Have you ever been hurt by someone at church and wondered whether you should go back?

Church hurt is real. Sometimes it comes from harsh words, judgment, exclusion, or feeling misunderstood by the very people you expected to encourage you.

But what happens when that hurt begins affecting your relationship with God?

In Episode 71 of Transitional Clay, Barry Harper welcomes Cornel Campbell for an honest conversation about church hurt, Christian community, forgiveness, and healing.

Barry shares a painful experience when a prominent church member questioned why he was sitting in the back row with his young son and suggested it was a sign of living in sin.

Cornel opens up about feeling excluded from church friendships and gatherings—until a direct conversation helped him see the situation differently.

Together, they explore why relationships, communication, spiritual maturity, and forgiveness matter when navigating difficult experiences in church.

In this episode, you'll discover:

• What church hurt can look like at different stages of spiritual growth
• The difference between helpful correction and hurtful judgment
• Why one person's behavior doesn't define God's character
• How misunderstandings can create distance in Christian community
• Why honest conversations can help repair damaged relationships
• The importance of building relationships beyond Sunday services
• How to recognize whether a church community is spiritually healthy
• Why reaching out to someone who's withdrawing can make a difference
• How forgiveness and prayer can support healing after painful experiences

Barry also reflects on Psalm 34:18, which reminds us that the Lord is close to the brokenhearted.

Church hurt may change how you feel about people, but it doesn't have to determine how you see God.

This conversation isn't about dismissing real harm or telling anyone to stay in an unhealthy environment. It's about considering how faith, communication, accountability, and healthy community can help us move forward.

🎙️ Watch Episode 71 of Transitional Clay with Barry Harper and Cornel Campbell.

Join the conversation: Have you ever experienced church hurt? What helped you begin healing?

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• (00:00) - Introducing Church Hurt with Cornell Campbell
• (01:29) - What Church Hurt Looks Like
• (03:06) - When People's Actions Misrepresent God
• (04:02) - Barry's Personal Experience of Church Hurt
• (06:25) - Forgiveness After Being Hurt
• (07:35) - When Correction Becomes an Opportunity for Growth
• (10:09) - Why Relationships Matter in Church
• (12:12) - Feeling Excluded From Church Community
• (13:12) - Recognizing a Healthy Church Culture
• (15:28) - How Honest Communication Changes Perspective
• (18:43) - Church Hurt and Misunderstanding
• (20:00) - Building Trust Through Community
• (23:02) - Recognizing When Someone Is Pulling Away
• (25:09) - Reaching Out and Listening
• (27:56) - Final Encouragement