You love your children. You want to be present, patient, and supportive.

So why can fatherhood still leave you feeling overwhelmed, triggered, or unsure whether you’re doing enough?

In this episode of Parenting on the Spectrum, Theresa Alexander Inman talks with leadership expert, executive coach, and founder of the Ambitious Dads Project, Jeff Hittner, about what modern fathers really need to thrive.

After interviewing nearly 200 dads, Jeff discovered that many men can clearly describe their career goals yet struggle to answer a much more personal question: What kind of father do I want to be?

Together, Theresa and Jeff explore emotional regulation, fatherhood confidence, vulnerability, repair, asking for help, and why being a great dad is about more than simply being present.

1. Why your child’s big emotions may trigger your own and how understanding your history can help you respond differently.

2. Why repair matters more than perfection and how apologizing, reconnecting, and allowing your children to see your vulnerability can strengthen relationships.

3. How to father with intention by moving beyond the traditional role of financial provider and becoming an emotional provider of safety, values, connection, and support.

Jeff also shares an important reminder for fathers: asking for help is not weakness. It takes strength and courage to recognize when you need support.

About Jeff:

Jeff Hittner is an executive coach, leadership expert, and founder of Ambitious Dads. After learning he could not become a biological father, Jeff reimagined what fatherhood could look like. Today, he is the proud dad of two boys.

With decades of leadership experience, including coaching CEOs across six continents, Jeff now helps fathers lead with greater courage, presence, and intention—and build a definition of success worth passing on to their children.

Explore the Ambitious Dads Project, coaching, programs, and resources for fathers:

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I’m Theresa Alexander Inman, BCBA, founder of Parenting on the Spectrum. I help parents of autistic children build communication, daily living skills, participation, and confidence through compassionate, play-based strategies rooted in connection before correction.

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