What if the pain you've gone through was actually preparing you for purpose? In this deeply emotional and honest conversation, David shares how betrayal, childhood trauma, and family hardship led him to a life-changing realization—forgiveness is freedom. Through his journey from anger to healing, he built the Becoming Seven system—a weekly rhythm that helps you reconnect with who you are, why you're here, and who you're becoming.If you've ever struggled with letting go of the past, feeling lost, or wondering how to move forward—this episode will move you, challenge you, and maybe even set you free.🙏 "To truly know yourself is one of the greatest accomplishments anyone could ever achieve."🔗 Connect with David and learn more about Becoming Seven: https://www.becomingseven.com/CHAPTERS:00:00 The Pain of Betrayal and Questioning Everything00:55 Finding Purpose Through Trials02:54 The Birth of Becoming Seven06:17 The Power of Forgiveness07:54 A Mother's Unwavering Faith and Sacrifice18:58 Lessons in Love and Accountability22:03 The Role of Pain in Personal Growth22:55 Embracing Identity and Self-Discovery26:42 The Power of Forgiveness and Self-Love30:05 The Seven-Day Framework for Personal Development30:32 Motivational Monday: Setting the Pace33:01 Tracking Tuesday: Managing Your Thoughts33:48 Whisper Wednesday: Finding Inner Peace35:32 Thankful Thursday: Cultivating Gratitude36:45 Forgiveness Friday: Letting Go of Anger38:26 Satisfaction Saturday: Enjoying Life's Moments38:57 Supplication Sunday: Seeking Higher Guidance40:26 Conclusion: Building Rhythms for a Better Life🎧 Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share with someone who needs this message.WHO AM IHey, I'm Red Wallace, a former rapper(10 year career) current drummer turned personal development coach. Through podcast(mostly on YouTube) and 1on1/group coaching, I provide guidance to help you chisel away the parts that aren’t you revealing your true identity, empowering you to live your God given purpose!

You love Jesus. You believe the Bible.So why does your life still feel like it’s falling apart?The problem isn’t faith. It’s a disconnect between what you believe and how you live.In this video, I’ll unpack the one thing most Christian men are missing: aligned structure. Not more hype. Not another sermon binge. Real, biblical clarity that shows up in your calendar, sleep, finances, and peace.You’ll learn a framework that reveals why your life feels chaotic:👉 Belief → Assumption → Decision → Habit → LifeThis isn’t motivational fluff. It’s a mirror. And an invitation.📩 Want help aligning your faith and structure? Comment “ORDER” or message me directly.👉 Subscribe for practical, biblical wisdom for men who want to lead, rest, and build aligned lives.———Chapters:00:00 Introduction: My Drumming Journey00:50 Understanding Misalignment03:08 Belief Audit: Identifying Core Beliefs05:06 Framework for Change08:42 Personal Testimony: Embracing Truth10:21 Call to Action: Aligning with God's Plan11:47 Conclusion: Taking the Next Step#ChristianMen #BiblicalManhood #FaithAndStructure #ChristianLeadership #SpiritualGrowth #MenOfFaithWHO AM IHey, I'm Red Wallace, a former rapper(10 year career) current drummer turned personal development coach. Through podcast(mostly on YouTube) and 1on1/group coaching, I provide guidance to help you chisel away the parts that aren’t you revealing your true identity, empowering you to live your God given purpose!

Most leadership advice isn’t making leaders better — it’s making them brittle.It rewards speed over substance. Applause over alignment. Output over obedience.And it’s quietly burning out good men who were never meant to lead this way.In this episode, I confront hustle culture at the root, and I unpack a 7-part leadership framework from the book of Nehemiah — a model that begins with burden before building, prayer before pressure, and obedience before outcomes.This isn’t theory.This is for leaders who look successful on paper but feel fractured in private.For the ones who are moving fast… but drifting far.Inside this conversation, we cover:• The uncomfortable truth behind leadership burnout• Why hustle culture sounds wise — but produces collapse• What made Nehemiah’s leadership fundamentally different• 7 timeless principles for building without breaking• How to lead with clarity, integrity, and lasting peace📍 The Redprint WorkshopLive coaching for high-achieving Christian men who are done performing and ready to realign.👉 Register here → https://coach-redwallace.kit.com/redprintworkshopIf this stirred something in you, don’t scroll past it.Share this with a leader you love — and tell me in the comments:👉 Where are you feeling pressured to hustle instead of obey?🔔 Subscribe for leadership grounded in Scripture, psychology, and lived experience.#Leadership #ChristianLeadership #Burnout #Nehemiah #FaithAndWork #HustleCulture #BiblicalLeadershipWHO AM IHey, I'm Red Wallace, a former rapper(10 year career) current drummer turned personal development coach. Through podcast(mostly on YouTube) and 1on1/group coaching, I provide guidance to help you chisel away the parts that aren’t you revealing your true identity, empowering you to live your God given purpose!