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  • Ep 172: The Reinvention Loop

    Ep 172: The Reinvention Loop
    May 5 2026
    When was the last time you reinvented yourself? And what drove that reinvention? What area(s) in your life did you reinvent? Reinvention is far more than a change. It is a transformation. We often consider a reinvention only when our usual strategies and tactics stop working. It is a reactionary, almost desperate, attempt to salvage something. Our decision to reinvent is usually a delayed choice, while our intuition immediately signals when it is time. So, we probably do not reinvent ourselves often enough. Reinvention presents the opportunity for us to realign our lives holistically and express ourselves in ways we currently do not. To squeeze as much juice out of life as possible, it would be wise to foster an empowering and inspirational relationship with reinvention. Need vs. want of reinvention Reinvention as an opportunity to express yourself differently Purpose with the doing vs. the being Change vs. transformation Opportunity to reinvent doesn’t stop The dynamic dance of vision and dreaming Using vision and dreams to win each day ------------------------- CONNECT WITH JEFF: Website: https://jeffmillercoaching.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeffmillercoaching/ IG: @jeffmillercoaching FB: https://www.facebook.com/jeff.miller.7965 Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/jeffmillercoaching CONNECT WITH TATSU: Website: https://tatsuyafushimi.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatsuyafushimi/ IG: @tatsuyafushimi FB: https://www.facebook.com/tatsuya.fushimi.9/ Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/tatsuyafushimi
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    26 min
  • Ep 171: Clarity Comes After The Choice, Not Before

    Ep 171: Clarity Comes After The Choice, Not Before
    Apr 28 2026
    Many of us want clarity before making a choice that will require time, energy, money, and other resources. We want the straightest, most efficient path to a goal. But what is clarity? Evidence to support a logical or practical conclusion? Assurance that we are making the right choice? An intuitive sense of alignment? An attempt to avoid wasting resources? It is a combination of things. But how do we know we are choosing the straightest, most efficient path to a goal? We do not know. We gain more clarity only after we choose and collect more information. We never actually have the clarity we seek because the information we collect is never complete. Also, our biased perception of the world taints our decision-making process. So, the clarity we seek is actually faux, not what we truly want. More clarity of what you don’t want Fake clarity wrapped up in lived experience, opinions, and context Awareness of boundaries after the event Reactionary behavior isn’t clarity Reflecting on a future choice can lead to being more unclear Clarity of commitments over clarity of a choice Fear of the winding road and being wrong ------------------------- CONNECT WITH JEFF: Website: https://jeffmillercoaching.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeffmillercoaching/ IG: @jeffmillercoaching FB: https://www.facebook.com/jeff.miller.7965 Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/jeffmillercoaching CONNECT WITH TATSU: Website: https://tatsuyafushimi.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatsuyafushimi/ IG: @tatsuyafushimi FB: https://www.facebook.com/tatsuya.fushimi.9/ Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/tatsuyafushimi
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    26 min
  • Ep 170: Are Your Expectations Clear?

    Ep 170: Are Your Expectations Clear?
    Apr 21 2026
    Expectations are natural and unavoidable. They also often lead to disappointment because outcomes are not 100% controllable. Our expectations reveal a lot about ourselves. It is beneficial to understand what drives our expectations and to communicate them clearly and vulnerably. Otherwise, unmet expectations can create much resentment within, and resentment powerfully impacts our behavior. A lot of times, expectations are internal What’s driving us to want something in the first place? Zero expectations? Taking ourselves out of the present It’s unrealistic to be 100% unattached A growth mindset will always find a win Unmet expectations can lead to resentment Shoulds and obligations get weird Keep refining the ability to communicate Why is this expectation important to me? ------------------------- CONNECT WITH JEFF: Website: https://jeffmillercoaching.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeffmillercoaching/ IG: @jeffmillercoaching FB: https://www.facebook.com/jeff.miller.7965 Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/jeffmillercoaching CONNECT WITH TATSU: Website: https://tatsuyafushimi.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatsuyafushimi/ IG: @tatsuyafushimi FB: https://www.facebook.com/tatsuya.fushimi.9/ Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/tatsuyafushimi
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    31 min
  • Ep 169: My Truth vs. The Truth

    Ep 169: My Truth vs. The Truth
    Apr 14 2026
    There will never be two people who share the same perspective. It is impossible. They may share similar perspectives, but never the same. With this understanding, truth is subjective as well. We perpetuate conflict when we do not understand the distinction between “my truth” and “the truth”. Clinging to “my truth” and expressing it as “the truth” is a common issue today, especially online. Truth is subjective Sugar-coated truth Truth vs belief Having curiosity with why you think something is true My truth vs. the truth Reality is subjective People making bold statements to get reactions Seeking understanding as the goal Fear of being wrong ------------------------- CONNECT WITH JEFF: Website: https://jeffmillercoaching.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeffmillercoaching/ IG: @jeffmillercoaching FB: https://www.facebook.com/jeff.miller.7965 Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/jeffmillercoaching CONNECT WITH TATSU: Website: https://tatsuyafushimi.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatsuyafushimi/ IG: @tatsuyafushimi FB: https://www.facebook.com/tatsuya.fushimi.9/ Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/tatsuyafushimi
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    28 min
  • Ep 168: O.F.G. April 2026

