Épisodes

  • Hanlan’s to Here: The Evolution of Pride in Toronto
    Jun 4 2026

    In this episode, we explore the roots of Pride in Toronto, how activism shaped it, and the many ways we can all show up for Pride in ways that feel authentic. We also share listener traditions, talk about navigating Pride with social anxiety, and reflect on how we cultivate queer joy.

    Support Queer Organizations in Toronto!

    Rainbow Railroad

    The 519

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    21 min
  • Queer Skepticism in a Conspiracy Age with Nathan Radke
    May 21 2026

    This week, we’re joined by Nathan Radke, who is a professor, author, and co-host of The Uncover Up podcast and Alena’s colleague. Nathan helps us dive into what makes conspiracy theories so compelling and why they are everywhere right now.

    We also explore the surprising connections between conspiracy culture and the queer community, from historical persecution and coded communication to the fine line between healthy skepticism and harmful paranoia.

    Plus, we tackle the big questions:

    • Why do conspiracy theories feel so satisfying?
    • How do you talk to a loved one who’s deep in a rabbit hole?
    • Are aliens real!?

    FIY:

    Canada's equivalent to the Stonewall riots occurred on February 5, 1981, when Toronto police raided four gay bathhouses in a coordinated operation known as Operation Soap. The mass arrests galvanized the LGBTQ2S+ community, resulting in mass protests that eventually laid the foundation for Toronto's annual Pride parade

    Music By: Sean Patrick Brennan @ayeayeayemusic

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    35 min
  • Bonus Reality TV Episode: A Summer House and Beverly Hills Check In
    May 7 2026

    We catch up on the latest Summer House Episode and The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills Reunion.

    Music By: Sean Patrick Brennan @ayeayeayemusic

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    8 min
  • Taking Reality Television Seriously with Victoria Ennis
    Apr 30 2026

    On this episode, we cover what’s going on in reality TV right now, including (obviously!) the Summer House Scamanda Scandal and Mormon Wives. We talk about why we are enamoured with Love on the Spectrum, introduce some new shows to each other, and cover some oldies but goodies.

    Victoria’s shows:

    • Traitors (Number one favourite show)
    • The Bachelor
    • The Bachelorette
    • Love on the Spectrum
    • Love is Blind
    • Beverly Hills and Atlanta Housewives
    • Queer Ultimatum
    • Summer House
    • Vanderpump Rules
    • Southern Charm

    Miss Education Podcast

    @victoriaen__

    Music By: Sean Patrick Brennan @ayeayeayemusic

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    43 min
  • Peter Knegt from Queer Cinema Club in Toronto drops by Dear Queer,
    Feb 19 2026
    • What makes something “queer cinema”?
    • Why queer films are important
    • Why Birdcage is a Queer film landmark
    • Casting heteros in Queer roles
    • Is a movie a good first date?

    Go see Peter at Queer Cinema’s home, the Paradise Theater on Bloor St.

    @queer.cinema.club

    @peterknegt

    Music By: Sean Patrick Brennan @ayeayeayemusic

    Transcript:

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    27 min
  • KB Brookins on Writing, Identity, and Becoming
    Jan 22 2026

    Trans Writer KB Brookins joins us to talk about:

    • Their memoir, Pretty
    • The importance of finding your people
    • Having mentors
    • Writing things down when it's hard to say the thing out loud
    • Refined rage
    • Not excusing behaviours but giving them context
    • Trans news that doesn’t suck

    Links:

    https://bookshop.org/p/books/pretty-a-memoir-kb-brookins/46b2a7822f45f3a6

    https://www.instagram.com/reel/DTqNmhvEfdi

    https://transnews.substack.com

    Music By: Sean Patrick Brennan @ayeayeayemusic

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    29 min
  • Dear Queer Does Heated Rivalry
    Jan 8 2026

    And yes, the lesbians are watching!

    Tune in for our takes on:

    • The characters, the quiet negotiations
    • Why we are NOT here for the critiques
    • But are here for straight people celebrating a queer romance
    • Why are we all crying in episode 5
    • Cottage Cottage and more Cottage
    • Is Heated Rivalry the new Pink Shirt Test?

    This and a whole lot more on this week's Heated Rivalry Episode! Thank you, Jacob Tierney, Connor Storrie & Hudson Williams!

    SEND US YOUR QUESTIONS!

    Music By: Sean Patrick Brennan @ayeayeayemusic

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    19 min
  • Happy Holigays: Listener question edition
    Dec 11 2025

    On this week's episode, we give the gift of dating advice

    • What are we thinking about going into the holidays
    • How to DTR a non-traditional relationship, and what is a QPR?
    • Dating and kids: Is it a deal breaker?
    • Green flags when dating a parent
    • What to do if you are the only queer in your family over the holidays

    SEND US YOUR QUESTIONS!

    Music By: Sean Patrick Brennan @ayeayeayemusic

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    24 min