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#127: Stop Affirming. Start Asking. The Fastest Way to Goal Achievement

#127: Stop Affirming. Start Asking. The Fastest Way to Goal Achievement

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In this episode, I challenge one of the most common personal development habits—affirmations—and introduce a far more powerful alternative. If confidence feels inconsistent… if discipline fades when motivation disappears… and if you know what to do but still struggle to execute, this conversation is for you. We explore why asking better questions—specifically yes-or-no "Will you?" questions—creates faster, more sustainable behavior change than statements, goals, or affirmations ever could. Drawing on decades of behavioral research, identity psychology, and real-world golf and life examples, I break down how questions engage your subconscious, eliminate excuses, and leverage cognitive dissonance to pull you into action—especially when you don't feel like it. In this episode, you'll learn: Why affirmations often fail to create lasting behavior changeHow asking "Will you?" activates confidence and ownershipThe psychology behind cognitive dissonance—and how to use itWhy yes/no questions eliminate excuses and justificationsHow identity-based questions reinforce discipline under pressureThe subtle but critical difference between can I and will IHow to use questions to execute when motivation is gone This is a tactical yet deeply transformational episode designed to help you strengthen discipline, upgrade your self-talk, and accelerate becoming the version of yourself required to achieve your biggest goals—on the course and in life. Get your pencils ready and start listening. P.S. Curious to learn more about the results my clients are experiencing and what they say about working with me? Read more here. Play to Your Potential On (and Off) the Course Schedule a Mindset Coaching Discovery CallSubscribe to the More Pars than Bogeys NewsletterDownload my "Play Your Best Round" free hypnosis audio recording. High-Performance Hypnotherapy and Mindset Coaching Paul Salter - known as The Golf Hypnotherapist - is a High-Performance Hypnotherapist and Mindset Coach who leverages hypnosis and powerful subconscious reprogramming techniques to help golfers of all ages and skill levels overcome the mental hazards of their minds so they can shoot lower scores and play to their potential. He has over 16 years of coaching experience working with high performers in various industries, helping them get unstuck, out of their own way, and unlock their full potential. Click here to learn more about how high-performance hypnotherapy and mindset coaching can help you get out of your own way and play to your potential on (and off) the course. Instagram: @thegolfhypnotherapist Key Takeaways: Confidence is built through your relationship with yourself—especially your self-talk.Questions engage your brain more powerfully than statements or affirmations."Will you?" implies ownership, commitment, and action—not possibility.Yes/no questions remove the mental loopholes that fuel excuses.Cognitive dissonance pushes behavior to align with identity.Discipline is strengthened when actions answer questions—not feelings.Asking better questions accelerates becoming who you want to be. Key Quotes: "Confidence is intoxicating—and one of its strongest predictors is how you talk to yourself.""Questions engage you; statements let you hide.""When you ask 'Will you?' there's no room for excuses—only action.""Cognitive dissonance is the discomfort that pulls you toward who you want to become.""Discipline is doing what needs to be done when you don't feel like it.""Your actions don't follow motivation—they follow identity.""The answer to who you'll become lies in the question 'Will you?'" Time Stamps: 00:00: The Power of Belief and Self-Talk02:58: Welcome Back: The Journey of Self-Improvement04:34: Upgrading Self-Talk: The Importance of Questions14:17: Cognitive Dissonance: Bridging the Gap to Your Best Self19:27: Taking Action: The Path to Becoming Your Best Self
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