In Episode 119 of Built By The Red Stick, hosts Ronnie LeDuff and Michael Oakley sit down with Bee Tee for a raw conversation about trauma, addiction, survival, and what happens when the things you have lived through permanently change you.

Trauma does not always disappear when the moment is over. It can affect how you think, how you react, how you build relationships, and how you see yourself. For many people, drugs and alcohol become a way to silence memories and emotions they were never taught how to process.

This episode looks at the connection between trauma and addiction, the pain people carry behind closed doors, and the difficult work of healing without continuing to run from the past.

You may never be the same after trauma—but that does not mean you cannot heal, grow, and build a meaningful life. Recovery is not about pretending the past never happened. It is about refusing to let it control the rest of your story.

Real people. Real stories. Real recovery.

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In Episode 118 of Built By The Red Stick, Ronnie LeDuff and Michael Oakley sit down with Kirk Moncrief for an honest conversation about addiction, relationships, consequences, and the difference between loving someone and losing yourself in the process.

Kirk opens up about his experiences and the lessons that came from relationships shaped by unhealthy patterns, difficult choices, and the chaos surrounding addiction. They talk about how easy it can be to mistake dysfunction for loyalty—and why sometimes recovery requires walking away from the people, places, and behaviors keeping you trapped.

This conversation is about taking responsibility, setting boundaries, recognizing your own patterns, and learning that a healthier life may require an entirely different understanding of love.

Real people. Real stories. Real recovery.

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In Episode 117 of Built By The Red Stick, hosts Ronnie LeDuff and Michael Oakley sit down with Kevin “Tank” Gambino for an honest conversation about addiction, pressure, consequences, and reaching the point where life becomes too much to handle alone.

Tank opens up about the pressure that continued building in his life, the decisions that came with it, and what happened when everything finally reached a breaking point. They discuss the damage addiction can cause, the reality of facing your choices, and the difficult work required to begin rebuilding.

This episode is about what happens when you have been under pressure for so long that you feel completely overcooked—but still discover that your story does not have to end there.

Tank’s story is another reminder that recovery does not erase the past. It gives you an opportunity to learn from it, take responsibility, and build something different moving forward.

Real people. Real stories. Real recovery.

Watch the full episode and leave us a comment telling us what part of Tank’s story stood out to you.

Be sure to subscribe, follow, and share this episode with someone who may need to hear it.

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Episode 116 is a little different. There is no guest this week—just Ronnie LeDuff and Michael Oakley having an honest conversation about their own lives, their recovery, and the second chances that helped shape the men they are today.

Ronnie and Michael reflect on the moments when everything could have gone differently, the people who refused to give up on them, and the responsibility that comes with being given another opportunity.

Recovery is rarely about receiving only one second chance. It is about learning from the chances we have been given, taking accountability for our choices, and continuing to show up even when life gets difficult.

This conversation also looks back at the growth of Built By The Red Stick, the stories that have affected Ronnie and Michael, and why creating a judgment-free place for people to speak honestly about addiction and recovery remains so important.

Real people. Real stories. Real recovery.

Watch the full episode and leave us a comment telling us what a second chance has meant in your life.

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RECOVERY MONTH PHOTO CHALLENGE

Second Chances Addiction Recovery Center and Built By The Red Stick are teaming up for a special Recovery Month Photo Challenge throughout September!

Each week, share a photo that matches the prompt:

Week 1: Something that brings you peace
Week 2: Someone who supports you
Week 3: A place that helps you recharge
Week 4: What hope looks like

How to participate:

• Post your photo on Facebook and/or Instagram
• Use #MySecondChance
• Tag Second Chances Addiction Recovery Center and Built By The Red Stick
• Follow both accounts

Everyone who participates will have an opportunity to be entered into a random prize drawing at the end of September.

Recovery is possible. You are not alone.

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PROUDLY SPONSORED BY SECOND CHANCES ADDICTION RECOVERY CENTER

A special thank-you to Second Chances Addiction Recovery Center for sponsoring Episode 116 and supporting Built By The Red Stick during Recovery Month.

Second Chances is an adult, co-ed addiction recovery center in Rayville, Louisiana, providing hope, healing, and restoration to individuals and families affected by addiction.

Programs include:

• Residential and co-occurring treatment
• Medical detox
• Intensive Outpatient Program
• Family therapy
• Continuing aftercare
• Individualized treatment planning

Second Chances works with Medicaid, several major insurance providers, TRICARE West, and private-pay clients. Contact the admissions team directly to verify benefits and coverage.

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In Episode 114 of Built By The Red Stick, hosts Ronnie LeDuff and Michael Oakley sit down with two women helping lead the fight against addiction at Second Chances Addiction Recovery Center: Riley McEacharn and Krystine Poindexter, RAC.

Riley serves as the Facility Administrator at Second Chances, overseeing operations while supporting the staff and clients throughout their recovery journeys. Her own spiritual and emotional recovery began in 2014, inspiring her passion for helping others find healing through personal growth, community support, and stronger family connections.

Krystine serves as Assistant Administrator and has worked in residential treatment since 2017. As a Registered Addiction Counselor, she is passionate about breaking the stigma surrounding addiction and helping individuals and families experience real transformation. She also serves as secretary for the Louisiana Recovery Coalition.

Together, Riley and Krystine discuss leadership, recovery, the challenges women face in behavioral healthcare, and what it takes to create a safe place where people can begin rebuilding their lives.

**Real people. Real stories. Real recovery.**

Tune in to hear their stories, and let us know what part of the conversation stood out to you. Thank you for the continued support! Click the link to watch the full episode and leave us a comment!

