Why do you keep feeling drawn to women who can't meet you emotionally, while overlooking those who actually want you?
In this episode, David breaks down the unconscious drivers of attraction, attachment patterns, and nervous system conditioning that shape who we desire. You'll learn why attraction is not a conscious choice, how childhood attachment wiring influences adult dating, and what it actually takes to rewire attraction toward healthy, secure relationships.

This is not surface-level dating advice. It's deep work on responsibility, self-awareness, and emotional maturity for men who want real connection.

Key Topics:

⭐ Why attraction is unconscious, not a logical choice

⭐ The limbic system and emotional pattern recognition

⭐ How childhood attachment shapes adult relationships

⭐ Why emotionally unavailable partners feel intoxicating

⭐ Intermittent reinforcement and dating addiction

⭐ Anxious vs avoidant attachment dynamics

⭐ Why secure partners often feel "boring" at first

⭐ Projection and falling in love with fantasy

⭐ How confirmation bias keeps you stuck in dating loops

⭐ Why insight alone doesn't change attraction

⭐ Nervous system regulation and rewiring attraction

⭐ Reframing chemistry as a signal, not truth

⭐ Building attraction toward safety, stability, and intimacy

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