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  • Think and Grow Better: A Simple Guide to Reaching Your Goals
    Feb 17 2026

    This week’s conversation is inspired by the principles in Think and Grow Rich, but instead of reviewing the book, we explore what those ideas look like when applied to real life.

    We talk about the difference between wanting something and committing to it, how clarity of purpose changes the way you make decisions, and why belief isn’t just motivational language—it’s something built through repetition, action, and follow-through. The discussion centers on how mindset, persistence, and personal responsibility show up in everyday habits, creative work, and long-term goals.

    Rather than chasing quick results, this episode looks at the slower process of aligning your thoughts, actions, and standards so progress becomes sustainable. We also unpack the tension between discipline and doubt, and why growth often requires continuing to act even when outcomes aren’t visible yet.

    This is a conversation about applying timeless success principles in a modern context—less about wealth in the traditional sense, and more about building focus, direction, and consistency in the areas of life that matter most.

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    25 min
  • Why Self-Doubt Shows Up When You’re Actually Growing
    Feb 9 2026

    Self-doubt is something almost everyone experiences — but very few people know how to talk about honestly. In this episode of Who Thought We’d Be Here?, we explore what self-doubt actually is, where it comes from, and how it shows up when you’re trying to grow, change, or move into a new chapter of life.

    Rather than framing self-doubt as something to eliminate or “fix,” this conversation looks at why doubt often appears during moments of transition, ambition, and self-reflection. We talk about the relationship between self-doubt and identity, how comparison and overthinking fuel insecurity, and why confidence isn’t the absence of doubt — it’s learning how to move forward with it.

    This episode also touches on how self-doubt can affect creativity, relationships, discipline, and decision-making, especially when you care deeply about the direction your life is going. We unpack the difference between healthy self-awareness and destructive inner criticism, and why learning to sit with uncertainty is a necessary part of personal growth.

    If you’ve ever questioned your path, second-guessed your decisions, or felt stuck between who you are and who you’re trying to become, this episode offers a grounded, honest perspective on navigating self-doubt without letting it define you.

    This isn’t about hype or motivation — it’s about understanding the inner tension that comes with becoming more intentional, self-aware, and aligned with the life you want to build.

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    29 min
  • Renew, Reset, Release: A New Approach to Having the Best Year of Your Life
    Feb 2 2026

    This episode of "Who Thought We'd Be Here?" introduces the Renew, Reset, Release framework, a three-pillar system designed to help you move beyond traditional New Year's resolutions and create lasting, meaningful change.

    The episode critiques the "hustle culture" approach to new beginnings, arguing that adding more goals to an already overwhelmed life is a recipe for burnout. Instead, it proposes a sequential process of clearing out the old before inviting in the new.

    Stop Hustling. Start Resetting. 🔄 Tired of the same New Year's resolutions that never stick? In this episode, we break down the Renew, Reset, Release framework—a 3-step system to help you reclaim your energy and design the best year of your life.

    What you’ll learn:

    Why "adding more" is the reason most goals fail.

    How to conduct a personal energy audit (Renew).

    The secret to building systems that actually stick (Reset).

    How to let go of the baggage holding you back (Release).


    #LifeReset #GoalSetting #PersonalDevelopment #Productivity #RenewResetRelease

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    56 min
  • Who Thought We’d Be Here? A 2025 Reflection + Our 2026 Vision
    Jan 26 2026

    In this episode of Who Thought We’d Be Here?, we take a thoughtful look at the podcast’s 2025 — the areas where the show grew, the conversations that resonated most, and what we learned about consistency, depth, and community.

    We talk openly about where the podcast performed well and where we know we can do better. From episode frequency and content cadence to expanding the types of conversations we’re having, this episode breaks down how we’re intentionally improving the show in the year ahead.

    Looking toward 2026, we share our vision for growth: more episodes, more content, stronger storytelling, and a brighter, more focused future for the podcast. This is about building momentum, staying aligned with our values, and continuing to create conversations that actually matter.

    If you’ve been listening, supporting, or just found the show, this episode offers a clear look at where Who Thought We’d Be Here? is headed next.

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    39 min
  • From Childhood Grief to Running Marathons: How I Became the Man I Always Needed When I Was a Kid | EP079
    Nov 24 2025

    In this deeply personal and motivating conversation, marathon runner Ryan Carney opens up about the experiences that shaped him — from getting cut from his childhood soccer team, to losing his father at just ten years old, to discovering running as a lifeline, a discipline, and eventually a mission.

    Ryan shares how running became the place where he could confront grief, build identity, and learn who he truly was. He explains why he believes running is the only sport where everyday people can truly measure themselves against the best in the world, and why “never finding your ceiling” is what keeps him pushing harder.

    The episode dives into fatherhood, resiliency, and mental health as Ryan reveals the real stories behind his self-belief: the shame of hiding his father’s death as a kid, the lessons his mother taught him about holding pain, and how running became both therapy and purpose. He talks about burnout, discipline, and the myth that fitness can fix everything — emphasizing that running alone doesn’t solve mental health struggles.

    By the end, Ryan reflects on what it means to show up for your kids, how self-belief borders on healthy delusion, and why ordinary people can accomplish extraordinary things by simply — and consistently — taking the next step.

