In this episode, Lilly Wehman and Amelia Abernathy explore what it means to date while navigating a chronic illness. Through personal storytelling and a therapeutic lens, they unpack the realities of vulnerability, disclosure, and identity in relationships. The conversation highlights the emotional complexity of managing health challenges while dating, the impact of uncertainty on connection, and the role of therapy and support systems in building grounded, authentic relationships.

Key Topics

• Dating while navigating a chronic illness
• Vulnerability and the timing of disclosure
• Identity shifts and loss of control
• The emotional impact of ghosting and rejection
• The role of therapy and external support
• Building relationships rooted in authenticity

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What is something dating in your twenties has taught you about yourself? Share your thoughts and stories with us — we’d love to hear them.

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Lilly Wehman: Millennium | LinkedIn
Amelia Abernathy: Millennium | LinkedIn

This podcast is powered by Millennium Counseling Center in Chicago, IL. To learn more visit: millenniumhope.com

In this episode, Amelia Abernathy and Lilly Wehman explore the evolving nature of friendships, relationships, and identity in your 20s. Through an honest and reflective conversation, they unpack how life transitions—dating, career shifts, and personal growth—reshape social dynamics and emotional connections. This episode highlights the tension between holding on and letting go, while offering a grounded perspective on navigating change with self-awareness and compassion.

Key Topics

• The evolution of friendships in your 20s
• How romantic relationships impact social dynamics
• Navigating shifting priorities and identity development
• Emotional attachment, comparison, and change
• Self-reflection as a tool for growth
• Letting go without guilt or resentment

Takeaways

• Change in your 20s is inevitable—and often necessary for growth
• Friendships can evolve without needing to end
• Open, honest communication strengthens relationships during transitions
• Self-awareness allows for more grounded, intentional connections
• Growth often requires redefining emotional and social priorities
• Compassion for yourself and others is key during periods of change

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What is something dating in your twenties has taught you about yourself? Share your thoughts and stories with us — we’d love to hear them.

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• Why Do I Always Start Fights? A 20s Guide to Conflict Styles
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Dating In Your 20s Anonymous Corner

Check out the anonymous DIY20s Form. It’s a safe, judgment-free space to share what’s going on in your love life.

Connect:

Lilly Wehman: Millennium | LinkedIn
Amelia Abernathy: Millennium | LinkedIn

This podcast is powered by Millennium Counseling Center in Chicago, IL. To learn more visit: millenniumhope.com

In this episode of Dating In Your 20s, Amelia sits down with Lilly to unpack the lessons, heartbreaks, and reality checks that shape so many of our dating experiences in our twenties. Inspired by Dolly Alderton’s book Everything I Know About Love, the conversation explores how dating, friendships, and self-discovery are deeply intertwined during this decade.

Together, Amelia and Lilly dive into the fears and insecurities that surface while navigating relationships, situationships, and the pressure to have it all figured out. They also reflect on the humbling moments when we realize that sometimes it’s not the world that needs changing — it’s our own patterns, expectations, or healing that deserve attention.

This episode is an honest conversation about growth, accountability, friendship, heartbreak, and learning to love yourself before chasing love from someone else. If you’ve ever wondered why dating feels so complicated in your twenties, or found yourself repeating the same relationship cycles, this episode is for you.

In this episode, they discuss:

• Lessons from Everything I Know About Love and how they show up in modern dating
• The fears and insecurities that follow us through our twenties
• Friendship as a foundation for personal and relational growth
• Recognizing unhealthy dating patterns and taking accountability
• The moment you realize growth starts within
• Letting go of timelines and expectations around love and relationships
• Why self-awareness matters more than finding “the one”

Takeaway

Your twenties are less about finding the perfect partner and more about becoming someone you’re proud to be with — and learning along the way that love shows up in many forms, not just romantic ones.

Join the conversation:

What is something dating in your twenties has taught you about yourself? Share your thoughts and stories with us — we’d love to hear them.

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• The “Village” We Romanticize vs. the Village We Actually Build
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Dating In Your 20s Anonymous Corner

Check out the anonymous DIY20s Form. It’s a safe, judgment-free space to share what’s going on in your love life.

Connect:

Lilly Wehman: Millennium | LinkedIn
Amelia Abernathy: Millennium | LinkedIn

This podcast is powered by Millennium Counseling Center in Chicago, IL. To learn more visit: millenniumhope.com