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**MEET OUR GUESTS**

**Riley McEacharn — Administrator**
https://secondchancesrehab.com/blog/team/riley-mceacharn-administrator

**Krystine Poindexter, RAC — Assistant Administrator**
https://secondchancesrehab.com/blog/team/krystine-poindexter-rac-assistant-administrator/

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**PROUDLY SPONSORED BY SECOND CHANCES ADDICTION RECOVERY CENTER**

A special thank-you to **Second Chances Addiction Recovery Center** for sponsoring this episode and supporting *Built By The Red Stick* during Recovery Month.

Second Chances is an adult, co-ed addiction recovery center located in Rayville, Louisiana. Their mission is to provide hope, healing, and restoration to individuals and families struggling with addiction.

**Programs include:**

• Residential and co-occurring treatment
• Medical detox
• Intensive Outpatient Program
• Family therapy
• Continuing aftercare
• Individualized treatment planning

Second Chances works with Medicaid, several major insurance providers, TRICARE West, and private-pay clients. Contact their admissions team directly to verify benefits and coverage.

**Information and Intake Line — Available 24/7:**
833-780-3088

**Email:**
info@secondchancesrehab.com

**Address:**
161 Comeaux Road
Rayville, LA 71269

**Website:**
https://secondchancesrehab.com/](https://secondchancesrehab.com/

**Begin the Admissions Process:**
https://secondchancesrehab.com/admissions-process/

**Treatment Programs:**
https://secondchancesrehab.com/addiction-recovery-rehab-programs/

**Insurance, Medicaid and Payment Information:**
https://secondchancesrehab.com/insurance-medicaid-for-rehab/

**Contact Second Chances:**
https://secondchancesrehab.com/contact-second-chances/

**FOLLOW SECOND CHANCES**

Facebook:
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Instagram:
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LinkedIn:
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YouTube:
https://www.youtube.com/@secondchancesrecovery

**Second Chances Addiction Recovery Center — Not just a rehab, a refuge.**

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In Episode 113 of Built by the Red Stick, Ronnie LeDuff and Michael Oakley sit down with Mike Boudreaux for an honest conversation about the experience that nearly cost him everything—and the second chance that gave him an opportunity to choose a different path.

Mike shares the story behind that life-changing moment, the lessons he carried forward, and why every chance at a better life matters. This is a powerful reminder that your worst moment does not have to become the end of your story.

PROUDLY SPONSORED BY SECOND CHANCES ADDICTION RECOVERY CENTER

A special thank-you to Second Chances Addiction Recovery Center for sponsoring this episode and supporting Built By The Red Stick during Recovery Month.

Second Chances is an adult, co-ed addiction recovery center located in Rayville, Louisiana. Their mission is to provide hope, healing, and restoration to individuals and families struggling with addiction.

Programs include:

• Residential and co-occurring treatment
• Medical detox
• Intensive Outpatient Program
• Family therapy
• Continuing aftercare
• Individualized treatment planning

Second Chances accepts Medicaid, several major insurance providers, TRICARE West, and private-pay clients. Contact their admissions team directly to verify benefits and coverage.

Information and Intake Line — Available 24/7:
833-780-3088

Email:
info@secondchancesrehab.com

Address:
161 Comeaux Road
Rayville, LA 71269

Website:
https://secondchancesrehab.com/

Begin the Admissions Process:
https://secondchancesrehab.com/admissions-process/

Treatment Programs:
https://secondchancesrehab.com/addiction-recovery-rehab-programs/

Insurance, Medicaid and Payment Information:
https://secondchancesrehab.com/insurance-medicaid-for-rehab/

Contact Second Chances:
https://secondchancesrehab.com/contact-second-chances/

Download the Second Chances Brochure:
https://secondchancesrehab.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/SANEL-SCARC-Brochure-08142026-R1_8.19.26.pdf

Follow Second Chances:

Facebook:
https://www.facebook.com/SecondChancesRehab

Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/secondchancesrehab/

LinkedIn:
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YouTube:
https://www.youtube.com/@secondchancesrecovery

Second Chances Addiction Recovery Center — Not just a rehab, a refuge.

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Episode 112 of Built By The Red Stick is one of those full-circle conversations.

Ronnie LeDuff and Michael Oakley sit down with Darrin Seal, Men’s Center Director at the Washington Street Hope Center in Marksville and an addiction counselor who knows firsthand what it means to need recovery—and what can happen when you finally give it a chance.

Darrin’s life didn’t always look like it does today. His story includes addiction, alcohol and cocaine, trouble with the law, and eventually reaching a point where something had to change.

Today, he’s sitting on the other side of that story helping other men find their own way out.

As Men’s Center Director at The Hope Center, Darrin now gets to walk alongside people during some of the same struggles he once faced himself. That makes this conversation different. He isn’t talking about addiction from a textbook. He’s talking about a life he lived.

Ronnie, Michael, and Darrin get into the ugly side of addiction, what recovery actually requires, and what it feels like when the life you once thought was over becomes a life you can use to help somebody else.

That’s what Built By The Red Stick is all about. Your worst chapter doesn’t have to be your last one.

🎧 Watch Episode 112 and hear Darrin Seal’s story of addiction, recovery, redemption, and what it means to turn around and help the next person behind you.

Looking for Help?

The Washington Street Hope Center has been serving individuals and families struggling with addiction in Marksville and throughout Louisiana.

Washington Street Hope Center
118 S. Washington Street
Marksville, LA 71351
(318) 253-8705

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