In this episode of The Sanctuary, the McGees share their origin story: from Edgar Allan Poe awakening something in Daddy McGee as a kid, to Baby McGee's leather-clad femme awakening in the Deep South, to the moment they both realised they'd found someone they could be fully themselves with. They break down how they navigate play partners (quality over quantity), why they always play together, and the importance of friendship before anything else.

They also dive into their viral Creepy DM Readings—how a shared experience of receiving the same copy-pasted message at a munch turned into a beloved community event where they theatrically read creepy DMs aloud while protecting the identity of the senders. The goal isn't to shame individuals; it's to shame the game.

Plus, they get real about the importance of humanising yourself in the kink community, why consent and communication are non-negotiable, and what they'd tell their younger selves (spoiler: they're just as shocked as you'd expect).

This is a conversation about trust, laughter, and what happens when you find someone who complements you in every way.

Baby & Daddy McGee have been exploring the world of kink together for well over a decade. Within the last five years, their journey has taken them into the public kink space, where they have grown to enjoy a sense of community.

Outside of kink, Baby McGee is an active member of her local community, giving time to humanitarian causes while also working as a yoga instructor.

Daddy McGee is a writer and musician, currently at work on his next project.