n this festive episode of the Charge Forward Coaching Podcast, host James Blasco puts a fun holiday twist on mental toughness by using Santa Claus as the ultimate example of the Four C’s. James breaks down control, commitment, confidence, and challenge through Santa’s yearly marathon of delivering joy around the world. From Santa’s legendary emotional control under pressure, to his unwavering commitment to the mission, to the confidence he shows in both his abilities and his team of reindeer, James highlights how the big guy in red quietly models elite mental toughness every December. He also explores how Santa embraces challenge—weather, timelines, logistics, and the occasional cookie overload—with a mindset that keeps him moving forward. James invites listeners to reflect on their own mental toughness during the holiday season and shares ways to build these skills heading into the new year.

Key Takeaways:

Mental toughness consists of control, commitment, confidence, and challenge.

Santa Claus exemplifies emotional and life control.

He manages operations throughout the year, not just on Christmas.

Santa takes risks to bring joy to others.

He learns from mistakes and improves efficiency.

Goal setting is crucial for Santa's success. Santa's achievement orientation is high; he follows through every year.

Confidence is key for Santa in his abilities and communication. Interpersonal confidence is essential for teamwork with elves and reindeer. Santa serves as a relatable example of mental toughness.

Sound bites:

"What exactly is mental toughness?"

"He has to be a good communicator."

"He hasn't quit. He keeps going."

About the Host:

James Blasco is a CTA Certified Coach, and a Certified Functional Mental Toughness and Resilience coach, and a Certified Neuroscience Coach based in Ormond Beach, Florida, with a rich background in sales, media, and entrepreneurship. Throughout his career, James has excelled in sales and sales coaching for some of the largest media companies, owned three successful businesses, and worked in media relations in the NFL. His diverse experiences have equipped him with a deep understanding of leadership, communication, and the drive needed to achieve success. James is also trained specifically to coach to all aspects of mental toughness and resilience. Having received coaching and mentoring throughout his personal and professional life, James recognizes the profound impact of genuine, constructive, and meaningful guidance. He understands the passion required to pursue a goal, as well as the challenges of doubt, fear, and the need for perseverance. James’s coaching philosophy is rooted in compassion and results, focusing on helping clients uncover their goals, develop actionable plans, and persist through obstacles.

Resources:

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In this solo episode, James Blasco shines a spotlight on an often‑overlooked dimension of confidence: interpersonal confidence. While most discussions of mental toughness focus on self‑belief and inner resilience, Blasco emphasizes that true strength also comes from how we engage with others. Whether in sports, business, or everyday life, interpersonal confidence is the key to effective communication, emotional control, and building positive, lasting relationships.

Drawing from the world of sports, Blasco shares the legendary story of Joe Montana’s leadership during Super Bowl XXIII. Facing immense pressure in the final minutes, Montana used humor, calmness, and trust to steady his teammates — famously pointing out actor John Candy in the stands to break the tension. This moment illustrates how interpersonal confidence can transform fear into focus, proving that confidence is contagious when modeled through connection and encouragement.

Blasco connects these lessons to the 4 C’s of Mental Toughness — Control, Commitment, Challenge, and Confidence — showing how interpersonal confidence strengthens each pillar. He also weaves in insights from Alfred Adler’s psychology, highlighting the importance of social interest and belonging in building resilience.

Listeners will walk away with practical strategies to practice interpersonal confidence in their own lives:

Using encouragement to lift others up.

Staying calm and clear in high‑pressure conversations.

Building trust through reliability and authentic connection.

This episode is both inspiring and actionable, reminding us that confidence isn’t just about standing tall alone — it’s about standing strong together.

Takeaways:

Interpersonal confidence is a critical part of mental toughness.

Engaging with others positively is essential in all areas of life.

Emotional control enhances communication and teamwork.

Taking risks in communication can lead to growth.

Assertiveness should be constructive and respectful.

Interpersonal skills can be practiced in everyday situations.

Joe Montana's leadership exemplifies effective interpersonal skills.

Lightening the mood can improve team dynamics.

Practice interpersonal confidence daily for personal development.

Self-awareness is key to improving interpersonal skills.

