The enemy's strategy against marriage hasn't changed since the Garden of Eden.

In this powerful episode of Covenant Army Marriage, Brent and Lucy expose the enemy's oldest battle plan against husbands and wives and reveal how the same three temptations used against Eve and Jesus are still being used to attack marriages today: the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life.

Discover how these hidden attacks often show up as arguments, distance, bitterness, pornography, comparison, control, and selfishness, and learn why many couples spend years fighting symptoms while missing the real source of the battle.

In this episode, you'll learn:

• Why the enemy targets marriage so aggressively

• How comparison quietly destroys covenant

• Why pride is one of the most dangerous forces in a relationship

• How Jesus defeated temptation and what that means for your marriage

• Practical battle strategies to protect and strengthen your covenant

• Why couples who pray, fast, and stay in God's Word together become difficult to divide

This is more than a marriage conversation. It's a spiritual battle plan. If you're ready to stop fighting each other and start fighting for your covenant together, this episode will encourage, challenge, and equip you to stand shoulder to shoulder against the real enemy.

What God has joined together, the enemy wants to separate. But in Christ, husband and wife can fight as one and walk in victory.

🎧 Listen now and discover how to recognize the enemy's schemes, protect your marriage, and fight for the covenant God has entrusted to you.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to the Enemy's Tactics Against Marriage

05:37 Understanding the Enemy's Strategy

11:34 The Lust of the Flesh: Temptations in Marriage

22:53 The Lust of the Eyes: Seeking Power and Influence

23:47 The Illusion of Shortcuts

28:44 The Dangers of Comparison

33:38 Guarding Against Temptation

37:44 Strategies for Humility and Reconciliation

40:50 Recognizing the Real Enemy

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Is your marriage being quietly pulled apart by the device in your pocket?

In this powerful episode of the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast, Brent and Lucy expose the hidden threat of micro infidelity and how seemingly harmless digital habits can slowly erode trust, intimacy, and emotional connection in marriage. From social media interactions and private messages to the constant pursuit of online validation, they reveal how the enemy uses subtle compromises to create cracks in even the strongest relationships.

Drawing from biblical truth and their own marriage journey, Brent and Lucy discuss practical ways couples can establish healthy digital boundaries, embrace radical transparency, and reclaim emotional exclusivity within their covenant. They share real life struggles, victories, and safeguards that have helped protect their marriage while serving in ministry in an increasingly connected world.

In this episode, you'll discover:

• What micro infidelity is and why it is so dangerous
• How social media and digital distractions can weaken marital intimacy
• The warning signs that emotional boundaries are being crossed
• Practical digital guardrails every Christian couple should consider
• How to rebuild trust, strengthen transparency, and protect your covenant
• Biblical principles for guarding your heart in a digital age

Whether your marriage is thriving or struggling, this conversation will challenge you to examine the role technology plays in your relationship and equip you to fight for the unity God intended.

Chapters

00:00 The Silent Attack on Marriage

08:26 Understanding Digital Adultery

12:13 Defining Micro Infidelity

24:41 Recognizing the Signs of Micro Infidelity

28:17 Navigating Insecurities and Spiritual Blind Spots

31:03 Establishing Radical Transparency in Relationships

39:13 Reclaiming Emotional Exclusivity

50:07 Creating a Battle Plan for Digital Boundaries

Scriptures Referenced: Proverbs 4:23, Matthew 5:28, 1 Corinthians 10:13, Romans 10:9

Resources: Learn more about strengthening your marriage through the Forged for Mission: The Sacred Blueprint of Marriage training at Covenant Army.

Remember: Your marriage is worth protecting. Guard your heart, strengthen your boundaries, and stay united in Christ.

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Most couples are getting this completely wrong. In this powerful episode of the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast, Brent and Lucy unpack the unexpected power of respect and reveal four biblical ways respect can literally save your marriage.

Through honest conversations, real marriage struggles, and practical wisdom rooted in Scripture, this episode dives deep into how respect can stop the “crazy cycle” of conflict, create emotional safety, guard your marriage against outside temptations, and even help resurrect feelings that seem dead and gone.

You’ll discover why love may be the fuel of marriage, but respect is the steering wheel. Brent and Lucy share personal stories, biblical truth from Ephesians 5:33, and practical strategies couples can apply immediately to strengthen connection, restore honor, and fight for their covenant.