    It’s raw, emotional, inspiring, and a powerful look at what running, fatherhood, and healing truly teach us.

    You can find Ryan on Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/ryjcarney/

    As well as the Hudson Valley Track Club: https://www.instagram.com/hudsonvalleytrackclub/


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    1 h et 37 min
  • Brian Galligan Returns: Following Your Passion & Choosing Integrity over Clickbait | EP078
    Oct 27 2025

    In this powerful episode of Who Thought We’d Be Here?, Brian Galligan is back again to talk about what it really means to rebuild yourself from the ground up. From battling insecurity and addiction to launching the Ikonical podcast and Top Dog Coverage, Brian opens up about the mindset shifts that helped him transform his pain into power.

    We talk about what happens when you stop chasing “Plan B” and finally make your dream your “Plan A.” From quitting drinking to finding clarity in purpose, Brian shares how staying curious, disciplined, and passionate helped him turn his creative vision into a reality.

    The conversation dives deep into:
    🔥 The power of reinvention and personal growth
    🏈 How football and scouting became his purpose
    💬 Why authentic storytelling and integrity matter in podcasting and media
    💡 How to keep learning and evolving at any age
    🧠 What it takes to stay disciplined after overcoming addiction
    ❤️ Why vulnerability and connection are the keys to creativity
    🎯 How to balance ambition with presence and gratitude

    Brian also breaks down the “Who, What, Where, When, Why” method he uses to ask better questions — a masterclass in interviewing and human connection that every podcaster or creator can learn from.

    This episode isn’t just about football or podcasting — it’s about how to show up for yourself when no one else does. It’s about turning setbacks into stepping stones and staying true to your values even when it’s not the popular route.

    If you’re chasing a dream, reinventing yourself, or trying to find meaning in the chaos — this episode will light you up.

    Check out Brian's NFL scouting coverage and podcast here:
    https://topdawgcoverage.com/podcast
    https://www.instagram.com/topdawgcoverage

    And the Ikonical brand here:
    https://ikonicalwear.com/
    https://www.instagram.com/ikonicalwear

    00:00 – Welcome Back
    03:00 – The Story Behind Ikonical
    08:15 – Turning Passion Into a Career
    11:45 – Escaping Negativity & Comfort Zones
    16:00 – Discovering Purpose Through Football
    22:00 – Integrity Over Clickbait
    28:45 – Hot Takes & Sports Media Debates
    34:30 – Accountability and Respect in the Industry
    39:00 – The Power of Mentorship
    44:00 – Staying a Lifelong Learner
    50:00 – Childhood Struggles & Feeling Underestimated
    58:30 – Quitting Drinking & Rebuilding Focus
    1:03:00 – Vulnerability and Storytelling in Podcasting
    1:10:30 – The Art of Asking Better Questions
    1:18:00 – Authenticity and Friendship
    1:25:00 – Learning to Be Present & Read the Room
    1:31:00 – What’s Next for Iconical and Top Dog Coverage
    1:38:00 – Behind the Scenes of College Scouting
    1:46:00 – The Passion and Energy of Game Day
    1:53:00 – Final Reflections on Growth and Purpose

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    2 h et 5 min
  • Steve’s First Marathon & JP’s New Chapter: Learning to Let Go of Expectations & Step into Growth | EP077
    Oct 20 2025

    In this episode, the guys take a breath and reflect on two big turning points in their lives — Steve running his first marathon, and JP stepping into a new relationship. What starts as a casual catch-up unfolds into a deeper conversation about showing up for yourself, embracing discomfort, and learning how to open your heart again.

    Steve shares the highs and lows of race day: the nerves at the start line, the mental walls at mile 20, and the quiet pride that comes from finishing something that once felt impossible. Meanwhile, JP talks about the vulnerability and excitement of being in a new romantic relationship, learning to let go of old patterns, and what it means to build something real while still figuring yourself out.

    Together, they explore how discipline, patience, and presence are universal — whether you’re chasing a finish line or opening up to someone new. It’s an honest, grounded reminder that growth doesn’t always look the way you expect, but it’s always worth it when you keep showing up.

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    37 min
  • Gratitude, Growth & Faith: The Self Improvement Episode | EP076
    Sep 22 2025

    In this solo episode of Who Thought We’d Be Here?, JP and Steve step back from interviews to share an honest check-in on their own self-improvement journeys. The conversation centers on the practices and mindsets they’re working on right now — slowing down to stay present, letting go of expectations that create unnecessary pressure, and rebuilding mindfulness routines that keep them grounded through both challenges and successes.

    They also explore the role of gratitude in everyday life, reflecting on how easy it is to overlook the good when caught up in old habits or future worries. Along the way, they open up about fears shaped by childhood, the tendency to wait for “the other shoe to drop,” and how past narratives can quietly shape present choices.

    The dialogue eventually turns toward faith and spirituality, with both hosts discussing how leaning into deeper meaning — even when it feels uncertain — has started to provide a new sense of purpose. By the end, JP and Steve remind listeners that self-improvement isn’t about perfection or quick fixes, but about practicing presence, gratitude, and trust in ways that make life richer and more intentional.

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    42 min