Three days. One wedding. Emotional chaos. And somehow… Lucy turned it into a husband audition.

In this episode, Hana, Rob and Lucy debrief the full three-day wedding experience — the planning chaos, the unexpected tears, the speeches that broke everyone, and the moments that made it all worth it.

From guest logistics and deeply personal touches to emotional breakdowns, surprise elements and dance-floor magic… we’re unpacking what it really takes to pull off a multi-day wedding.

Was it stressful? Yes.

Was it magical? Also yes.

Would we do it again? Absolutely.

Inside this episode:

• The emotional rollercoaster of wedding planning

• Why we chose a three-day celebration (and whether it was worth it)

• The behind-the-scenes chaos nobody sees

• The speeches that hit harder than expected

• How to create a guest experience that actually feels intentional

• The wedding “high”… and the emotional comedown after

• What marriage teaches you about love and relationships

• And yes… the ongoing search for Lucy’s future husband — applications now open 🙌🏼😂

This isn’t just a wedding recap.

It’s a reflection on love, growth, friendship and what happens when every part of your life collides in one room.

If you’re planning a wedding, still emotionally recovering from this one, or just love an honest, funny, slightly chaotic debrief — this one’s for you.

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• Informational Only: This content is for general information and entertainment. It is not professional advice (legal, medical, financial, or otherwise).

• No Guarantees: We do not guarantee the accuracy, completeness, or outcomes from using the information shared.

• Personal Views: Opinions expressed are those of the hosts and guests and do not reflect the official positions of any affiliated organisations.

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In this deeply moving episode of Becoming Lucy, Lucy and Hana sit down with Amy Draper — a mother of five whose journey through motherhood has been shaped by love, loss, faith and resilience.

Amy shares the story of her first son, Charlie, who was born with gastroschisis, a serious abdominal condition where a baby’s intestines develop outside of the body. Charlie lived for 12 precious days. Amy speaks openly about the instincts she had during pregnancy, the conversations with doctors, and the heartbreaking decision to let him go.

We talk about what grief really looks like — not just in the immediate aftermath, but in the years that follow.

Amy also shares how her experiences deepened her calling within neonatal nursing, returning to work with families in the very environment that once held her own story.

In this honest and powerful conversation, we explore:

• baby loss and navigating grief as a mother

• pregnancy after loss and the journey to a rainbow baby

• neonatal care and supporting families in crisis

• manifestation, intention and the power of language

• mental health, faith and resilience

• trusting your instincts as a parent

• turning pain into purpose

Amy also opens up about her youngest son, Donnie, who was diagnosed with Aarskog-Scott syndrome, a rare genetic condition. She shares the uncertainty during pregnancy, the medical decisions they faced, and what it means to raise a child with additional needs while holding onto hope and faith.

Together with her partner, Amy created The Magical Rainbow Babies, a beautifully written children’s book designed to help siblings understand grief and the loss of a baby in an age-appropriate, gentle way. Amy generously gifts copies of the book to families who need them.

If you would like a copy of The Magical Rainbow Babies or want to connect with Amy, you can find her on:

Instagram: @thedrapergirlsandthedon

This episode isn’t about “overcoming” grief. It’s about living alongside it — and finding strength, meaning and connection through motherhood.

If you’ve experienced pregnancy loss, are navigating motherhood after loss, or are raising a child with a rare condition, this conversation will stay with you.

⚠️ Podcast Disclaimer

• Informational Only: This content is for general information and entertainment. It is not professional advice (legal, medical, financial, or otherwise).

• No Guarantees: We do not guarantee the accuracy, completeness, or outcomes from using the information shared.

• Personal Views: Opinions expressed are those of the hosts and guests and do not reflect the official positions of any affiliated organisations.

• No Liability: We are not liable for any actions taken based on this podcast.

• External Links: We are not responsible for content found on any external sites mentioned.

Join Lucy, Hana, and Jason (aka Spud) in this hilarious and heartfelt episode as they reminisce about their millennial memories, friendship moments, and dive into the mystical world of tarot. Expect plenty of laughs, nostalgia, and some of that classic “remember when…” energy we all secretly love.

This episode has been lovingly edited from an original marathon of over two hours—because while we love a good deep dive, we also respect both our guests’ and hosts’ privacy. Some tarot readings uncovered insights that are deeply personal, and we’ve kept them off the public airwaves—but we promise the episode is packed with fun, surprises, and a genuine experience of Jason’s tarot skills for anyone curious about how it all works.

From Jason’s love for jacket potatoes to childhood shadows, spiritual awakenings, and turning trauma into purpose, this episode balances laughter, millennial nostalgia, and profound insight. Whether you’re here for the jokes, the stories, or a peek into tarot and spirituality, there’s something for everyone.

In this episode, you’ll hear:

• How Jason got the nickname “Spud” and his childhood obsession with jacket potatoes

• The childhood shadows and fears that shaped his spiritual path

• Tarot and mediumship as tools for healing and personal growth

• Real-life experiences of resilience, overcoming false allegations, and turning trauma into purpose

• Signs from spirit—like butterflies, animals, and synchronicities—and how to notice them

• The dos and don’ts of navigating societal judgments around spirituality

• Tips for connecting with intuition, building community online, and growing a loyal TikTok following

• Future plans: weddings, talks, ghost hunts, and spiritual entrepreneurship

• The role of shadow work in everyday life and personal transformation

• Stories, laughs, and memories that showcase the power of friendship and shared experience

If you’ve ever been curious about tarot, spiritual growth, or just want a fun and uplifting listen, this episode is for you.

Huge thanks to Jason for the honesty, laughs, and incredible insights.

If you want to follow his journey into spiritual guidance, shadow work, and community building, you can find him on TikTok and Instagram at @unveiledrootstarotspirit and @unveiledroots1.

Just a heads up — there are fake accounts out there. If Becoming Lucy is a mutual, you’re on the right one 😉

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Timestamps

00:00 – Introduction and guest Jason (Spud)

02:00 – Childhood stories & nickname origins

10:00 – Shadows, fears, and spiritual awakening

20:00 – First tarot reading & transformative experiences

30:00 – Overcoming false allegations through spiritual resilience

45:00 – Signs from Spirit: butterflies, animals, synchronicities

60:00 – Navigating controversy & societal judgments

75:00 – TikTok community growth & authenticity

90:00 – Wedding plans, future projects, manifesting success

105:00 – Shadow work & turning trauma into purpose

120:00 – Final reflections & listener advice

⚠️ Podcast Disclaimer

• Informational Only: This content is for general information and entertainment. It is not professional advice (legal, medical, financial, or otherwise).

• No Guarantees: We do not guarantee the accuracy, completeness, or outcomes from using the information shared.

• Personal Views: Opinions expressed are those of the hosts and guests and do not reflect the official positions of any affiliated organisations.

• No Liability: We are not liable for any actions taken based on this podcast.

• External Links: We are not responsible for content found on any external sites mentioned.