After countless low-effort matches, ghostings, and confusing conversations, I’ve finally met someone who feels different. In this episode, I share what it’s been like to date someone who is sweet, emotionally present, physically confident, intellectually stimulating (hello, PhD in humanities!), and genuinely invested in getting to know me.

He plans dates. He calls. He brought flowers on our first official date. And most surprisingly? He makes it easy.

Being with him is not only refreshing—it’s making me realize just how wrong my last relationship was. Sometimes, clarity doesn’t come from what goes wrong… but from finally experiencing what feels right.

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Some dating conversations feel like an interview, others feel like a monologue, and some… just leave you confused. In this episode, I share my bizarre exchange with a former Marine—who went from serving his country to selling Tempurpedic mattresses—and how the conversation took a sharp turn when I dared to have thoughts and opinions.

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If you’ve ever had a guy assume your profession for absolutely no reason, this episode is for you. First, I talk about a guy who confidently decided I was a librarian—based solely on the fact that I read books. Then, I dive into the painfully slow fade of someone who seemed interested… until his response time went from thoughtful messages to one every two days. Spoiler: it ended with an underwhelming coffee invite that made me question why I even bothered. If you’re tired of low-effort dating, lukewarm interest, and men who don’t even try—this episode is a must-listen.

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