In this episode of Carla Turned On, Carla Romo breaks down what truly makes a relationship healthy—especially amid Valentine's Day pressure and romanticized chaos. She explains why healthy love feels calm, why communication and conflict matter, and why body count and sexual history should be about safety and honesty, not shame.

What You'll Learn

• Choosing the right partner matters more than romance

• Valentine's Day can create unrealistic pressure

• Healthy relationships include conflict and communication

• Chaos does not equal passion

• Love should feel calm and secure

• Body count does not define worth or health

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Sound Bites

• "Chaos does not equal passion."

• "You have to earn the love."

• "Body count does not matter."

Chapters

00:00 — Carla's Honeymoon Fiasco & Why Who You Marry Matters

05:59 — Valentine's Day

10:28 — What Is Actually a Healthy Relationship—and What Is Not

29:09 — Sexual History & Body Count

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