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Divorcing Strong

Divorcing Strong

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 Divorcing Strong™ is the essential playbook for anyone navigating the legal chaos and emotional trauma of ending a marriage. Hosted by Becky Sampson, CEO of Only Subpoenas™, this podcast bridges the gap between high-conflict courtroom battles and the deep inner work of healing after divorce. If you are dealing with a high conflict divorce, facing narcissistic abuse, or trying to co-parent with a covert narcissist, you are not alone. We go beyond generic advice to tackle the tough realities of emotional abuse, gaslighting, and narcissistic personality disorder (NPD). Each week, Becky brings you honest, unfiltered conversations with top divorce attorneys, family law experts, and mental health professionals. We cover critical topics including child custody battles, financial independence, and rebuilding your identity. Whether you are just starting the process or are years post-separation, join us to transform your pain into power. Learn how to set ironclad boundaries, protect your peace from narcissistic tactics, and move forward with confidence.Copyright 2026 Hygiène et vie saine Parentalité Psychologie Psychologie et psychiatrie Relations Sciences sociales
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  • S1:E29 – Women and Money: Divorce Financial Planning, Financial Infidelity & What to Know Before You Sign with CDFA Rhonda Noordyk

    S1:E29 – Women and Money: Divorce Financial Planning, Financial Infidelity & What to Know Before You Sign with CDFA Rhonda Noordyk
    Apr 16 2026
    Women and money in divorce — it's the conversation nobody prepared you for, and it may be the most expensive conversation you'll ever have. Before you sign a single document, Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA) Rhonda Noordyk, Financial Divorce Advocate and founder of The Women's Financial Wellness Center, wants you to know the 5 money traps that are silently costing divorcing women thousands — and the 6-step settlement framework she's used to move over $25 million into the hands of women who would have left it on the table. From divorce financial planning and financial infidelity detection to hidden asset exposure and negotiation strategy, Rhonda joins host Becky Sampson to give you the financial playbook your attorney may never hand you — and the confidence to walk into your settlement knowing you have all the information you need. In this episode, you'll discover: ✅ The 5 money traps silently draining women's divorce settlements — and how to identify every single one before you sign✅ Rhonda's BRIDGE Method (Breathe, Review, Identify, Dial In, Guide, Exhale) — the 6-step framework for navigating your divorce settlement with clarity instead of panic✅ The DAMN Method — Rhonda's red-flag detection system for spotting financial deception and financial infidelity before it destroys your settlement✅ Why women are systematically labeled "overly emotional" in family court when they raise valid financial concerns — and the bias Rhonda has witnessed firsthand inside the legal system✅ The shocking discovery process loophole: why a subpoena is sometimes the only way to get the full financial picture — and why your attorney may not be fighting hard enough to get it✅ How the "stay quiet, stay agreeable" trap keeps women from asking for what they're legally entitled to — and the one mindset shift that changes everything✅ Becky's personal story: the moment of "absolute panic" during her own second divorce, when she realized she had no idea where the money was✅ What a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA) actually does — and why hiring one may be the most financially protective decision you make in your entire divorce✅ The creative negotiation move that saved one client's settlement when life insurance was denied: a lien on the estate — and how to ask for it✅ The equation that unlocks everything: Knowledge + Experience = Confidence — and how to get both before you ever sit down at the settlement table Memorable moments: "You do not have to settle without all the information on the table. Period." — Becky Sampson "We've moved over $25 million into the hands of women who would have left it on the table." — Rhonda Noordyk "Having the right information to make good decisions — that's what Divorcing Strong means." — Rhonda Noordyk "I don't pay you to think." — What a client's husband told her, illustrating exactly why financial knowledge is power in divorce Whether you're in the early stages of divorce financial planning, deep in a high-conflict settlement, or healing after divorce and trying to understand what you may have unknowingly signed away — this episode is your financial protection playbook. You are not just surviving. You are becoming YOU 2.0. 💌 Download your FREE "100 Divorce Terms You Need to Know": https://onlysubpoenas.com/free ****About Rhonda Noordyk: Rhonda Noordyk is a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA), Financial Divorce Advocate, and founder of The Women's Financial Wellness Center. With years of experience helping women navigate the financial complexities of divorce, Rhonda has moved over $25 million into the hands of women who would otherwise have left it on the settlement table. She is the host of the Divorce Dialogues podcast and a tireless advocate for women's financial literacy, empowerment, and independence through and beyond divorce. Connect with RHONDA NOORDYK Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rhondanoordyk/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/wfwcdivorce/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rhondanoordyk/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@RhondaNoordykWebsite: https://womensfinancialwellnesscenter.com/ About Divorcing Strong™ Podcast: Hosted by Becky Sampson, CEO of Only Subpoenas™, the Divorcing Strong™ Podcast is where real stories meet real strategies for surviving and thriving through divorce. Each episode brings expert insights from top divorce attorneys, family law specialists, financial planners, and healing coaches to help you protect your rights and step into YOU 2.0. 🌺For information on working with Only Subpoenas™, visit our website at https://onlysubpoenas.com/ or contact us at this number: 650-910-6659 🌺 ⚠️ DISCLAIMER: The content on this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and does not constitute legal, financial, or mental health advice. Please consult a licensed attorney, financial advisor, or mental health professional for guidance specific to your ...
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    39 min
  • S1:E28 – Divorce Without a Lawyer: How to Win in Family Court, Child Custody Tips & What Your Attorney Won't Tell You with Tracey Bee, The Divorce Solutionist