In this episode, you’ll learn:
• How respect de-escalates conflict before it destroys connection
• Why emotional safety is essential for vulnerability in marriage
• How honoring your spouse protects your marriage from outside threats
• The surprising connection between respect and rekindling love
• Why feelings should never lead your covenant
• A practical 24-hour “Respect Challenge” to transform your home atmosphere

This episode is a call for husbands and wives to stop fighting each other and start fighting for each other. If your marriage feels stuck, strained, or spiritually exhausted, this conversation will encourage you to step off the crazy cycle, restore honor in your communication, and invite God back to the center of your marriage.

Your covenant marriage is worth fighting for.

Scriptures referenced:
• Ephesians 5:33
• Romans 10:9

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Chapters

00:00 The Power of Respect in Marriage

02:58 Understanding Respect: A Biblical Perspective

05:40 Respect as a Conflict Resolution Tool

11:33 Creating a Safe Space for Vulnerability

15:48 Building Resilience Against External Threats

19:55 Resurrecting Dead Feelings Through Respect

23:54 The Respect Challenge: Practical Steps for Couples

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In this powerful and convicting episode of the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast, Brent and Lucy Howell confront four critical things a wife should never have to beg her husband for in marriage.

From spiritual leadership and emotional connection to protection, faithfulness, and honor, this episode challenges husbands to step back into their God given role and calls couples to fight for unity instead of surrendering ground to the enemy.

Brent and Lucy unpack how passivity, emotional distance, hidden compromise, and lack of protection can slowly erode trust and security in a marriage. Through biblical truth, raw honesty, and practical wisdom from their own journey, they remind couples that marriage is not a competition, but a covenant battlefield where husband and wife must stand side by side.

In this episode, you’ll discover:

• Why spiritual passivity damages the order of the home
• The importance of emotional connection and fidelity in marriage
• How husbands are called to protect and defend their wives
• Why wives should never have to beg to be heard, valued, or honored
• How to recognize the enemy’s attacks against your marriage
• What true biblical leadership and partnership look like
• The power of repentance, restoration, and fighting together in Christ

This episode is a wake up call for husbands, encouragement for weary wives, and a reminder that healthy covenant marriages are built through intentional love, sacrifice, spiritual warfare, and unwavering commitment to God.

Whether your marriage is thriving or struggling, this conversation will equip you to strengthen your relationship, guard your covenant, and walk together in unity and purpose.

Walk in truth. Fight in love. Stay united in Christ.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Marriage Dynamics

01:06 The Call for Spiritual Leadership

09:29 The Importance of Emotional Fidelity

20:25 Defending Your Partner

26:39 Equal Partnership in Marriage

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Can God’s Grace Truly Cover a Remarriage?
In this deeply personal and powerful episode of the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast, Brent and his Lucy tackle one of the most difficult and emotionally charged questions many Christian couples silently wrestle with: Can God still bless and redeem a remarriage?

Drawing from their own testimony as a remarried couple, they open up about the shame, condemnation, and spiritual attacks they faced early in ministry when others questioned whether God could truly use them because of their past. Through honest conversation and biblical truth, they confront the lies of the enemy with the redeeming power of God’s grace.

This episode dives into:
• What the Bible really says about divorce, remarriage, and redemption
• Why God’s grace does not erase truth, but transforms broken people
• How shame keeps believers spiritually trapped in their past
• The story of the Samaritan woman at the well and the power of restoration
• Why your past failures do not cancel God’s future calling on your life
• How remarried couples can build a Christ-centered covenant moving forward
• The difference between conviction and condemnation
• Why no surrendered life is beyond God’s mercy and healing

With raw honesty, biblical encouragement, and practical wisdom, this episode is for anyone carrying guilt from divorce, questioning their worthiness, or wondering if God can still restore, use, and bless their marriage today.

No matter your past, the cross was enough.

Scriptures Featured:
Romans 8:1
Ecclesiastes 4:12
John 4
2 Corinthians 5:17
Micah 7:18
Romans 10:9

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Most couples underestimate the spiritual battle for their marriage — until chaos erupts. Brent, Lucy, Raymond, and Leslie Funk reveal the hidden warfare every believer faces and how they turned their mess into a ministry of hope and victory.

In this transformative episode, you'll discover the powerful story of a marriage dragged through addiction, betrayal, and nearly destroyed by the enemy — yet redeemed through obedience, prayer, and the Holy Spirit's unwavering power.

Raymond and Leslie Funk share how God took their brokenness and birthed Three Cord Marriage, a ministry rooted in biblical truth and practical warfare strategies that equip couples to fight for their union.We break down their groundbreaking Tactical Marriage Training, a high-impact experience designed to strengthen marriages by teaching couples how to deploy spiritual weapons during real-life battles.

