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#77: Why Real Connection Is So Rare (And How to Find It) - Ashlee Raymond

#77: Why Real Connection Is So Rare (And How to Find It) - Ashlee Raymond

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 Ashlee Raymond is a writer, PA student, and published poet at 25 who’s amassed thousands of Substack readers in just six months by saying what nobody else will.She’s lived through elite-level figure skating, her dad’s brain cancer diagnosis, heartbreak, and a quarter-life crisis, and turned every bit of it into writing that makes strangers message her in paragraphs.Subscribe for weekly conversations on love, identity, and learning to live without a mask.You’ll learn:VALUE BULLETS–Why curiosity is a lost art, and how dating apps have completely destroyed the ability to truly know someone–The one shift that changes every relationship: “It is more intriguing to be interested in somebody than to be interesting“–How Ashlee grew thousands of Substack readers in 6 months by writing journal entries she was terrified to post–The hidden cost of hiding yourself just to be liked, and why it quite honestly makes you feel like sh*t–What years of elite figure skating taught her about identity, obsession, and losing yourself in one thing–How her dad’s brain cancer diagnosis changed her life’s direction, and why it led her to medicine–The real reason we stay in relationships we know aren’t right (it’s not stupidity, it’s neurochemistry)–Why “to be loved is to be considered”, and the moment she realised she wasn’t being considered at all–Her final advice: don’t do anything safely. Live and love a little recklessly.00:00 Why You Should Watch This Episode01:02 Substack Milestone Chat02:12 Why Curiosity Resonated03:29 Writing Letters Unsent04:53 Vulnerability as Strength07:40 Deep Talks and Loneliness14:12 Dating Apps and Masks20:25 Hidden Identity and Skating23:03 Figure Skating Reality Check26:38 Perfectionism and Fixations29:53 Rebuilding Social Life32:20 Late Blooming in Love34:26 Why She Writes About Love35:52 Choosing Better Relationships39:20 Codependency vs Growth40:25 Healthy Love and Red Flags41:23 Honeymoon Chemistry and Love Bombing42:29 False Attachment and Dad’s Diagnosis43:31 Terminal but Stable Treatment44:14 Why Medicine Matters46:05 Veteran Injury and Resilience48:46 Perspective Through Pain51:23 Acceptance and Writing to Heal52:27 Nostalgia Bias and Exes56:16 Love Languages and Reciprocity01:00:22 Asking Deeper Dating Questions01:02:29 Intentional Dating and Standards01:09:43 Quarter Life Crisis at 2501:11:28 Staying Grounded with Gratitude01:12:32 Mom and Dad’s Meet Cute01:16:03 Standards and Happiness01:17:15 Gut Feelings vs Anxiety01:20:03 Attachment Styles Evolve01:23:04 Dating in the Digital Age01:26:46 Ghosting and Guarded Hearts01:29:29 Why Love Feels Hard Now01:30:55 Support as Relationship Glue01:35:23 Balancing Ambition and People01:40:36 Friendships and Cutoffs01:43:57 Dream Life and People Pleasing01:51:27 Generational Work and Freedom01:53:54 Faith, Death, and Meaning01:57:54 Fear of Being Forgotten01:58:43 Living Fully Over Dying02:00:29 Fulfillment and No Regrets02:01:23 Defining Success and Impact02:03:28 Writing Habits and Substack02:04:45 Books and Loving the Process02:05:53 Core Inspiration to Write02:09:21 Advice from Mom Self First02:11:36 Live a Little Reckless02:13:30 Are We Built for Happiness02:15:03 Impermanence and Gratitude02:17:04 Journaling Meditation Reading02:20:52 How Fast We Change02:23:21 Aliens and Unknown Science02:26:40 Advice to Younger Self02:28:26 Wrap Up and Where to Find02:29:10 Podcast Blueprint Pitch02:31:20 Final GoodbyeBest Quote“Don’t do anything safely. You cannot experience the riches of life if you don’t take that step forward.”Ashlee’s Work:Substack: https://substack.com/@ashleewritesInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashrayray/Book - Deep Dive: https://www.amazon.com/deep-dive-Ashlee-Raymond/dp/B0DDGY36CM/ref=sr_1_1?dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.RKaSvNBj6dBRYTEzi6OUA5S0mbYYBtG4He1wwuDt55U.AhBhjaH6ivHHCDO7NRPNhw1ULUWNv0rjIW5Z3O-GjeA&dib_tag=se&keywords=deep+dive+ashlee+raymond&qid=1772535379&sr=8-1Jacob’s WorkPodcast blueprint (Skool): https://www.skool.com/remote-pro-podcast-blueprint-8385FREE Podcast Tips (2nd Channel): https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCUp5S7ZIZtjA8PMgXJMwppAYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@jacobjwatsonhowlandSpotify: Apple Podcasts: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jacobwatsonhowlandWebsite: https://www.jacobjwatsonhowland.com#relationships #GenZ #loneliness This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit naturewithjacob.substack.com
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