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Dear Divorce Diary - With Daz & Jop

Dear Divorce Diary - With Daz & Jop

De : Darren Mort-Family Law Barrister & Joplin Higgins-Family Law Solicitor
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When a relationship ends, it can feel like the world is breaking apart — legally, emotionally and practically. The Dear Divorce Diary Podcast exists to guide you through that difficult landscape with clarity, compassion and a child-focused mindset.


Each episode, Darren “Daz” Mort and Joplin “Jop” Higgins draw on their extensive experience within the family law system to unpack what separation and divorce really look like — not just on paper, but in real life.


They believe that families deserve dignity, children deserve protection, and adults deserve guidance that is calm, respectful and grounded in expertise rather than conflict.


Together, they explore the issues so many couples face when separating, including:

  • How to divorce with dignity
  • Understanding the family court process
  • What to expect in mediation
  • How to co-parent respectfully and consistently
  • Financial and property settlement — explained in plain English
  • Parenting arrangements after divorce
  • How to avoid court and resolve disputes constructively
  • Practical tips for separating parents
  • Child-focused decision making and emotional awareness
  • When to involve a lawyer or barrister
  • Better communication during conflict and separation


And because no two separations look the same, you can be part of the conversation.

Listeners are invited to submit their questions for Daz & Jop, with future episodes dedicated to answering real experiences, real challenges and real concerns from the people who need guidance most.


Whether you’re contemplating separation, navigating court, co-parenting, or simply trying to put your children first through the uncertainty — The Dear Divorce Diary Podcast offers steady, professional guidance to help reshape the path ahead.


Real law. Real families. Real conversations.


Subscribe, listen, learn — and know that you’re not alone.

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  • Facebook, TikTok & Family Court: The Social Media Mistakes Destroying Divorce Cases

    Facebook, TikTok & Family Court: The Social Media Mistakes Destroying Divorce Cases
    May 17 2026
    In this brutally honest and often darkly humorous episode of Dear Divorce Diary, Darren Mort (Family Law Barrister) and Joplin Higgins (Practising Family Lawyer) dive into one of the biggest modern dangers in separation and divorce proceedings — social media.From angry Facebook rants and passive-aggressive memes to dating app disasters, GoFundMe controversies and children being exposed to online conflict, this episode explores how social media behaviour can seriously damage:Parenting casesFamily law proceedingsPersonal credibilityMental healthChildren’s wellbeingDaz & Jop explain why courts are increasingly examining online behaviour under a microscope — and why one impulsive post can become devastating evidence in the courtroom.The episode delivers practical insight, cautionary tales and hard truths about how people sabotage themselves online during separation.“People Act Like Absolute Fools On Social Media”The Impact On ChildrenA major focus of the discussion is the devastating effect social media conflict has on children.The episode explores:Children reading posts about their parentsSchool bullying linked to family court disputesFriends and classmates discovering online conflictEmotional embarrassment and shameLong-term damage to parent-child relationshipsDaz shares examples of children being ridiculed at school after parents publicly posted inflammatory content online.The hosts repeatedly reinforce:The Family Court prioritises the best interests of children — and social media warfare rarely reflects that.Social Media As Court EvidenceDaz & Jop explain how family lawyers, barristers and Independent Children’s Lawyers routinely conduct “deep dives” into parties’ social media accounts.The episode highlights how courts may examine:Facebook postsTikTok videosInstagram storiesComments sectionsDating profilesGoFundMe campaignsText message labels and contact namesJop explains that social media can reveal:Personality traitsEmotional instabilityAggressionParenting attitudesDenigration of the other parentPoor judgmentKey Takeaways From This EpisodeSocial media posts regularly become evidence in family court proceedings.Children are often deeply impacted by parents’ online conflict.Passive-aggressive memes and public attacks can seriously damage credibility.Dating profiles and fundraising pages may create legal complications.Courts increasingly examine digital behaviour closely.Online conduct may influence parenting decisions and intervention order proceedings.Emotional “purging” online rarely helps legal outcomes.If you wouldn’t want a judge reading it aloud in court — don’t post it.About The HostsDarren MortFamily law barrister focused on parenting disputes, family violence and trauma-informed advocacy.Joplin HigginsFamily lawyer, Director of Joplin Lawyers and advocate for trauma-informed family law practice.Listener AdviceIf you are currently navigating separation or family law proceedings:Avoid posting emotionally reactive content onlineNever involve children in online disputesAssume all posts may eventually be read in courtSeek legal advice before engaging publicly about proceedingsPrioritise your children’s emotional wellbeing above online validationJoin The ConversationHave a question or topic suggestion for Dear Divorce Diary?Connect with Darren and Joplin via:TikTokInstagramLinkedInYouTubePodcast platformsDM your questions, experiences or future topic ideas for upcoming episodes.Follow & SubscribeIf you’re navigating separation, parenting arrangements, or family court processes, Dear Divorce Diary offers real conversations and practical insights from experienced family law professionals.Follow, like, and subscribe to stay up to date with upcoming episodes featuring Darren Mort (Family Law Barrister) and Joplin Higgins (Family Law Solicitor).Real law. Real families. Real conversations.Subscribe, listen, learn — and know that you’re not alone. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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    18 min
  • The Most Dangerous Red Flag: Strangulation, Domestic Violence & The Family Court Reality

    The Most Dangerous Red Flag: Strangulation, Domestic Violence & The Family Court Reality
    May 15 2026

    ⚠️ Trigger Warning

    This episode contains detailed discussion surrounding:

    • Domestic and family violence
    • Strangulation and choking
    • Trauma and coercive control
    • Psychological abuse
    • Court processes involving victim-survivors

    Listener discretion is strongly advised.


