𝑻𝒉𝒆 𝑩𝒂𝒍𝒂𝒏𝒄𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒂𝒓𝒆 𝒄𝒉𝒂𝒔𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒅𝒐𝒆𝒔 𝒏𝒐𝒕 𝒆𝒙𝒊𝒔𝒕.

It's a carrot dangled in front of women, promising that if we just get the equation right, we'll finally have the life we want.

𝐈𝐭 𝐝𝐨𝐞𝐬𝐧'𝐭 𝐦𝐚𝐭𝐡. 𝐈𝐭 𝐧𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐰𝐚𝐬 𝐬𝐮𝐩𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐨.

This episode, I sat down with my dear friend Whitnee Hawthorne, Author of 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐒𝐚𝐯𝐯𝐲 𝐖𝐨𝐫𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐌𝐨𝐦, and 𝐓𝐄𝐃𝐱 𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐚𝐤𝐞𝐫.

We talk about why "balance" is a myth. We also get into her 𝟕 𝐃𝐬 of delegation and why burnout is usually a broken system, not a lack of grit.

Some things we dig into:

➤ 𝐖𝐡𝐲 "𝐛𝐚𝐥𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐞" 𝐢𝐬 𝐚 𝐦𝐲𝐭𝐡, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐥𝐢𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐥𝐢𝐤𝐞 𝐚 𝐬𝐲𝐦𝐩𝐡𝐨𝐧𝐲 𝐥𝐨𝐨𝐤𝐬 𝐥𝐢𝐤𝐞 𝐢𝐧𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐚𝐝.

➤ 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝟕 𝐃𝐬 𝐨𝐟 𝐝𝐞𝐥𝐞𝐠𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐰𝐡𝐲 𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐩𝐩𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐛𝐚𝐜𝐤 𝐢𝐬 𝐚 𝐬𝐮𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐩𝐨𝐰𝐞𝐫.

➤ 𝐖𝐡𝐲 𝐭𝐞𝐚𝐦 𝐛𝐮𝐫𝐧𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐢𝐬 𝐚 𝐝𝐞𝐬𝐢𝐠𝐧 𝐟𝐥𝐚𝐰, 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐚 𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥 𝐟𝐚𝐢𝐥𝐮𝐫𝐞.

I'm really glad you're here.

With Love,

Melody ❤️

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𝐼'𝑚 𝑠𝑎𝑣𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑔𝑜𝑜𝑑 𝑑𝑖𝑠ℎ𝑒𝑠 𝑓𝑜𝑟 𝑎 𝑠𝑝𝑒𝑐𝑖𝑎𝑙 𝑜𝑐𝑐𝑎𝑠𝑖𝑜𝑛.

But what if today is the occasion? What if there is no "someday" waiting on the other side of the closet door?

𝐖𝐞 𝐤𝐞𝐞𝐩 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐛𝐞𝐚𝐮𝐭𝐢𝐟𝐮𝐥 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬 𝐰𝐫𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐞𝐝 𝐮𝐩. 𝐖𝐞 𝐤𝐞𝐞𝐩 𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐯𝐞𝐬 𝐰𝐫𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐞𝐝 𝐮𝐩 𝐭𝐨𝐨.

In this episode, I share something deeply personal, losing my dad unexpectedly, and the birthday trip we planned together that he never got to take.
I talk about what that loss taught me about time, about waiting, and about all the "good dishes" we keep saving for a day that may never come.

