McConnell, Kane Vast and I have been really slacking on these podcasts--the coronavirus has caused us all to make many adjustments to our lives in 2020 and those continue this year in 2021.

We'll probably talk about that stuff in a future podcast episode. We've already recorded the next podcast which is an interview with Aaron Darko of HealthMastery.com who you can find on Instagram. So keep a lookout for that soon too.

Kane goes pretty in depth about getting your woman onto threesomes, and we give some updates on how the dating scene has been during corona-time and more including:

• How do women think about threesomes
• Reframing threesomes so girls will try it
• Ideal relationship frames and dynamic
• The power of positive reinforcement
• Why developing your sex skills is an easy win
• Use your skill stack to make your relationship better
• How qualification makes picking up and dating easier
• The emotional elements of being good at sex
• How have travel restrictions affected the dating market
• Guy gets caught texting another girl and improves his relationship
• How has coronavirus affected the dating scene in major Asian cities?
• How prevalent is birth control in Asia?
• How common are sexless marriages in Asia?
• Is it good to be a "player"?
• What is a pickup artist to do during corona time?
• Quadrant II: what it is, and why you should focus on it
• and a whole lot more...

See the rest of the show notes at

http://redpoleq.com/podcast-40

In episode 39 of the Asia Dating Podcast McConnell, Kane Vast and I sat down to discuss Rollo Tomassi's "The Red Pill Lessons of Will Smith," an episode of his podcast where he discusses the Will Smith and Jada Pinckett-Smith "cheating" scandal. And I put cheating in quotation marks because they were separated at the time, but more on that in the podcast.

It was a great conversation that got pretty emotional at times and hearing McConnell get all worked up was a big part of the fun:

• The manosphere and what it is
• structured game vs natural game
• outer game vs inner game
• The red pill
• female nature vs environment and technology
• Men's rights activists
• The internet echo chamber
• MGTOW and why you should stay away from women
• Incels
• Why you should love feminists and they are the best thing to ever happen to men
• Real life vs internet life
• The chad Alpha >> Beta and the problems with red pill thinking
• Find a dominance hierarchy you can succeed in
• Blue pill
• Choose your own value structure
• Who has the sexual power?
• Do guys want to have sex with their wives?
• Female privilege and double standards
• Feminists are wrong...not all societies need them
• Were the 1950s the best time?
• Men get so screwed by the legal system
• You can determine how your relationships are by how you setup your life
• Why you should create your own rules
• Always seek to make your life better
• The problem with hyphenated last names
• #1 question: are you getting what you want?

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McConnell and I sat down with a special guest, Sona, who has been living in Taiwan for 14 years, and is so plugged into the culture that he runs a Chinese YouTube channel where he talks about Chinese and American hip-hop music and culture .

It's a great conversation where we cover everything from slang and language learning to parkour to the local Taiwanese dating scene:

• weird Chinese slang: the meaning of "cow cunt" and "good dick"
• learning Chinese
• Sona's origin story"
• A man must go on a quest, and my quest will be THERE!"
• DJing around Asia
• Acting in Asia
• Building a Parkour business in Taiwan
• Korean hustle
• The Taiwan dating (horror) scene
• RedpoleQ's scummy dating stories
• Is it you or do Taiwanese girls suck?
• Having standards and setting boundaries to have a sustainable relationship
• Teach people how to treat youTaiwanese girls gone wild: temper tantrums
• Be willing to lose someone great in the name of your own self-respect
• Taiwanese girls and their crazy expectations
• and a whole lot more...

Kane, McConnell and I sat down to discuss the book, The Truth, by Neil Strauss where he talks about how he was able to hang up his player, pickup artist shoes and choose monogamy and marriage.