    S1:E28 – Divorce Without a Lawyer: How to Win in Family Court, Child Custody Tips & What Your Attorney Won't Tell You with Tracey Bee, The Divorce Solutionist
    Apr 14 2026
    What if the biggest mistake in your divorce isn't hiring the wrong attorney — it's not knowing how to navigate family courts yourself? Healing after divorce starts with protecting yourself in the courtroom, and former family law attorney Tracey Bee, known as The Divorce Solutionist, is pulling back the curtain on everything the legal system won't volunteer. Whether you're facing child custody battles, going through a divorce without a lawyer, or trying to figure out how to win in family court without getting steamrolled — this episode is your strategic playbook. With years of experience inside the family court system and her own pivot away from law after witnessing its toll on families firsthand, Tracey Bee now coaches women to represent themselves strategically, understand the "game" of court, and walk out with outcomes that protect their children and their future. In this episode, you'll discover: ✅ The single most important mindset shift every woman must make before she walks into a family courtroom — from "concerned mom" to litigant (and why getting this wrong costs you everything)✅ Why family court is a "game" with rules nobody hands you — and exactly how to learn them before your first hearing✅ The #1 reason Tracey left her family law career — and the judge's warning she received on Day 1 that predicted it all✅ How to "study your opponent" — researching your judge's tendencies, opposing counsel's patterns, and the unwritten rules of your specific courtroom✅ The dangerous mistake Becky made when she represented herself: trying to act like a lawyer — and what to do instead✅ Why rushing to hire a divorce attorney in the shock/denial phase of divorce is often the worst financial decision you can make✅ Practical child custody tips: how to document, communicate, and present yourself as the stable, strategic parent the court wants to see✅ The difference between "process" and "law" — and why understanding this distinction changes everything for self-represented litigants✅ How to protect your mental health and nervous system while simultaneously fighting the legal battle of your life✅ The powerful reframe that defines what "Divorcing Strong" really means: "This is not what's happening to you — it's what's happening for you." Memorable moments: "Family court is a game. You have to understand the game to win the game." — Tracey Bee "Don't rush to hire an attorney in your shock phase. Do some of your own legwork first." — Tracey Bee "I tried to act like a lawyer. That was my biggest mistake." — Becky Sampson Whether you're newly separated and facing family court for the first time, deep in a high-conflict custody battle, or healing after divorce and trying to make sense of what just happened in that courtroom — this episode gives you the strategy, the mindset, and the roadmap to stop flailing and start winning. You are not just surviving. You are becoming YOU 2.0. 💌 Download your FREE "100 Divorce Terms You Need to Know": https://onlysubpoenas.com/free About Tracey Bee, The Divorce Solutionist: Tracey Bee is a former family law attorney turned divorce coach and strategist, known as The Divorce Solutionist. After years inside the family court system — watching the toll it takes on families and on attorneys — Tracey left traditional law to empower self-represented litigants with the strategies, tools, and mindset they need to navigate divorce without being steamrolled. She is the host of The Divorce Solutionist Podcast and a dedicated advocate for women facing family court alone. Connect with TRACEY BEE Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thedivorcesolutionist/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/familycourtstrategist/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/familycourtstrategist/Website: https://thedivorcesolutionist.com About Divorcing Strong™ Podcast: Hosted by Becky Sampson, CEO of Only Subpoenas™, the Divorcing Strong™ Podcast is where real stories meet real strategies for surviving and thriving through divorce. Each episode brings expert insights from top divorce attorneys, family law specialists, financial planners, and healing coaches to help you protect your rights and step into YOU 2.0. 🌺For information on working with Only Subpoenas™, visit our website at https://onlysubpoenas.com/ or contact us at this number: 650-910-6659 🌺 ⚠️ DISCLAIMER: The content on this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and does not constitute legal, financial, or mental health advice. Please consult a licensed attorney, financial advisor, or mental health professional for guidance specific to your situation. If you or someone you know is experiencing abuse, please contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233. #DivorcingStrong #FamilyLaw #DivorceWithoutALawyer #HealingAfterDivorce #ChildCustody Support Divorcing Strong by contributing to their tip jar: https://tips.pinecast.com/jar/divorcing-strong
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  • S1:E27 – Starting Over at 50: Life After Divorce, Midlife Reinvention & Finding Joy Again with Santa Papa John

