Why do I keep choosing the wrong man? Why does the chemistry feel so strong… but something still feels off? And how do I finally attract a healthy, lasting relationship instead of repeating the same painful patterns?

In this episode of Talk with Tara, I sit down with relationship coach and bestselling author Daniel Ratner to unpack what truly creates lasting love, especially for women dating after divorce, heartbreak, or long periods of being single.

We also talk about insights from his newest book, Emotional Vampires, and how to recognize when someone is draining you emotionally instead of building something healthy with you.

We talk about:

• Why chemistry is not a reliable indicator of compatibility • The four phases of love and how to recognize where you are • How to stop chasing emotionally unavailable partners • The real reason you feel “unloved” in relationships • How to build confidence that attracts emotionally mature men • Dating and breaking old relationship patterns

If you’re navigating dating in midlife, trying to heal from past relationships, or wondering why your love life feels stuck, this conversation will shift the way you see attraction and connection.

This episode is for women who want depth, emotional safety, passion, and partnership without losing themselves in the process.

Listen now and start choosing love differently.

Daniel Ratner is a relationship coach and bestselling author dedicated to helping people break painful dating patterns and build lasting, healthy love. He is the author of:

• Emotional Vampires (his newest release) • Sunscreen for the Soul • The Four Phases to Find the Love You Want • Never Feel Unloved Again

Connect with Daniel Ratner:

Website: https://danielratner.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/danielratner Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/danielratnerauthor Books: Available on Amazon and major retailers