If your marriage feels like it’s stuck in the same emotional loops—arguments that never fully resolve, closeness followed by distance, or a loneliness you can feel even when you’re together

—this episode is for you. In this conversation, we talk about what CPTSD can look like inside a marriage, especially when one or both partners grew up in environments that felt unsafe, unpredictable, or emotionally neglectful. Not in a clinical or diagnostic way—but through real-life patterns that quietly shape connection, conflict, and communication.

We explore why traditional relationship advice often falls short when nervous systems are dysregulated, and how repeated stress or trauma can make even loving relationships feel fragile and exhausting. Most importantly, this episode focuses on what actually helps.

You’ll learn why safety has to come before strategy, why regulation matters more than “saying it right,” and how to stop carrying all the emotional weight by yourself. This isn’t about blame or labels—it’s about understanding what’s really happening so you can respond with clarity, steadiness, and self-respect. If you’ve been thinking, “I see the patterns… now what?”—this conversation will help you take the next step.

Watch full episode: What CPTSD Looks Like in Marriage (and What to Do About It)