Raymond and Leslie share how fighting with faith, boldness, and unity can expose lies, rebuke darkness, and restore hope even in the darkest moments. You'll also hear their candid testimony of overcoming addiction, infidelity, and spiritual deception — lessons that can save your marriage from the enemy’s schemes.

Why does this matter? Because your marriage isn’t just about you — it’s a legacy that influences generations. The enemy wants to divide and destroy what God has joined, but through spiritual warfare, obedience, and relentless faith, your marriage can become a mighty example of God's victory. This is not just another episode — it's a battle-cry for every couple fighting to stay united under God's purpose.

Whether you're in the storm or seeking to prevent one, this episode offers spiritual tools, real-life grace, and a message of hope that will leave you equipped and encouraged to stand firm. Perfect for couples, ministry leaders, or anyone desperate for a breakthrough in their marriage — this is your call to fight in love, walk in truth, and walk in God's victory.Raymond and Leslie Funk are founders of Three Cord Marriage, devoted to helping couples discover their divine purpose and build resilient, faith-centered unions.

Their journey from brokenness to breakthrough proves that with God, nothing is impossible.If you’re ready to lead your marriage into victory, don’t miss this episode. Every couple needs this spiritual warfare strategy — because the fight for your marriage is worth it, and you’re already equipped for the victory.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Personal Reflections

02:44 The Birth of Three Cord Marriage

05:44 The Journey of Faith and Obedience

08:28 The Transformation of Raymond and Leslie's Marriage

11:02 Facing Challenges and Seeking Restoration

13:46 The Power of Vulnerability and Sharing Testimonies

29:29 Confronting Chaos: A Moment of Truth

31:48 Spiritual Warfare in Marriage

34:47 The Power of Prayer and Faith

36:24 The Journey of Healing and Reconciliation

42:01 Building Trust and New Beginnings

45:15 The Importance of Inner Healing

48:54 Navigating the Path to Restoration

52:36 The Influence of Christ-like Responses

54:56 The Power of Response in Leadership

56:20 Three-Cord Marriage: A Journey of Healing

57:35 Fighting for Your Marriage: The Covenant Army

59:58 Tactical Marriage Training: A Unique Experience

01:06:05 Building a Legacy Through Marriage

01:17:15 Final Thoughts: The Impact of Marriage on Generations

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In this episode of the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast, Brent and Lucy dive deep into the often misunderstood topic of conflict in marriage. They candidly share their personal journey, revealing how they initially believed love and commitment would shield them from conflict, only to discover that it is a natural part of any relationship. Through heartfelt discussions, they explore how conflict can be a powerful tool for growth and unity when handled in a God-honoring way. Listeners will learn practical strategies for navigating disagreements, the importance of humility, and the transformative power of inviting God into their marriage. Whether you're newlyweds or have been married for decades, this episode offers valuable insights to strengthen your relationship and embrace conflict as a path to deeper connection and understanding.

Chapters

00:00 Understanding Conflict in Marriage

06:19 The Nature of Conflict

09:58 Handling Conflict Effectively

18:27 The Role of God in Conflict Resolution

25:24 Seeking Help and Community Support

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Nobody tells you this before marriage, but they should. You’re not starting from scratch. You’re bringing patterns. The way you handle conflict, show love, shut down, or take control was shaped long before your spouse ever came into your life. And when pressure hits, you don’t rise to your intentions, you fall back on what trained you. That’s why so many couples feel blindsided. Marriage doesn’t create problems. It reveals patterns. In this week's episode on the Covenant Army Marriage podcast, Brent and Lucy breakdown this poweful topic.

Here’s the truth and the hope. You are not stuck with what shaped you, but you are responsible for what you build. If you don’t confront it, you will repeat it. But in Christ, you can break cycles, choose a different blueprint, and build a marriage that reflects Him, not your past. You’re not just inheriting a tree. You have the power to plant a new one.

Chapters

00:00 Celebrating 18 Years of Marriage

02:39 The Importance of Community in Marriage

05:15 Tactical Marriage Training Experience

08:30 Understanding Baggage in Marriage

11:14 Expectations and Upbringing in Marriage

13:58 Navigating Conflict and Communication

16:46 Breaking Unhealthy Patterns

19:59 Building a New Foundation in Marriage

22:51 The Role of Faith in Marriage

25:41 Invitation to a Relationship with Christ

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