Chronic skin picking, hair pulling, & nail biting are the result of a disregulated nervous system.

So it only makes sense that part of healing involves learning how to regulate it.

This means learning how to slow down. AKA - Rest.

Easy peasy, right? Right??

Unfortunately, for people like you and me, we didn't really learn how to switch off.

Our system is constantly on go, and so it never feels like the right time to stop, or when you do manage it, it's accompanied with anxiety, restlessness, and guilt.

Don't panic. You're not broken. You just need an actual system and practice that can help you to learn how it's done.

In this episode, we dive deeper into:

• The science behind why you can't slow down
• Where the real problem lies
• Experience a 5-minute guided somatic practice to help you learn how to switch off, slow down, and rest.

This has allowed me to go from a chronic overworker who has no time for self-care or leisure unless forced, to someone who now has an abundance of time for the things that make her heart sing... And I'm even more successful, efficient, and effective than when I was constantly on "go".

Allowing yourself to rest does not mean you get lazy.

Listen-in to heal xx

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My name is Raffaela Marie. I'm a holistic BFRB coach who has healed from 15 years of chronic skin picking myself and dedicated my life to helping driven women do the same. Through my podcast, free resources, and programs, I teach strategies to overcome urges, build emotional safety, and expand into authenticity. My approach goes beyond quick fixes, focusing on root causes and long-term recovery.

We cannot have true safety, intimacy, and depth without hard conversations.

Yet many of us struggle to know how to have a hard conversation and, when we try, it just seems to make things worse rather than better.

So what's the point then?

The point is this: “The quality of your relationships determines the quality of your life.” - Esther Perel

The quality of how you communicate determines the quality of your relationships.

If your relationship is not where you want it to be, there is a high chance some issues are being swept under the rug in favour of "peace."

It's time to learn how to have hard conversations so that you can not only cultivate a deeper sense of safety and stability within your relationship, but also within yourself.

Not coincidentally, this is a big component of healing from chronic skin picking, hair pulling, and nail biting too!

Here's what we cover in this episode:

🌟The 3 styles of couples when it comes to conflict
🌟5 steps to resolve conflict and bring you and your partner closer together
🌟Learn how to move beyond the biggest barriers in having hard conversations - your loved one's reactions
🌟Compatibility Dealbreakers - Read the signs of a relationship that simply won't work

💌Book your FREE BFPA* Roadmapping Call with me

🌟Download your FREE Guide to Stop Skin Picking Using Somatics

📝FREE Holistic Skin Picking & Hair Pulling Assessment - Join the waitlist

🎯Join the 7-Day Skin Picking Recovery Challenge

🙋‍♀️Send me a message here

My name is Raffaela Marie. I'm a holistic BFRB coach who has healed from 15 years of chronic skin picking myself and dedicated my life to helping driven women do the same. Through my podcast, free resources, and programs, I teach strategies to overcome urges, build emotional safety, and expand into authenticity. My approach goes beyond quick fixes, focusing on root causes and long-term recovery.

You've tried gloves, covering mirrors, fidget toys, and maybe even CBT or habit reversal, but none of them really seem to get you the results you're looking for.

The problem is that they don't address the root cause.

Emotion is the driving force behind this behaviour, and when we don't address it, it continues to rule our lives.

This looks like urges you can't resist and frustrating patterns of procrastination, self-sabotage, and impulsivity that perpetually get in the way of you living.

Why? Because you have been trying to control your behaviour rather than work with the emotion that's fueling it.

In this episode, I will walk you through a practice that allows you to address what's under the surface.

It will not only empower you to take tangible steps forward in your healing but will transform how you show up in your relationships and with yourself.

This is healing.

💌Book your FREE BFPA* Roadmapping Call with me

🌟Download your FREE Guide to Stop Skin Picking Using Somatics

📝FREE Holistic Skin Picking & Hair Pulling Assessment - Join the waitlist

🎯Join the 7-Day Skin Picking Recovery Challenge

🙋‍♀️Send me a message here

My name is Raffaela Marie. I'm a holistic BFRB coach who has healed from 15 years of chronic skin picking myself and dedicated my life to helping driven women do the same. Through my podcast, free resources, and programs, I teach strategies to overcome urges, build emotional safety, and expand into authenticity. My approach goes beyond quick fixes, focusing on root causes and long-term recovery.