Before You Ask About MAiD, Ask Yourself This

Most Americans say they support end-of-life choice.

Most Americans do not have an advance directive.

Most Americans have never had a serious conversation about how they want to die.

Therein lies the problem.

In this powerful episode of Destiny's Door, Paula Adams challenges listeners to look beyond politics and examine the deeper issue: our lack of death literacy. Why are we comfortable debating Medical Aid in Dying while avoiding conversations about cancer, dementia, Alzheimer's, hospice, caregiving, VSED, and our own mortality?

Drawing on decades of experience as a Deathwalker, educator, caregiver, and grief companion, Paula argues that the future of compassionate dying begins with one simple practice:

Real. Everyday. Death. Talk.

This isn't just an episode.

It's an invitation.

Start a conversation with your spouse.

Talk with your children.

Ask your parents what they want.

Write down your wishes.

Begin building the roadmap that every one of us will eventually need.

Follow the podcast, leave a review, and share this episode with someone you love. Death literacy grows one conversation at a time.

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America’s opioid policies were never designed for the elderly, the chronically ill, or the dying — yet they are the ones paying the highest price. This episode examines how federal regulation, DEA diversion rules, medication shortages, and fear‑based prescribing have created a national “War on Care,” where pain relief, sleep, and comfort are treated as risks instead of human rights.

We explore the clinical evidence behind severe suffering at end of life, the medical harm caused by sleep deprivation, the collapse of pain management systems, and the national contradiction of fentanyl flooding the streets while hospice kits can’t access morphine. You’ll also hear about the advocates, legal nonprofits, and patient‑led movements fighting for humane pain and sleep management in a system that fears addiction more than it fears cruelty.

This is a clear, uncompromising look at how policy shapes suffering — and what must change if we want a humane future for the dying, the ill, and the aging.

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Choosing to Die: A Daughter’s Story of Supporting Her Mother’s End of Life Through Assisted Death

In this episode of Death Talk Unscripted, Paula sits down with Theresa E. Evans, author of Choosing to Die, a powerful and intimate memoir documenting the final 86 days she spent caring for her mother as she prepared for her medically assisted death.

Theresa brings a rare blend of clinical clarity and spiritual depth to this conversation. As a former ICU nurse, seasoned yoga teacher, and somatic movement educator, she has witnessed countless deaths — but nothing prepared her for the sacred, complex, and deeply human experience of walking her own mother home.

Through journal entries, reflections, and the living metaphor of her mother’s beloved garden, Theresa offers a masterclass in anticipatory grief, intentional caregiving, and the courage it takes to support a loved one’s sovereign end‑of‑life choice.

This episode explores autonomy, love, grief, and the miracle of death — a threshold as profound as birth.

A tender, educational, and uplifting conversation for caregivers, death doulas, clinicians, and anyone seeking clarity in one of life’s most confounding decisions.

Her website and links for her book can all be found:

https://theresaeevans.com/

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