About the Host:

James Blasco is a CTA Certified Coach, and a Certified Functional Mental Toughness and Resilience coach, and a Certified Neuroscience Coach based in Ormond Beach, Florida, with a rich background in sales, media, and entrepreneurship. Throughout his career, James has excelled in sales and sales coaching for some of the largest media companies, owned three successful businesses, and worked in media relations in the NFL. His diverse experiences have equipped him with a deep understanding of leadership, communication, and the drive needed to achieve success. James is also trained specifically to coach to all aspects of mental toughness and resilience.

Having received coaching and mentoring throughout his personal and professional life, James recognizes the profound impact of genuine, constructive, and meaningful guidance. He understands the passion required to pursue a goal, as well as the challenges of doubt, fear, and the need for perseverance. James’s coaching philosophy is rooted in compassion and results, focusing on helping clients uncover their goals, develop actionable plans, and persist through obstacles.

Resources:

Website: www.chargeforwardcoaching.com

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/chargeforwardcoaching/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ChargeForwardCoaching/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chargeforwardcoaching

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ChargeForwardCoaching

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/ChargeForwardCoaching

Apple Podcasts:

In this episode of the Charge Forward Coaching Podcast, host James Blasco interviews Jason Immekus, a minor league pitching coach with the Cincinnati Reds. They discuss the mindset of great pitchers, the importance of mental toughness, and how routines and rituals contribute to performance. Jason shares insights on coaching young athletes, preparing for big moments, and the sacrifices required to achieve success in baseball. The conversation emphasizes the need for a supportive environment that fosters growth and resilience in athletes.

Takeaways

Mental toughness is about staying focused on the next pitch.

Coaches must show they care to build trust with players.

Young athletes face more distractions than previous generations.

Mental toughness can be developed and sharpened over time.

Routines and rituals are crucial for performance but must be adaptable.

Creating a safe environment allows athletes to learn from failure.

Handling conflict positively is essential for growth.

Parents should model consistent behavior for young athletes.

Success in baseball comes in many forms and styles.

Aspiring pitchers must be willing to sacrifice for their goals.

Chapters

(00:00) Introduction to Mental Toughness in Pitching

(06:29) Understanding the Mindset of Great Pitchers

(11:41) The Role of Routines and Rituals in Performance

(17:29) Building Mental Toughness in Young Athletes

(23:46) The Importance of Adaptability in Pitching

(29:22) Advice for Aspiring Pitchers

About the Guest:

Jason Immekus is a veteran pitching coach and consultant with over 19 years of experience developing athletes at the collegiate and professional levels. He is currently a Minor League Pitching Coach for the Cincinnati Reds, (Daytona Tortugas) where he works with emerging talent to refine mechanics, build confidence, and prepare pitchers for the big leagues.

Before joining the Reds, Immekus built a distinguished coaching career across multiple programs:

Crowder College (2018–2021): Guided pitchers and contributed to team success in the NJCAA ranks.

Pittsburg State University (2016–2018): Helped lead the pitching staff to its best statistical performance since 1997, contributing to postseason qualification.

Missouri Southern State University (2010–2015): Coached an MIAA Pitcher of the Year, six All-MIAA pitchers, and advanced to two NCAA Regionals.

Jefferson College (2006–2009): Served as pitching coach and recruiting coordinator.

Immekus has also worked extensively in collegiate summer leagues such as the Coastal Plain League, Northwoods League, and Mink League, where he mentored players who went on to professional careers. Over his career, he has helped develop more than 60 pitchers who signed professionally, including seven who reached Major League Baseball.

In addition to his coaching roles, Jason has served as an Associate Scout for both the St. Louis Cardinals and Tampa Bay Rays, bringing his expertise in player evaluation to MLB organizations. He also contributes as a Pitching Coordinator and Consultant for Premier Pitching Performance, where he designs individualized throwing programs and connects advanced data analysis to on-field success.

A native of Carthage, Missouri, Immekus began his playing career at Independence Community College before transferring to Washburn University, where he was an all-conference pitcher. He later signed a free-agent contract in the Frontier League, playing for the Richmond Roosters and Kalamazoo Kings.

About the Host:

James Blasco is a CTA Certified Coach, and a Certified Functional Mental Toughness and Resilience coach, and a Certified Neuroscience Coach based in Ormond Beach, Florida, with a rich background in sales, media, and...