Ever wonder why looking at Instagram makes you feel "stuck" or less capable? It’s not just a bad habit—it’s biology. In this episode, we’re breaking down the "One-Sided Beef" we have with people who don't even know we exist and why your brain is hardwired to notice relative differences.

We’ll cover:

• The Psychology of Envy: Why evolution designed your brain to notice social hierarchies and how to use that as a growth signal.
• Benign vs. Malicious Envy: The study that proves "Benign Envy" can increase your grit and performance by 65%.
• The Self-Trust Audit: Linking the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology’s research on Self-Discrepancy to why you’re hyper-vulnerable to comparison.
• The Scarcity "Bandwidth Tax": Why a scarcity mindset makes you temporarily less effective (and how to reclaim your mental power).
• Mirror Neurons & Neural Coupling: The science behind why the 5 people you watch and listen to are literally "rehearsing" your future for you.

Stop comparing your Chapter 2 to someone else’s Chapter 22. Tune in to learn how to rewire your brain for abundance and start running your own race.

It’s February. The New Year's hype has faded, and for many of us, the "sh*t" has already hit the fan. But here’s the truth: You haven't failed your resolutions—you’re currently building them through the fire.

In the debut episode, we’re diving into why life is like a game of football: you're going to miss sitters, trip over the ball, and lose games you should have won. But as neuroscientist Dr. Nancy Michael proves, that "friction" you feel isn't a sign to quit; it’s the metabolic cost of your brain physically rewiring itself.

Today we cover:

• Why your brain needs "the sh*t" to stay adaptive.

• The "Renovation Mindset": Tearing down old neural pathways to build a Pro identity.

• The 100% Rule: Why giving your all looks different every single day.

• How to move from "Victim" to "Architect" before the whistle blows.

Stop waiting to "feel" like it. Take your feelings out of it and get back on the pitch. Reflection and progress. Let’s work!

Look, life is messy. Sh*t happens. And when it does, it’s so easy to get stuck—overthinking, procrastinating, paralysed by anxiety, making everything all or nothing, pondering on decisions like our lives depend on them. Sometimes we feel like bad things only happen to us, and we retreat into our own world.

But here’s the truth: shift happens 😉 That’s life. And it can actually be exciting—if we learn to shift our mindset from lost to locked in.