What if self-control was never about trying harder?

In this episode of At Forest’s Edge, Raeanna Tilly explores the final fruit of the Spirit: self-control. But biblical self-control may look very different from the white-knuckled willpower we often imagine. What if it isn't about suppressing your emotions, silencing your desires, or simply trying harder to be “good”?

Through Scripture, the meaning of the Greek word egkrateia, the imagery of the iris, and a surprising thread from the story of Odysseus and the Sirens, we’ll look at what it means to develop inner strength, spiritual discipline, and a sound mind through the Holy Spirit.

For the Christian woman who struggles with fear, anxiety, intrusive thoughts, temptation, unhealthy cycles, or simply wonders why she keeps doing what she knows she shouldn't, this conversation offers a different way to understand self-control and the fruit of the Spirit.You don't have to extinguish the fire inside you. You may simply need to learn how to guard it.

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What if faithfulness isn't about never falling behind, never struggling, or never having to begin again?In this episode of At Forest's Edge, we explore the biblical meaning of faithfulness through the beauty of the gladiolus, the Hebrew word emunah, and the faithfulness of a God who keeps covenant even when we feel like we cannot.For the woman who's tired of starting over, who's wondered whether she's consistent enough, or who's longing to build a life rooted in something that lasts, this is an invitation to see faithfulness differently.Through Scripture, mythology, and a deeply personal story of restoration, we discover what it means to return, to remain connected to God, and to let the Holy Spirit grow in us what we cannot manufacture through sheer effort.Because faithfulness may not look like a perfect record. It may look like showing up again.🌸 In this episode:• Biblical faithfulness and the fruit of the Spirit• The meaning of emunah and pistis• Penelope and the myth of returning to the loom• God's covenant faithfulness• Finding hope in seasons of starting overPull up a chair at the forest's edge. Your story isn't over, and the morning is waiting.🌿 Explore more:🎨 Fine art and Flowers of the Spirit: https://atforestsedge.com📖 The Happy Little Sunflower: Finding Hope in the Valley✨ Hosted by Raeanna Tilly, watercolor artist, children's author, and Artist of Hope.#ChristianWomenPodcast #Faithfulness #FruitOfTheSpirit #BiblicalEncouragement #ChristianWomen #FaithOverFear #SpiritualGrowth #GodIsFaithful #AtForestsEdge #RaeannaTilly