    S1:E27 – Starting Over at 50: Life After Divorce, Midlife Reinvention & Finding Joy Again with Santa Papa John
    Apr 9 2026
    What if the most broken chapter of your life became the origin story of your greatest purpose? After 34 years of marriage, a painful divorce, and a moment of unexpected magic in a grocery store, a retired truck driver with over 3 million miles on the road became Santa Papa John — a full-time professional Santa Claus with 100,000+ social media followers and a mission to bring joy to anyone who's forgotten what it feels like to smile. Life after divorce, midlife reinvention, and starting over at 50 have never looked — or felt — like this. Santa Papa John joins host Becky Sampson for one of the most joyful, unexpected, and deeply moving conversations in Divorcing Strong™ history. His story of divorce recovery, personal reinvention, and healing after divorce is proof that your second chapter isn't just possible — it might be the one you were always meant to live. In this episode, you'll discover: ✅ How a 34-year marriage ended — and what Santa Papa John wishes he'd known sooner about his own happiness✅ The grocery store moment that changed everything: how two misbehaving children and a bag of candy canes sparked his life's greatest purpose✅ Why his current wife saw something in him he couldn't see in himself — and how the right partner transforms your midlife reinvention✅ The raw truth about growing a beard "to spite" his first wife — and what it taught him about lost identity in a deteriorating marriage✅ Two elderly sisters, ages 68 and 70, sitting on Santa's lap for the first time since childhood — the story that will break you wide open (in the best way)✅ The "Share a Smile" challenge: the one tiny daily action that can begin rebuilding your life after divorce TODAY✅ Why choosing joy is not toxic positivity — it's a survival strategy for divorce recovery and midlife reset✅ How stepping completely out of your comfort zone — including wearing a Santa suit year-round as "July Santa" — can rebuild your confidence and your identity✅ The simple, powerful message Santa Papa John delivers to every adult who sits in his chair: it's never too late to start over Memorable moments: "I've got a story!" — Santa Papa John, the moment he heard Becky helped women through divorce "Share a smile with someone you don't know today. That's all. Just start there." — Santa Papa John Whether you're freshly separated, deep in your healing after divorce, or standing at the crossroads of a midlife reinvention you didn't plan — this episode is your reminder that rebuilding after divorce can look like something you never expected. You are not just surviving. You are becoming YOU 2.0. 💌 Download your FREE "100 Divorce Terms You Need to Know": https://onlysubpoenas.com/free About Santa Papa John: Santa Papa John is a full-time professional Santa Claus, known as "July Santa," with over 100,000 social media followers across platforms where he shares daily messages of joy and positivity. A former long-haul truck driver with over 3 million miles logged and a former DJ, Santa Papa John discovered his calling after his own divorce — when his new wife helped him find the magic he'd buried inside himself. He is now happily remarried and dedicated to creating joyful memories for people of all ages. Connect with SANTA PAPA JOHN Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/santapapajohn/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/santapapajohnmn/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SantaPapaJohn LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/johnrosdobutko/ Website: https://santapapajohn.com/ About Divorcing Strong™ Podcast: Hosted by Becky Sampson, CEO of Only Subpoenas™, the Divorcing Strong™ Podcast is where real stories meet real strategies for surviving and thriving through divorce. Each episode brings expert insights from top divorce attorneys, family law specialists, financial planners, and healing coaches to help you protect your rights and step into YOU 2.0. 🌺For information on working with Only Subpoenas™, visit our website at https://onlysubpoenas.com/ or contact us at this number: 650-910-6659 🌺 ⚠️ DISCLAIMER: The content on this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and does not constitute legal, financial, or mental health advice. Please consult a licensed attorney, financial advisor, or mental health professional for guidance specific to your situation. If you or someone you know is experiencing abuse, please contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233. #DivorcingStrong #LifeAfterDivorce #HealingAfterDivorce #MidlifeReinvention #StartingOverAt50 Support Divorcing Strong by contributing to their tip jar: https://tips.pinecast.com/jar/divorcing-strong
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