Resources

Last week's episode :

• Episode 228. How 4 Simple Steps Can Transform Your Family's Struggles into Amazing Wins This Year

Moving Beyond Fear:

• Episode 50: How to Openly Communicate What You Really Want
• Episode 147: Do Sensitive Conversations end up creating conflict in your relationship?
• Episode 179. Conquer Fear and Embrace Your Blend with Confidence and Clarity
• Episode 98. Is fear of being vulnerable keeping you from loving your spouse wholeheartedly?

Coping with Impatience:

• Episode 105. What powerful traits do you need to successfully blend and stay united?
• Episode 89. Feeling Stuck in the Change Process? Change Isn't the Issue - Transition Is
• Episode 72. The Best Way to Create Healthy, Bonded Relationships
• Episode 159. How to Stay Hopeful as a Stepparent When You're Continually Rejected and Hurt

Overcoming Limiting Beliefs & Excuses:

• Episode 120. 3 Valuable Lessons That Saved Our Marriage and Blended Family
• Episode 165. How important is your mindset when it comes to blended family life?
• Episode 217. Feeling Overwhelmed and Powerless? How to Regain Hope with Tools that Heal [with EJ & Tarah Kerwin]
• Episode 51. Overcoming Discouragement

Managing Emotional Pain:

• Episode 187. Basics for Blending: How to Tolerate and Manage Discomfort and Distress
• Episode 202. How to Break Free from Painful Cycles and Enjoy Deeper Levels of Intimacy [with Ron & Nan Deal]
• Episode 139. The Most Common, Challenging Pain Point Every Blended Couple Experiences
• Episode 107. 3 Disheartening Realities That No Couple Want To Go Through - But We all Have To

Embracing the Lone Ranger position:

• Episode 209. Breaking Free from Self-Doubt: 5 Habits to Build Confidence and Trust in Yourself
• Episode 215. Does Your Relationship Feel Hopeless? Why Giving Up Might Not Be the Answer
• Episode 65. 6 Simple Steps for Inviting Your Spouse to Get Help With You
• Episode 138. How Relational Dysfunction Plagued Our Marriage and How We Finally Broke Free

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Those of us facing the common challenges of blending often feel frustrated, overwhelmed, or discouraged. It’s easy to drift into survival mode and settle for “not that bad.”

In this episode, we'll share a clear plan to move forward in a simple way that's not about the pressure of big, dramatic New Year's resolutions.

Here's the truth: transformation doesn’t happen overnight, and there are no easy fixes to the complex dynamics stepfamilies face. But change can happen with small, faithful shifts practiced over time.

You'll Discover:

• The difference between information vs. transformation and why “insight without action” keeps couples stuck
• How to set process goals (not vague intentions), and capture the “gold nuggets” you want to apply to your family's current struggles
• How to “work your plan” and experience real WINS in 2026!

Resources from this Episode:

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Find your Focus & Choose your Path:

Bonding:

• For specific episodes on building healthy Bonds, CLICK HERE
• Building Love Together in Blended Families by Ron Deal & Gary Chapman

Understanding Kids' Perspectives:

• For specific episodes to gain insight & support your kids, CLICK HERE
• In Their Shoes: Helping Parents Better Understand and Connect with Children of Divorce by Lauren Reitsema

Safeguarding your Relationship / Marriage:

• For specific episodes to grow a deeper connection and reduce conflict, CLICK HERE
• Saving Your Second Marriage Before It Starts: Nine Questions to Ask Before -- and After -- You Remarry by Drs. Les & Leslie Parrot

Parenting & Stepparenting:

• For specific episodes to develop your parenting partnership and align family expectations, CLICK HERE
• Stepparenting: Keeping It Sane by Dr. Charles Fay
• Parenting Under Fire: How to Communicate with Your Hurt, Angry, Rejecting, Distant Child by Dr. Amy J.L. Baker

Effective Co-Parenting:

• For specific episodes to discover best practices and improve cooperation between homes, CLICK HERE
• CoParenting Works! Helping Your Children Thrive After Divorce By Tammy Daughtry

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