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  • Leading With Curiosity & Lesbianism- S2E7- I Can’t Think Straight

    Leading With Curiosity & Lesbianism- S2E7- I Can’t Think Straight
    Jan 20 2026
    🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian
    Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes.

    This week we’re talking about I Can’t Think Straight (2008), a peak early 2000s-era lesbian romance full of longing stares, rich people, poetry, and extremely intense eye contact. We are dishing on forbidden love, cultural expectations, undeniable chemistry, and more. Messy? Yes. Iconic? Also yes. A true sapphic rite of passage. We are also talking about who we would cast in a movie about our lives, what we are currently obsessing over, and y2k diet culture.

    📲 New episodes weekly. See you next Tuesday! Next week, we are discussing a favorite canonically not exactly WLW film, Fried Green Tomatoes!! This movie is available on Philo or for rent on Apple TV or YouTube!

    But I’m a Lesbian is hosted and produced by Katlynn Beatty and Angelina Herrera. Production and Mixing by Victoria Shifflett. Creative direction and video editing provided by Juanita Iriarte. Music by Stiletto Falsetto.

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    57 min
  • Secret Hookups & Awkward Adult Film Rentals- S2E6-Imagine Me & You

    Secret Hookups & Awkward Adult Film Rentals- S2E6-Imagine Me & You
    Jan 13 2026
    🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian
    Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes.

    This week, we’re talking about the 2005 rom-com Imagine Me & You. From the flower shop/straight wedding “meet-cute” to the slow realization that something feels different, this movie has become a longtime favorite for a lot of queer viewers. We chat about the awkward moments, the quiet tension, and the choices the characters have to make when love shows up in unexpected ways.
    We get into what still works, what feels a little dated, and why this story keeps finding new fans years later. Whether it’s your first time watching or a comfort rewatch, Imagine Me & You is one of those films that keeps inviting conversation, and we’re happy to have it.
    We also dive into our own thoughts on love at first sight, and answer some “Dear Dykes” submissions!

    📲 New episodes weekly. See you next Tuesday! Next week, we are still in our early 2000s WLW era! We will be recapping I Can't Think Straight! This movie is available on Tubi!


    But I’m a Lesbian is hosted and produced by Katlynn Beatty and Angelina Herrera. Production and Mixing by Victoria Shifflett. Creative direction and video editing provided by Juanita Iriarte. Music by Stiletto Falsetto.

    Do you need some sapphic advice? Fill out our "Dear Dykes" form to submit your dilemma, and we may choose it for a future pod episode! https://form.jotform.com/butimalesbianpod/dear-dykes

    Follow @butimalesbianpod on Spotify or Apple Podcasts and leave us a five star review.
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    1 h et 13 min
  • Scissoring, Stretching, & Seeing Red-S2E5-Love Lies Bleeding

    Scissoring, Stretching, & Seeing Red-S2E5-Love Lies Bleeding
    Jan 6 2026
    🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian
    Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes.

    Love Lies Bleeding is not your average sapphic romance, and honestly? Thank goodness! This week, we’re breaking down the murder, the muscles, and the bad decisions that make this film such a wild (yet fun) ride!
    We get into the twisted love story at the center, the extremely hot actors, and the way desire spirals into something dangerous. It’s gritty, intense, and unapologetically gay- and we’re unpacking what works, what shocks us, and what lingers long after the credits roll (hint: it’s a sex scene that we can’t stop thinking about).
    Join us for a chaotic, spoiler-filled conversation about love, power, and just how far you’d go for your lady love!
    Make sure to stay for the full episode, because we go through a history of scissoring/tribbing to clear up all the misconceptions we have heard!


    📲 New episodes weekly. See you next Tuesday! Don’t miss next week’s episode, as we recap the highly requested 2005 sapphic rom com, Imagine Me & You! This movie is available on Amazon prime!


    But I’m a Lesbian is hosted and produced by Katlynn Beatty and Angelina Herrera. Production and Mixing by Victoria Shifflett. Creative direction and video editing provided by Juanita Iriarte. Music by Stiletto Falsetto.

    Do you need some sapphic advice? Fill out our "Dear Dykes" form to submit your dilemma, and we may choose it for a future pod episode! https://form.jotform.com/butimalesbianpod/dear-dykes

    Follow @butimalesbianpod on Spotify or Apple Podcasts and leave us a five star review.
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    This episode includes AI-generated content.
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    1 h et 5 min
  • A Nashville Lesbian New Year’s Eve- S2E4- I Hate New Year's

    A Nashville Lesbian New Year’s Eve- S2E4- I Hate New Year's
    Dec 30 2025
    🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian
    Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes.

    Pop the champagne (or apple cider) because this week we’re talking Tello’s I Hate New Year’s, the sapphic rom-com for anyone who’s ever side-eyed a countdown clock.
    In this episode, we talk about why New Year’s is actually so fun, even if it can be a little cheesy. This movie is a little silly, a little predictable, and a lot sweet.
    Hit play if you love queer rom-coms, emotional chaos, and lots of lesbian country music drama!

    📲 New episodes weekly. See you next Tuesday! Hit the gym with us next week for Love Lies Bleeding, available on HBO Max!

    But I’m a Lesbian is hosted and produced by Katlynn Beatty and Angelina Herrera. Production and Mixing by Victoria Shifflett. Creative direction and video editing provided by Juanita Iriarte. Music by Stiletto Falsetto.

