Dear Son: Your Intent Doesn't Change How It Went - Real Talks on Accountability and Relationships

On this first-ever live episode of the Dear Son, Show, hosts Jey Blac and D Johns discuss the importance of intent versus outcome in personal and family relationships. The conversation covers multiple angles, including father-son dynamics, the impact of delivery over intent, and the nuances of loving someone the way they need to be loved. Insightful audience interactions address practical examples such as dealing with curfews, academic standards, and maintaining relationships. This thought-provoking discussion emphasizes accountability and self-awareness in nurturing healthy relationships, both within families and with significant others.

00:00 Introduction and Welcome

00:13 First Live Show Excitement

01:10 Topic Introduction: Intent vs. Outcome

02:21 Parenting Insights: Intentions and Actions

07:02 Personal Anecdotes and Lessons

10:02 Setting Standards and Consequences

21:05 Relationship Advice: Understanding Love

26:07 Lessons from My Marriage

27:11 The Importance of Communication

28:43 Intent vs. Action in Relationships

32:21 The Role of Accountability

35:03 Personal Anecdotes and Reflections

37:58 Navigating Expectations and Standards

48:45 Final Thoughts and Reflections

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