It's a great book, well worth reading and there is so much to unpack and learn from and plenty to think about including:

• How to lay down a great routine
• DHV - Display of Higher Value
• American ideas about sex, dating and relationships
• Let the girls get ready instead of encouraging them to be ugly
• Western delusions about sex and relationships
• The post-consent dating world of Tinder
• Why dating apps are not your friend
• Sex addiction...is it a real thing?
• The dangers of porn and masturbation
• Is it trauma or is it life?
• Successful enough to fail rather vs failing enough to be successful
• Bandaids for your dating lives and how to avoid them
• It's important to make your sexual fantasies come true
• Rules vs intents in relationships
• Compersion - Is it possible to enjoy your partner's sexual pleasure with someone else?
• Swinger's parties and the many ways to enjoy them
• Relationship Management and how to do it all wrong
• To live your fantasies, you have to think practically
• Is being divorced with kids, the best life?
• and a whole lot more...

Kane, McConnell and I sat down with VONNY LANG to catch up on her new new lifestyle--monogamy and marriage! Who would have thought?

The usual whackiness ensues in this podcast, including:

• Open minded dinner parties
• Naked yoga
• Vonny's matchmaking
• Fire breath orgasm
• How she met her husband aka Superman
• Don't let your ego stop you from getting the women you want
• Vonny's road to monogamy
• Jealousy is healthy feeling
• Muse Vonny inspires "love" poems
• Who licks pussy better, men or women?
• How to know you're ready for marriage
• What's so great about marriage?
• A pep talk from Vonny
• Let's talk about monogamy
• and a whole lot more...

I sat down with Kane and McConnell to answer questions from a Japan Lair member who is just getting started with women and has a lot of fundamental misunderstandings and internal conflicts about women, dating and sex.

In addition we answered some questions from other listeners as well, and talked about a WIIIIIIIIIDE variety of topics including:

• How do I avoid gold diggers and money wasters?
• I want to find a nice, pure girl. Any tips?
• Why you shouldn't sleep with "easy" girls
• I'm a virgin, what should you do?
• Any tips on avoiding ladyboys, shemales and transgenders?
• I'm not white, do I still have a chance with East Asian girls?
• What are the easiest places to meet Asian girls in Asia?
• How to guarantee that girls will lie and take advantage of you
• The 3 things that could be standing in your way of success with women
• Why you may need to stop being you
• Why you need to be around who you want to become
• What to do when a girl sees your messages with another girl
• How to keep both girls happy after a 3-some
• and a whole lot more...

Get the full show notes at RedpoleQ.com

I sat down with Kane and McConnell to talk about a wide variety of topics. We talk more about relationships, the idea of "open" relationships, how to stay young and relevant, and of course share wacky stories from our past.

In addition to that, we talked about some of our sexual preferences, some relevant personal development concepts, and of course we talked about, "game" including:

• How to be a black male in Korea
• Do you really want an "open" relationship?
• Friends with benefits, girlfriends and other arrangements...
• Is communication about everything always the best way?
• Adventures in compersion
• "Mimes are the bagels of entertainment."
• Offline to online shift
• The secret to staying young
• Why young people don't respect older people and how you can avoid that
• As an older guy, the pitfalls to avoid to keep smashing young puss, lols!
• and a whole lot more...

See the full show notes and get all the links to everything mentioned in this episode AND ask a question you want answenred on the show at

http://RedpoleQ.com/podcast-34

I sat down with Kane and McConnell to talk about a wide variety of topics, especially how to manage dating multiple people. We talk about the pitfalls, what to avoid, what to do to keep things from getting too messy and OF COURSE share some stories.

In addition to that, we talked about some of our sexual preferences, some relevant personal development concepts, and of course we talked about, "game" including:

• Christmas in Japan
• Girls touching themselves and getting a hard pounding
• Multiple orgasms
• How and why to be tough on yourself but compassionate with other people
• Game giving you a bigger toolkit and a bigger toolkit can fix more issues
• Girls dating multiple guys
• How live streaming is like dating
• Find out if guys really cheat more than girls do
• McConnell's fellatio taxi and fellatio cinema double feature!
• Why you should ask why first
• How to PROACTIVELY manage your relationships
• Girls can be annoying when they really like you
• Look out for those "yes ladders," they're a slipper slope to hell
• How telling the truth can get you into trouble
• McConnell's trixy tactic
• and a whole lot more...

To get links to all of the books, videos, concepts etc that we mention in the podcast, go to the episode page at RedpoleQ.com