What happens when you’re the woman everyone depends on, the one who gets things done, solves problems, and carries enormous responsibility, but you’re running on empty?

In this episode of Next Level Greatness, I’m joined by my client Laura Lukefahr, a school director who has spent years making a difference in the lives of children and families.

Laura loved her work. But behind her success, she was exhausted, overwhelmed, and carrying the weight of everyone else’s needs.

She was working long days, crashing on the couch every evening, and spending her weekends recovering just to do it all over again.

Until one day, she walked into her office, closed the door, and started crying.

Something had to change.

Today, Laura describes herself as a “relaxed powerhouse.”

And what makes her story so powerful is that her responsibilities didn’t magically disappear. What changed was how she related to herself, her work, and the people around her.

In this candid conversation, we explore:

* Why being highly capable can become a pattern of taking responsibility for everything and everyone.

* Why setting boundaries isn’t always enough when the deeper pattern hasn’t changed.

* How Laura went from constant exhaustion to feeling peaceful, energized, and present in her everyday life.

* What happened when she stopped solving everyone’s problems and began trusting others to find their own solutions.

* How the work we did together inside The Reclamation helped her reconnect with herself and recognize what she truly wanted next.

* Why having a circle of powerful, self-aware women who genuinely champion one another can be so transformative.

Laura’s story is a reminder that you don’t have to stop being ambitious, capable, or deeply committed to what matters to you in order to feel fully alive.

You can be a powerhouse without burning yourself out.

Join The Reclamation — January 2027

If you’re an accomplished woman who knows she’s ready for more, but you’re tired of the patterns that keep you overfunctioning, pushing past your limits, or putting yourself last, I’d love to invite you into The Reclamation.

This is an intimate, five-month experience where we work with the patterns shaping how you live, lead, and relate to yourself and others.

Our next group begins in January 2027, and enrollment is now open.

Learn more about The Reclamation:

https://www.barbiekalev.com/the-reclamation

Connect with Laura Lukefahr

Laura is a passionate educator and school director in Orlando, Florida, with extensive experience supporting children whose learning needs don’t fit traditional educational models, including children with ADHD, dyslexia, autism, anxiety, and giftedness.

If you’re a parent looking for guidance on educational options or support for your child with special learning needs, you’re welcome to reach out to Laura about consulting.

Laura Lukefahr — Educational Consulting for children with special needs. Email Laura directly at lauralukefahr13@gmail.com.