Season 4: Episode 14

We’ve all been there. Everything’s rolling smoothly, contracts signed, vision boards in place… and then suddenly, your vendor goes quiet. Like crickets quiet.

In this episode, Tamesha Kinloch Carter — Editor-in-Chief of The Planner Wedding Magazine and the creative force behind FMTY Weddings & Events, gets real about what to do when vendors disappear and communication breaks down. She dives into how to protect your peace, your wedding day, and your investment without losing your cool.

In This Episode:

• How to tell the difference between a “slow response” and a “silent disappearance.”

• The real reason vendor burnout happens (and what that means for you).

• Why strong contracts, deposits, and paper trails are non-negotiable.

• Red flags before you book and how to spot them early.

• A real-life story of when a vendor ghosted and how Tamesha saved the day.

Listen if you’re:

• A couple planning your wedding and feeling nervous about communication breakdowns.

• A new planner learning how to navigate vendor accountability.

• Or someone who just needs to hear the truth — not the sugarcoated version.

About the Host:

Tamesha Kinloch Carter is the Editor-in-Chief of The Planner Wedding Magazine, CEO of FMTY Weddings & Events, and the voice behind Did You Say Something…, where wedding planning meets lifestyle and real talk.

Because in this business, silence isn’t golden, it’s a signal.