    Ep 168: O.F.G. April 2026
    Apr 7 2026
    O.F.G. means opportunities for growth. Every situation we experience presents a seemingly infinite number of growth opportunities towards becoming the highest version of ourselves. However, it is up to us to train our minds to identify the opportunities and to integrate our hearts in the process. In this series of episodes, Jeff and Tatsu illustrate their thought processes when triggered by people and events in their lives. The black hole of current events and information Frustration with the lying, deception, and lack of accountability of world leaders Seeing the mirror of world leaders 3 months into reinventing my health journey Breakthrough in patience Noticing my crazy sugar trap ------------------------- CONNECT WITH JEFF: Website: https://jeffmillercoaching.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeffmillercoaching/ IG: @jeffmillercoaching FB: https://www.facebook.com/jeff.miller.7965 Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/jeffmillercoaching CONNECT WITH TATSU: Website: https://tatsuyafushimi.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatsuyafushimi/ IG: @tatsuyafushimi FB: https://www.facebook.com/tatsuya.fushimi.9/ Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/tatsuyafushimi
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    23 min
  • Ep 167: The Competition Trap

    Ep 167: The Competition Trap
    Mar 31 2026
    We learned to see the world through the lens of competition at an early age. Our parents and most other adults around us reinforced this perspective. Competition is a story created by our fear-driven ego to ensure its survival. Ego says, “We must compete because resources are scarce. If we don’t compete, we’ll ultimately die.” This story is a trap that most of us have bought into, which is ok. But what matters most is awareness of this trap and the extent to which we are allowing the energy of competition to pull us away from our hearts. Society is based on competition Disempowering relationship to competition Collaboration over competition There’s a lot of fear with competition, normally At what point does being competitive become harmful? If I defeat you, the world will be a better place Ego and competitiveness are closely aligned ------------------------- CONNECT WITH JEFF: Website: https://jeffmillercoaching.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeffmillercoaching/ IG: @jeffmillercoaching FB: https://www.facebook.com/jeff.miller.7965 Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/jeffmillercoaching CONNECT WITH TATSU: Website: https://tatsuyafushimi.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatsuyafushimi/ IG: @tatsuyafushimi FB: https://www.facebook.com/tatsuya.fushimi.9/ Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/tatsuyafushimi
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    26 min
  • Ep 166: Being Intentional Is Tricky

    Ep 166: Being Intentional Is Tricky
    Mar 24 2026
    The more intentional we become, the more we enhance our lives. The key to intention is self-awareness and being honest about the tricks our egos play on us. We must be sensitive to our feelings as indicators to pay more attention. We all have aspects of our lives that we’d like to improve, yet we engage in avoidance or denial instead. What are our autopilot behaviors? How are they working for us? What patterns are we noticing that reveal where we need to make changes? Whether we are being intentional or not, we are making a choice that’s conscious or subconscious. Living intentionally is an act of responsibility. Deciphering automatic behavior from being intentional Checking in with your habits Give ourselves space to get real Continuously consider the best version of you Boredom is a big indicator The best version of ourselves is tricky ------------------------- CONNECT WITH JEFF: Website: https://jeffmillercoaching.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeffmillercoaching/ IG: @jeffmillercoaching FB: https://www.facebook.com/jeff.miller.7965 Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/jeffmillercoaching CONNECT WITH TATSU: Website: https://tatsuyafushimi.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatsuyafushimi/ IG: @tatsuyafushimi FB: https://www.facebook.com/tatsuya.fushimi.9/ Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/tatsuyafushimi
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    28 min
  • Ep 165: With Freedom Comes Big Responsibility

    Ep 165: With Freedom Comes Big Responsibility
    Mar 17 2026
    What’s your definition of freedom? What’s your relationship to it? How do you show up when your freedom is hindered by your own perspective or by other people? We have a constant innate desire for more freedom in all areas of our lives. And this desire is seemingly infinite. We also don’t know what infinite freedom looks like or how we’d show up to the required demands. However, we can practice responsibility and ownership in all areas of our lives daily. This reinforces self-trust that we’ll do the right thing when freedom presents its challenges. To what extent is freedom for me Taking our freedoms for granted Freedom is based on perspective The natural tendency for humans to want ALL Balance between more freedom and gratitude for what we currently have Personal freedom within relationships Communicating and having healthy boundaries and expectations Everything essentially comes down to agreements Checking in with our definition of freedom ------------------------- CONNECT WITH JEFF: Website: https://jeffmillercoaching.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeffmillercoaching/ IG: @jeffmillercoaching FB: https://www.facebook.com/jeff.miller.7965 Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/jeffmillercoaching CONNECT WITH TATSU: Website: https://tatsuyafushimi.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatsuyafushimi/ IG: @tatsuyafushimi FB: https://www.facebook.com/tatsuya.fushimi.9/ Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/tatsuyafushimi
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    29 min