Journal prompts for you:

➤ 𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐚𝐦 𝐈 𝐜𝐫𝐚𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐬𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐨𝐧? 𝐑𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐨𝐫 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐡? 𝐒𝐭𝐚𝐛𝐢𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐲 𝐨𝐫 𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐞𝐭𝐜𝐡? 𝐃𝐞𝐬𝐜𝐫𝐢𝐛𝐞 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐜𝐫𝐚𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐥𝐨𝐨𝐤𝐬 𝐥𝐢𝐤𝐞 𝐢𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐜𝐚𝐥𝐞𝐧𝐝𝐚𝐫 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐢𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐛𝐨𝐝𝐲.
➤ 𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐚𝐦 𝐈 𝐚𝐟𝐫𝐚𝐢𝐝 𝐭𝐨 𝐚𝐝𝐦𝐢𝐭 𝐈 𝐰𝐚𝐧𝐭? 𝐖𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐞 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐥𝐬 𝐭𝐨𝐨 𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐫 𝐨𝐫 𝐭𝐨𝐨 𝐚𝐦𝐛𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐮𝐬. 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐟𝐮𝐭𝐮𝐫𝐞 𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟 𝐦𝐚𝐲 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐤 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐚𝐝𝐦𝐢𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧.
➤ 𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐰𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐝 𝐈 𝐩𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐮𝐞 𝐢𝐟 𝐟𝐞𝐚𝐫 𝐰𝐚𝐬 𝐪𝐮𝐢𝐞𝐭𝐞𝐫? 𝐍𝐨𝐭 𝐠𝐨𝐧𝐞, 𝐣𝐮𝐬𝐭 𝐪𝐮𝐢𝐞𝐭𝐞𝐫. 𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐬𝐡𝐨𝐰𝐬 𝐮𝐩 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐢𝐭 𝐝𝐨𝐞𝐬?
➤ 𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐝 𝐨𝐟 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞 𝐝𝐨 𝐈 𝐰𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐦𝐲 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐤 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐮𝐩𝐩𝐨𝐫𝐭? 𝐍𝐨𝐭 𝐣𝐮𝐬𝐭 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐰𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐮𝐢𝐥𝐝, 𝐛𝐮𝐭 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐰𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐥 𝐥𝐢𝐤𝐞.

I'm really glad you're here.
With Love,
Melody ❤️

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"𝐼'𝑙𝑙 𝑏𝑎𝑙𝑎𝑛𝑐𝑒 𝑖𝑡 𝑎𝑙𝑙 𝑜𝑛𝑐𝑒 𝐼 𝑔𝑒𝑡 𝑡𝑜 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑡𝑜𝑝."

That's the lie the ladder tells you. There is no top where it suddenly gets easier to put yourself first.

𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐜𝐥𝐢𝐦𝐛 𝐰𝐚𝐬 𝐧𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐦𝐞𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐜𝐨𝐬𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟, 𝐢𝐭'𝐬 𝐬𝐮𝐩𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐞 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐝𝐨, 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐝𝐢𝐬𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐞𝐚𝐫 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐨.

In this episode, I get honest about what it looks like when the career quietly becomes the center of everything. I talk about the moments I missed, the people I leaned on to cover for me, and why I no longer believe grind culture is just "the way it is."

I share why I think it's time we all stop and take real inventory: who do we love, what brings us joy, and is that actually front and center ,or have we let something else take its place?

Journal prompts for you:
➤ 𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐚𝐦 𝐈 𝐧𝐨 𝐥𝐨𝐧𝐠𝐞𝐫 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐚𝐜𝐫𝐢𝐟𝐢𝐜𝐞 𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐧𝐚𝐦𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐚𝐜𝐡𝐢𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭? 𝐓𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐢𝐬 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐢𝐠𝐧𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧, 𝐢𝐭'𝐬 𝐜𝐥𝐚𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐲 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐮𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐲 𝐦𝐚𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐬.
➤ 𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐝𝐨𝐞𝐬 𝐬𝐮𝐜𝐜𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝐦𝐞𝐚𝐧 𝐭𝐨 𝐦𝐞 𝐧𝐨𝐰? 𝐍𝐨𝐭 𝐟𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐲𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐬 𝐚𝐠𝐨. 𝐍𝐨𝐰. 𝐋𝐞𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐝𝐞𝐟𝐢𝐧𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐞𝐯𝐨𝐥𝐯𝐞.

I'm really glad you're here.

With Love,
Melody ❤️

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