This week I’m responding to a Reddit thread titled:

“How the heck are we all okay with this scam?”

The post describes what so many families are living:

• Dual income just to stay afloat

• Hyper-scheduled days

• Childcare costs exploding

• Zero margin

• No real time with your own children

And the question underneath it all:

Is this just what family life is now?

In this episode, I’m not fixing it.

I’m naming it.

We explore:

• Why shrinking your life isn’t a universal solution

• Why “just spend less” misses the point

• The structural pressures shaping modern parenthood

• Why this feels personal, but isn’t

Because when you change the lens from “I’m failing” to “this system wasn’t built for families”, something shifts.

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