    Do you need some sapphic advice? Fill out our "Dear Dykes" form to submit your dilemma, and we may choose it for a future pod episode! https://form.jotform.com/butimalesbianpod/dear-dykes

    Follow @butimalesbianpod on Spotify or Apple Podcasts and leave us a five star review.
    Follow us on social media (ig/tiktok/facebook): @butimalesbianpod
    Watch on YouTube: YouTube.com/butimalesbianpod

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    59 min
  • A Scandalous '50s Holiday Love Affair- S2E3- Carol

    A Scandalous '50s Holiday Love Affair- S2E3- Carol
    Dec 23 2025
    🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian
    Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes.

    This week on the pod, we’re wrapping ourselves in the soft lighting and emotional devastation of Carol, the love story that launched a thousand longing stares and sapphic age-gap fantasies. We talk Cate Blanchett’s impeccable portrayal of a fancy, dominant older woman, Rooney Mara’s baby gay awakening, and the incredibly unfair expectation of straightness that plagues us all. From forbidden romance and stolen moments to the most intense eye contact ever put on screen, Carol proves that yearning is a love language (especially for lesbians). Grab a martini and a cigarette, and join us as we unpack this holiday-adjacent, pearl-clutching WLW classic!


    📲 New episodes weekly. See you next Tuesday! Join us next week as we pop over to Nashville for some New Year’s festivities with I Hate New Year’s, available for rent on Amazon prime, fandango, and YouTube!

    But I’m a Lesbian is hosted and produced by Katlynn Beatty and Angelina Herrera. Production and Mixing by Victoria Shifflett. Creative direction and video editing provided by Juanita Iriarte. Music by Stiletto Falsetto.

    Do you need some sapphic advice? Fill out our "Dear Dykes" form to submit your dilemma, and we may choose it for a future pod episode! https://form.jotform.com/butimalesbianpod/dear-dykes

    Follow @butimalesbianpod on Spotify or Apple Podcasts and leave us a five star review.
    Follow us on social media (ig/tiktok/facebook): @butimalesbianpod
    Watch on YouTube: YouTube.com/butimalesbianpod

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    1 h et 10 min
  • Guardian Angels and Religious Trauma Galore- S2E2- A New York Christmas Wedding

    Guardian Angels and Religious Trauma Galore- S2E2- A New York Christmas Wedding
    Dec 16 2025
    🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian
    Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes.

    This week, we’re heading to the Big Apple for a very queer holiday detour with A New York Christmas Wedding!
    We break down this sapphic Christmas romance full of missed chances, divine interference, and the classic question: what if you’d chosen her? From emotional time jumps to homophobic priests to very gay regret, we talk about what works, what doesn’t quite work, and why this movie hits a nerve for so many people, around the holidays.


    📲 New episodes weekly. See you next Tuesday! Don’t miss next week, where we will break down the lesbian age-gap holiday classic, Carol! This movie is available to stream on HBO Max!


    But I’m a Lesbian is hosted and produced by Katlynn Beatty and Angelina Herrera. Production and Mixing by Victoria Shifflett. Creative direction and video editing provided by Juanita Iriarte. Music by Stiletto Falsetto.

    Do you need some sapphic advice? Fill out our "Dear Dykes" form to submit your dilemma, and we may choose it for a future pod episode! https://form.jotform.com/butimalesbianpod/dear-dykes


    Follow @butimalesbianpod on Spotify or Apple Podcasts and leave us a five star review.
    Follow us on social media (ig/tiktok/facebook): @butimalesbianpod
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    Support us on Patreon: patreon.com/butimalesbianpod/-

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    59 min
  • Sleepwalking and a Closeted Lesbian Christmas- S2E1- Happiest Season

    Sleepwalking and a Closeted Lesbian Christmas- S2E1- Happiest Season
    Dec 9 2025
    🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian
    Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes.

    This week, we’re launching Season 2 with a controversial WLW holiday movie: The Happiest Season! This movie gave us iconic (and scandalous) outfits, messy family dynamics, and Dan Levy delivering truth bombs like it’s his full-time job.
    We’re talking all the chaos, the drama, and sooo many hot lesbians. Plus: our official stance on that love triangle and why every queer woman has a strong opinion about it.
    Grab your emotional support pup (or blankie), and your wildest gay energy for a super fun episode!

    📲 New episodes weekly. See you next Tuesday! On our next episode, we will be recapping A New York Christmas Wedding, available on Tubi!

    But I’m a Lesbian is hosted and produced by Katlynn Beatty and Angelina Herrera. Production and Mixing by Victoria Shifflett. Creative direction and video editing provided by Juanita Iriarte. Music by Stiletto Falsetto.

    Do you need some sapphic advice? Fill out our "Dear Dykes" form to submit your dilemma, and we may choose it for a future pod episode! https://form.jotform.com/butimalesbianpod/dear-dykes


    Follow @butimalesbianpod on Spotify or Apple Podcasts and leave us a five star review.
    Follow us on social media (ig/tiktok/facebook): @butimalesbianpod
    Watch on YouTube: YouTube.com/butimalesbianpod

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    1 h et 11 min
  • Season 2 Teaser!- S2E0

    Season 2 Teaser!- S2E0
    Dec 2 2025
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    1 min