    Episode Overview

    In one of the most confronting and emotionally powerful episodes of Dear Divorce Diary, Darren Mort (Family Law Barrister) and Joplin Higgins (Practising Family Lawyer) tackle the deeply serious topic of strangulation within intimate relationships — and why it is considered one of the strongest indicators of future lethality in domestic violence situations.


    Drawing on their extensive experience within the family law and court systems, Daz and Jop unpack:

    • How coercive and controlling behaviour escalates into physical violence
    • Why strangulation is treated as an extreme risk factor
    • The devastating psychological and physiological impacts on victim-survivors
    • How criminal and family law systems intersect in these matters
    • The evidentiary challenges victims face
    • Why trauma-informed legal support is critical
    • The long-term impact family violence has on children
    • The urgent need for education, prevention and cultural change

    This episode is both educational and deeply human — offering insight into the realities faced by victim-survivors navigating separation, parenting and the legal system after severe domestic violence.


    Key Discussion Points:

    The Hidden Medical Consequences

    Daz and Jop discuss how many victim-survivors never seek immediate medical treatment following strangulation incidents — often due to fear, trauma or shock.

    They highlight serious medical consequences including:

    • Acquired brain injuries
    • Memory loss and amnesia
    • Oxygen deprivation
    • Esophagus and airway injuries
    • Long-term neurological damage
    • Severe psychological trauma and PTSD

    Jop strongly encourages victim-survivors to seek urgent medical attention and documentation after any strangulation incident.


    Why Victims Often Don’t Report Immediately

    One of the most important parts of the episode examines why victim-survivors may delay reporting violence to police, doctors or the courts.

    The conversation explores:

    • Fear of retaliation
    • Trauma responses
    • Emotional paralysis
    • Concern for children
    • Financial dependency
    • Psychological conditioning through coercive control

    Daz explains how defence teams in court often scrutinise “contemporaneous reporting” — meaning whether incidents were immediately reported — despite the complex trauma responses victims experience.


    About The Hosts

    Darren Mort

    Family law barrister, advocate and commentator focused on family violence, parenting matters and trauma-informed legal practice.

    Joplin Higgins

    Family lawyer, author and Director of Joplin Lawyers, recognised for her work in family violence advocacy and victim-survivor support.


    Join The Conversation

    If this episode resonates with you, or you have questions about family law, coercive control, parenting, domestic violence or separation:

    • Connect via Instagram
    • Reach out on TikTok
    • Message through LinkedIn
    • Share your topic suggestions for future episodes

    Listener Support

    If this episode has raised concerns for you or someone you know, support is available through Australian domestic violence and crisis services.

    You are encouraged to seek assistance from:

    • Call Triple Zero - Police in emergencies
    • Domestic violence support services
    • Trauma-informed counsellors
    • Medical professionals
    • Legal practitioners experienced in family violence matters


    Follow & Subscribe

    If you’re navigating separation, parenting arrangements, or family court processes, Dear Divorce Diary offers real conversations and practical insights from experienced family law professionals.

    Follow, like, and subscribe to stay up to date with upcoming episodes featuring Darren Mort (Family Law Barrister) and Joplin Higgins (Family Law Solicitor).


    Real law. Real families. Real conversations.

    Subscribe, listen, learn — and know that you’re not alone.

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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    27 min
  • Extra-Marital Affairs, Betrayal and the Modern Divorce Process

    Extra-Marital Affairs, Betrayal and the Modern Divorce Process
    May 15 2026

    In this thought-provoking episode of Dear Divorce Diary, Darren Mort (Family Law Barrister) and Joplin Higgins (Practising Family Lawyer) tackle one of the most emotionally charged issues in family law: extra-marital affairs and their impact on separation and divorce.


    Although Australia operates under a no-fault divorce system, Daz and Jop explore why affairs can still play a significant role in the breakdown of relationships, family dynamics, parenting arrangements, and even allegations of coercive and controlling behaviour.


    The discussion moves beyond the traditional concept of infidelity and examines how affairs can become intertwined with:

    • Emotional abuse
    • Psychological harm
    • Family violence dynamics
    • Coercive control
    • Family contributions and relationship breakdown


    Key Takeaways

    This episode highlights the reality that while Australia has a no-fault divorce system, the emotional and behavioural consequences of affairs can still have profound effects on:

    • Families
    • Parenting relationships
    • Mental health
    • Court proceedings
    • Allegations of coercive or emotionally abusive conduct

    Important themes explored include:

    • Respect and honesty during relationship breakdown
    • The emotional impact of betrayal
    • The evolving role of coercive control in family law
    • How modern technology is changing relationships
    • The importance of understanding the broader context surrounding infidelity


    For more conversations about separation, parenting, relationships and navigating the family law system, follow Dear Divorce Diary on LinkedIn, Instagram, Facebook and TikTok.

    New episodes explore complex family law topics with practical insights and real-world discussion designed to help listeners better understand the divorce process.


    Follow & Subscribe

    If you’re navigating separation, parenting arrangements, or family court processes, Dear Divorce Diary offers real conversations and practical insights from experienced family law professionals.

    Follow, like, and subscribe to stay up to date with upcoming episodes featuring Darren Mort (Family Law Barrister) and Joplin Higgins (Family Law Solicitor).


    Real law. Real families. Real conversations.

    Subscribe, listen, learn — and know that you’re not alone.

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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    15 min
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