask them✅ How the discovery process works for hidden crypto assets: subpoenas, forensic analysis, and when to bring in a specialist (and when it's NOT worth the cost)✅ The cost-benefit analysis every woman must run before hiring a forensic crypto expert — Kyle's practical framework for deciding if it's worth pursuing✅ The Practitioner Checklist — Kyle's step-by-step action plan for identifying, locating, and valuing digital assets in any divorce case✅ Why Kyle personally prefers mediation and collaborative divorce strategies over litigation — and how this philosophy can save you money even in a high-conflict case✅ The legal standard for dissipation and concealment of crypto assets — and how courts are now treating intentional cryptocurrency hiding as a serious financial offense✅ Kyle's own definition of what it means to "Divorce Strong" — a perspective that will shift how you think about coming out the other side Memorable moments: "I started learning about crypto because I had to teach a CLE. And then I realized — nobody in family law knew this stuff." — Kyle Sellett "Coming out the other side, understanding what happened, accepting it, and being able to move past it. That's what Divorcing Strong means." — Kyle Sellett "The question isn't just whether your spouse has crypto. The question is — do you know where to look?" — Becky Sampson Whether you're newly separated and overwhelmed, deep in a high-conflict divorce involving hidden assets, or healing after divorce and trying to make sense of what you may have missed — this episode hands you the knowledge to protect what's yours. You are not just surviving. You are becoming YOU 2.0. 💌 Download your FREE "100 Divorce Terms You Need to Know": https://onlysubpoenas.com/free About Kyle Sellett: Kyle Sellett is an Illinois divorce and family law attorney who has become one of the leading legal voices on the intersection of cryptocurrency and divorce proceedings. As one of the few attorneys who actively teaches other family law practitioners how to handle digital assets in divorce cases — through CLEs and professional training — Kyle brings a rare combination of technical crypto knowledge and practical courtroom experience. He is a passionate advocate for mediation and collaborative approaches that keep clients in control of their outcomes. Connect with KYLE SELLETT Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/WeissKunzOliverLLC/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kylesellett/Website: https://www.wkofamilylaw.com/attorney-profiles/kyle-sellett/ About Divorcing Strong™ Podcast: Hosted by Becky Sampson, CEO of Only Subpoenas™, the Divorcing Strong™ Podcast is where real stories meet real strategies for surviving and thriving through divorce. Each episode brings expert insights from top divorce attorneys, family law specialists, financial planners, and healing coaches to help you protect your rights and step into YOU 2.0. 👉 Subscribe for more empowering divorce stories and strategies 👉 Learn more about working with Becky: https://beckysampson.com/ 👉 Follow Becky on social media: BECKY SAMPSON Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcingstrongbeckysampson/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/beckysampson11/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@divorcingstrong YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DivorcingStrong LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/beckysampson/ 🌺For information on working with Only Subpoenas™, visit our website at https://onlysubpoenas.com/ or contact us at this number: 650-910-6659 🌺 ⚠️ ...
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  • S1:E29 – Women and Money: Divorce Financial Planning, Financial Infidelity & What to Know Before You Sign with CDFA Rhonda Noordyk

    S1:E29 – Women and Money: Divorce Financial Planning, Financial Infidelity & What to Know Before You Sign with CDFA Rhonda Noordyk
    Apr 16 2026
    Women and money in divorce — it's the conversation nobody prepared you for, and it may be the most expensive conversation you'll ever have. Before you sign a single document, Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA) Rhonda Noordyk, Financial Divorce Advocate and founder of The Women's Financial Wellness Center, wants you to know the 5 money traps that are silently costing divorcing women thousands — and the 6-step settlement framework she's used to move over $25 million into the hands of women who would have left it on the table. From divorce financial planning and financial infidelity detection to hidden asset exposure and negotiation strategy, Rhonda joins host Becky Sampson to give you the financial playbook your attorney may never hand you — and the confidence to walk into your settlement knowing you have all the information you need. In this episode, you'll discover: ✅ The 5 money traps silently draining women's divorce settlements — and how to identify every single one before you sign✅ Rhonda's BRIDGE Method (Breathe, Review, Identify, Dial In, Guide, Exhale) — the 6-step framework for navigating your divorce settlement with clarity instead of panic✅ The DAMN Method — Rhonda's red-flag detection system for spotting financial deception and financial infidelity before it destroys your settlement✅ Why women are systematically labeled "overly emotional" in family court when they raise valid financial concerns — and the bias Rhonda has witnessed firsthand inside the legal system✅ The shocking discovery process loophole: why a subpoena is sometimes the only way to get the full financial picture — and why your attorney may not be fighting hard enough to get it✅ How the "stay quiet, stay agreeable" trap keeps women from asking for what they're legally entitled to — and the one mindset shift that changes everything✅ Becky's personal story: the moment of "absolute panic" during her own second divorce, when she realized she had no idea where the money was✅ What a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA) actually does — and why hiring one may be the most financially protective decision you make in your entire divorce✅ The creative negotiation move that saved one client's settlement when life insurance was denied: a lien on the estate — and how to ask for it✅ The equation that unlocks everything: Knowledge + Experience = Confidence — and how to get both before you ever sit down at the settlement table Memorable moments: "You do not have to settle without all the information on the table. Period." — Becky Sampson "We've moved over $25 million into the hands of women who would have left it on the table." — Rhonda Noordyk "Having the right information to make good decisions — that's what Divorcing Strong means." — Rhonda Noordyk "I don't pay you to think." — What a client's husband told her, illustrating exactly why financial knowledge is power in divorce Whether you're in the early stages of divorce financial planning, deep in a high-conflict settlement, or healing after divorce and trying to understand what you may have unknowingly signed away — this episode is your financial protection playbook. You are not just surviving. You are becoming YOU 2.0. 💌 Download your FREE "100 Divorce Terms You Need to Know": https://onlysubpoenas.com/free About Rhonda Noordyk: Rhonda Noordyk is a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA), Financial Divorce Advocate, and founder of The Women's Financial Wellness Center. With years of experience helping women navigate the financial complexities of divorce, Rhonda has moved over $25 million into the hands of women who would otherwise have left it on the settlement table. She is the host of the Divorce Dialogues podcast and a tireless advocate for women's financial literacy, empowerment, and independence through and beyond divorce. Connect with RHONDA NOORDYK Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rhondanoordyk/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/wfwcdivorce/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rhondanoordyk/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@RhondaNoordykWebsite: https://womensfinancialwellnesscenter.com/ 🎧About Divorcing Strong™ Podcast: Hosted by Becky Sampson, CEO of Only Subpoenas™, the Divorcing Strong™ Podcast is where real stories meet real strategies for surviving and thriving through divorce. Each episode brings expert insights from top divorce attorneys, family law specialists, financial planners, and healing coaches to help you protect your rights and step into YOU 2.0. 👉 Subscribe for more empowering divorce stories and strategies 👉 Learn more about working with Becky: https://beckysampson.com/ 👉 Follow Becky on social media: BECKY SAMPSON Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcingstrongbeckysampson/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/beckysampson11/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@divorcingstrong YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DivorcingStrong LinkedIn: https://...
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