The reason you haven’t started ballet yet probably isn’t what you think.

In today’s episode of What’s the F**king Point(e)?, we’re breaking down the 7 mindset patterns that kill your dreams before they even take shape. From comparison to scarcity to perfectionism and everything in between, we’re tackling it all, baby!

In this episode, we talk about:

• Poorly defined goals (what does “being a ballerina” even mean to you?)
• Imposter syndrome in dance • Scarcity and competition in the ballet world
• Comparison (the helpful kind vs. the toxic kind)
• Perfectionism that keeps you stuck
• Limiting beliefs about being “too late”
• Self-sabotage when opportunities finally show up

Whether you’re an aspiring ballerina, an adult beginner, or someone struggling with embracing the dancer’s mindset, this episode will help you recognize the patterns that keep you from dancing to your fullest potential and what happens when you stop letting them run the show.

If any of this episode resonated with you, subscribe to the show for more honest conversations about adult ballet, mental health, and becoming who you were always meant to be.

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Hi there! I'm Veronica, welcome to my beginner dance journey. When I was 17, I was told by a teacher that I would never be a ballerina. I let that thought control me for YEARS but now, in my late 20s, I moved to New York City and I'm finally starting ballet late. This is a space for me to document the ups and downs of learning how to do ballet in my 20s and show anyone that it's never too late to live your dreams.

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At 27, I moved to New York City to start ballet for the very first time in my life.

While it was an exhilarating experience filled with so much good, the past few years have also been full of unexpected obstacles to overcome: divorce, death, loss, an unlivable apartment, financial strain.

This video is about what it actually looks like to pursue ballet as an adult even when life is crazyyyyy.

As an adult ballerina training in NYC, I had to navigate grief, financial instability, and mental health and physical health struggles while still showing up to class.

This is for the dancers who are struggling to find the motivation to continue to pursuing their dreams because adult life is so overwhelming. If you’re a ballerina rebuilding your life after divorce, an artist navigating financial uncertainty, or a dancer who started “late” but refuses to give up, this one is for you.

In this video, I share: • What moving to New York to follow my ballet dream really cost • How personal loss and instability affected my mental health • Why adult ballet is as much emotional endurance as physical training • How I found meaning and purpose in the middle of the chaos

If you’ve ever wondered whether it’s too late to start ballet at 27, or whether you can keep pursuing your dream even when it feels like everything is falling apart, this video is for you.

I’m Veronica, an adult ballerina documenting what it looks like chase your dreams, take your passions seriously, even when no one understands why you’re doing it.

If any of this episode resonated with you, subscribe for more honest conversations about adult ballet, mental health, and becoming who you are meant to be.

The story of how I moved to NYC & started pursuing ballet at 27: https://www.youtube.com/watch?si=1seysIlGmOdK1YFW&v=psScYqNQQLw&feature=youtu.be