If you’ve ever wondered why some relationships feel easy while others feel confusing, tense, or emotionally draining, this conversation may change how you see them entirely.

In this episode of Her New Lens, we explore how misunderstanding — not incompatibility — often sits at the heart of relationship tension. Together, we look at difference through a softer lens, moving beyond labels and into deeper awareness, compassion, and connection.

We talk about why we so quickly make meaning out of behavior, how easily we take things personally, and what begins to shift when we understand how differently people move through the world. Because often what feels like resistance is simply a misunderstanding.

This conversation with Marita Littauer offers a calmer, more spacious way to understand conflict — not by changing others, but by changing how we see.

If you take one thing from this episode, let it be this:

👉 The people in your life are not difficult. They are different.

Learn about Marita Littauer here.

00:00 Origins of Personality Work

02:05 Identity and Baggage

03:38 Finding Your True Self

05:23 Types and Color Wheel

06:48 Words and Definitions

08:23 Using Type for Growth

12:01 Strengths Not Excuses

14:02 Marriage and Opposites

18:53 Reading People Without Tests

24:23 Do Personalities Change

25:28 Applying Your Type Today

28:20 A New Lens for Peace

32:21 Closing Takeaway