Couverture de #137: Treat Them Like Your Soulmate: Emotional Safety in Marriage with Miriam Raquel & Dovid Feldman

#137: Treat Them Like Your Soulmate: Emotional Safety in Marriage with Miriam Raquel & Dovid Feldman

#137: Treat Them Like Your Soulmate: Emotional Safety in Marriage with Miriam Raquel & Dovid Feldman

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Send us Fan MailSomatic Healing, Emotional Safety & the 5 Foundations of Marriage | Miriam Racquel & Dovid FeldmanIn this episode of From The Inside Out Podcast with Rivkah Krinsky and Eda Schottenstein, we welcome marriage helpers Miriam Racquel and Dovid Feldman, a Chabad couple who work with couples and individuals. They share their personal journey from meeting in college through different paths in Judaism, and how they now combine Dovid’s strength-based, solution-oriented therapy and 12-week Recreating Intimacy program with Miriam Racquel’s somatic mind-body healing. The conversation explores nervous system states in marriage, how to trust bodily signals while interpreting them wisely, and practical communication tools that avoid criticism and blame. They discuss rising divorce rates, social media’s anti-marriage bias, emotional regulation, “letting go” of expectations, emotional safety, receiving, and intimacy differences between men and women. They close with Torah- and Rebbe-based perspectives, quotes, and resources including their websites and books.SPONSORSSwimplyToday's episode is sponsored by Swimply — the app that lets you book a private pool by the hour, no crowds, no chaos, just your own space to swim with your family. With pools available across all 50 states, it's an easy, private way to plan a fun summer outing. Use code INSIDEOUT10 for 10% off your next booking.🔗 Swimply.comHeart & Mind MattersThis episode is also sponsored in part by Heart & Mind Matters, a ready-to-use social skills curriculum created by Henny Moskowitz for therapists, teachers, and social workers. Built from real sessions and years of hands-on experience, it takes the guesswork out of lesson planning with goal-oriented worksheets, activities, and games — already trusted by over 100 therapists, educators, and parents.🔗 https://go.jcn.io/hmioBasically KidsBasically kids offers everyday kids' clothing essentials at everyday prices, perfect for the new season when everyone's suddenly scrambling for polos, pants, and anything to fit kids who somehow grew three inches over the summer. It's made for busy parents: shop the link below, or just text your sizes to 833-588-8332 and they'll take care of the rest.🔗 https://go.jcn.io/sbioAtzmiAtzmi runs evidence-based, Torah-grounded programs — including My Best Self — helping girls build real confidence and measure their worth by who they are, not the world's standards. Active in 80+ schools. Save the date for their ambassador's evening with Bracha Jaffe, August 30th.Learn more & register: https://go.jcn.io/AtzmiIOGUEST BIOSDovid FeldmanDovid Feldman is a marriage coach and licensed therapist with over 30 years of experience — professionally and in his own marriage — helping couples rebuild trust, communication, and intimacy. His 12-week program works with each spouse individually and centers on his "five foundations of marriage": appreciation, communicating without criticism, compassionate listening, loving boundaries, and consistent intimacy. He hosts the "Building Great Marriages" podcast. Learn more at dovidfeldman.com.Miriam RacquelMiriam Racquel is a somatic healer, marriage coach, and trauma & anxiety specialist who helps women access the wisdom of their body and intuition to create clarity, safety, and passion in their relationships. She's the author of "God Said What?!" and runs Your Marriage Magic, offering marriage and dating coaching for women. Learn more at miriamracquel.com and yourmarriagemagic.com.CHAPTERS00:00 Welcome and Guest Intro04:06 Tzedakah Moment Pushka App04:39 Meet Miriam and Dovid05:24 Dovid Origin Story07:28 Miriam Journey to Judaism10:52 How They Work With Clients13:08 Therapy Approach and Program17:40 Somatics and Nervous System20:55 Body Signals vs Interpretation22:47 Everyday Trigger Example27:45 Deep Patterns and Resentment30:44 Why Divorce Rates Rising32:46 Choosing Happiness in Marriage37:03 Chuppah Doubts and Mind Stories43:10 Why Receiving Feels Hard43:25 Five Blocks to Receiving44:50 Reopening After Hurt46:59 Dating Like a Gentleman47:58 Emotional Safety First50:36 Five Foundations Begin54:16 No Criticism Rule55:15 Reframing Instead of Critique58:05 Four Step Communication01:04:28 Repeat Requests Without Nagging01:08:58 Letting Go Expectations01:13:02 Intimacy Story Let Go01:18:01 When Traits Annoy You01:18:41 Why Criticism Creates Distance01:19:37 Reframing Differences as Growth01:20:37 War Survivor to Baal Chessed01:24:39 Five Foundations That Work01:26:13 Tools Therapy and Their Books01:29:05 Torah Advice for Newlyweds01:32:31 Soulmate Mindset and Regulation01:34:31 What Men and Women Long For01:40:39 Intimacy Needs and Scheduling01:46:27 Closing Quotes and HopeCOMMUNITYJoin the Community! Connect with us on socials to discuss Episode 101, share insights, and continue the conversations you want to have:💫 Instagram https://www.instagram.com/fromtheinsideout.podcast/ 💫 Whatsapp: https://...
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